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The Hell Can't I Find A Good Man?: From A Man's Point Of View Paperback: 200 pages
Part I: MEN There is no delicate way to say it; Men build their entire agenda around The Panty, this is the essence of it all. Men always want to 'HIT IT'.
(A) for ONE NIGHT, because you are open and he can; Which one are you? You have to padlock your panties until you figure his true intentions for you; A, B, or C. If you are a woman, you are being hunted, every day of your life, some women more than others; at work, at play, or in the streets. Whether you like it or not, eyes are on you, critiquing, analyzing, admiring, watching, and studying you. Sometimes you can tell, other times you may not be able. How do you handle it? How do you decide who gets an interview? Who gets up to bat? It isn't easy determining who is genuinely seeking to know you, and who the wolf in sheep's clothing is. There is no foolproof way of coming to a rational decision about who to trust. Honest open interaction must become the new order, and women need new rules and guidelines for men to follow. Dating can be a precarious exercise, and women must collectively begin to address this issue, to ensure that the dangerous elements are discouraged and the wolves are exposed. Our interaction up to now has left behind too many broken hearts, too many divorces, too many single-parent families and too much deception and mistrust. However, I am not claiming that men are totally at fault here. Men adapt to suit the environment created by women. They study your likes and dislikes, reinvent themselves to be what they think you want, and then they appear like Godsends into your life. Women must learn new techniques to mandate the level of integrity in relationships. Remember, men always want something from you. You must figure out what they want and if you have it to give, and make better choices about whom to give it. Take it from me, men aren't going to change by themselves, women are going to have to set the wheels of change in motion. Women are going to have to change themselves, and their methods of interacting with men, as mothers, sisters, and girlfriends; intimate or platonic. Women have to learn to be more empathetic to each other, by discouraging the activities of the men that confuse and wreak havoc in their collective lives. As I see it, women have to respect each other, and force men to respect the bond between them. Ask yourself How can I knowingly cheat with another woman's man and not expect to be cheated on? Cheating women hurt each other, and encourage men to continue to cheat. Men are very goal oriented when it comes to getting a piece of ass; no expense, distance, or even danger can deter them in their pursuit when they truly set their mind on it. Their single-mindedness is bewildering. Yet, often, it's these same brothers who cannot stay focused long enough to earn a GED or complete a college tenure, which, of course would benefit him much more than the panty-agenda he is pursuing so desperately. When women begin to understand how relentless men are in their hunt, they truly begin to comprehend the mindset that they are up against. It's a Panty-Hunt and you are the prey.
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