Essence Atkins was born in New York City on February 7,
1972. Between her innate sense of comedy and girl-next-door charm, it makes
sense that she has become one of Hollywood's most sought-after talents. Last
year, she played a lead role in Dance Flick, a spoof of the dance genre
produced by the Wayans Brothers.
Kam Williams: Hi Essence, thanks for the ti
Essence Atkins: No problem, whatsoever.
KW: What interested you in playing Suzanne on Are We There Yet?
EA: Just the desire to play a mom, wanting to play someone actually closer to who I am and where I am in my life. People are used to seeing me play the single, hot girl, which has been fun, but at the same time, this role is more akin to my natural proclivities. [Laughs]
KW: I know you got married a year ago. Congratulations! You sound like you might be planning to have children soon.
EA: We're in the practicing phase. I keep asking the coach to put me in the game. So, we'll see. [LOL]
KW: Did your friends think you were crazy for marrying a man you met on the internet?
EA: Yeah, they did think I was nuts. Everyone was like, "Why do you need to meet someone on Match.com?" My response was, "I certainly don't need to meet more of the same broke, acting class guys that I'd been dating my whole life." I needed to change that whole paradigm. So, I decided to meet some corporate guys and see how that worked. So, I went on Match, but I didn't put a picture up, because I'm on television, and I didn't want anybody contacting me for the wrong reasons. So, I had to do the hunting, as it were. I didn't anticipate meeting my husband online, but there he was. And it all worked out!
KW: Were you at all intimidated by the fact that Are We There Yet had first been a hit on the big screen and that your character had been played by Nia Long?
EA: Of course. It was an established franchise with fans, and any time you step into that it's a bit overwhelming. But [Ice] Cube has been great, and so encouraging and supportive not only playing my big brother but as an executive producer, at least when he's not completely intimidating as the godfather of gangsta' rap. [Laughs] But, no, he gives us the freedom to do what we need to do, and his sanctioning has definitely helped.
KW: And what new are you bringing to the character, Suzanne?
EA: It just gets deeper, because the storyline is really about the new family and the new journey. Six months into the marriage you get to see her cope with all these different agendas. Besides the fact that that she's been a single-mom and raising these two kids by herself, all of a sudden it dawns on her that she has to incorporate someone else's way of doing things. And that's the source of a lot of the comedy.
KW: I know you're from New York. Where did you grow up?
EA: St. Albans
KW: So did I, small world. Where did you go to high school?
EA: I attended Professional Children's School in Manhattan because my ballet and modern dance schedules were intensive and had started to interfere with regular school hours. I used to take the bus to the subway, and then three trains to the school. But it was from there that I got my very first opportunity to audition, and the next thing I knew I was on The Cosby Show.
KW: Did you leave dance behind at that point?
EA: I did. I saw the check, and that was it. Besides, most dancers' bodies are kind of broken down by 30, and they have to retire.
KW: Is there any question no one ever asks you, that you wish someone would?
EA: Sure, where do I want the seven-figure wire transfer sent? That's a good one that nobody's ever asked me. [LOL] Seriously, I do want to clear up that my husband [Jaime Mendez] is not a dirty old man. He's only a year older than me, despite the grey hair. Let's clarify that, and that I'm not related to Tia or Tamera [Mowry]. I did play their real brother's [Tahj Mowry] sister on Smart Guy, but there's no relation. What else? Yes, my middle name is Uhura after Lieutenant Uhura on Star Trek. And I was probably conceived in a roller skating rink, but I don't really want to talk about that.
KW: And where did the name Essence come from?
EA: My mother was convinced she was having a boy, so she only came up with boys' names. Thankfully, my father came up with an alternative, otherwise you'd be interviewing a Jeff Atkins with a very high voice.
KW: Why Essence?
EA: He explained to mother that, if it's a girl, she'll be the essence of everything that's good and beautiful in you.
KW: Aww, how sweet.
EA: Yeah, that was very nice, but it was also probably the last nice moment between them, because they split up shortly thereafter. [LOL]
KW: The Tasha Smith question: Are you ever afraid?
EA: Am I ever afraid? Yes. And when I am, that means I should do it.
KW: The Columbus Short question: Are you happy?
EA: Very, extremely, blissfully so. Even in my pain, I'm happy. I like crying. It makes me feel alive. Challenges, when you're in a tumultuous situation, are an opportunity to grow, an opportunity to get closer to God, an opportunity to find and kind of reform yourself, and to figure out what really matters and what your priorities are. Not that I'm welcoming tribulation, but I find that it is beneficial.
KW: The Teri Emerson question: When was the last time you had a good laugh?
EA: A couple of hours ago when Terry [Crews] was telling a story. I laughed really hard even though it was the second time I'd heard it. It didn't matter because it's such a good story it makes me laugh just thinking about it actually. [Chuckles]
KW: The bookworm Troy Johnson question: What was the last book you read?
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