@Troy please stop with the generalizations! There are far too many successful men who in public acknowledge they were raised by their mothers (ONLY).
Still women don't raise "boys" they raise adults. Parents raise adults those who don't soon find they have grown-azz babies on their hands.
AND it appears that @Chevdove knows her son and the young women he attracts better than he knows himself.
She was well in her right to pull him aside and remind him of how this "fatal" attraction could go south...and then next thing you know we'd have a Justin Fairfax-like scandal.
Note: Chevdove is his mother. Which is far different than the conversation we've had here where some men think it's their job to raise their love interest.