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This is nothing new.
I've always been attracted to older women, even when I was in my teens.

I just think it's a shame that all of a sudden it NOW becomes a trend as opposed to when I was in my teens and 20s and many of the older women would laugh at me when I tried to talk to them.
You don't find younger men attractive UNTIL or UNLESS your friends tell you it's OK and acceptable.....then it becomes the "in" thing???

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@Pioneer1 as you get older I assume your desire for older women has changed to younger women. When you were 25 you may have lusted after the 50-year-old Sista in the video. I assume this has not continued to hold true, as that would mean you would be lusting after 80-year-old women today.

 

I suspect you are probably now attracted to women close to or age or younger rather than older women.  Is that true?

 

I watched the first 60 seconds watching the rest of video does not interest me in the least. 

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Actually no, my attraction to older women remains!

I find a lot of women in their 70s HIGHLY attractive!
I was never turned off by a FEW wrinkles and a LITTLE cellulite.....lol.

I've actually seen a couple women over 80 attractive though I wouldn't do anything with them sexually out of concern for harming them.
Either giving them a hip fracture or a heart attack.

Don't get me wrong, I've seen women in their 20s and 30s who are very attractive too, but my preference still remains in the 50 and above range.

Menopause is real....lol...but it's more than just sex that I'm attracted to but that "content older woman" vibe.

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Younger, testosterone-filled men usually try their hand at older women mainly for s8x, food and money. They're adding a notch to their conquest belt.

 

Also, younger men don't want to deal with the 1) competition and 2) drama and 3) pregnancies that come with dating among their peers.

 

Conversely, older women like to think they're still attractive and full of vigor. While older women are hitting their stride s8xually, the men in their age group are running  out of gas on several levels.

 

Yet, only a very small percentage of older women dating younger men will last for any length of time since they don't have too much in common.

 

A younger man isn't going to want t deal with an older woman's mentality and ailments. Especially if she starts reminding him of his mother.

 

On the flip side, an older woman won't be able to keep up with a younger man's energy and physical desires for a long period of time.

 

More than likely, a younger man won't be able to provide an older woman with emotional stability and financial security. 

 

In a flash, it's a fun adventure for both older women and younger men. Like an amusement park ride. 😎

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9 minutes ago, Troy said:

What about an older man and a younger woman?

That's been going on forever. Same dynamic.

 

Most men are visual and remain that way as they age. Younger women have a physical profile that works like natural viagra for older men.

 

Older men usually have better financial security and/or more disposable income than younger dudes.

 

Younger women will date an older man for money and security. They also know he can't beat it up too bad and he'll be asleep before midnight.

 

When that older man gets tired and sleepy, a younger woman can hit the streets (bars, clubs and parties) and hang out with the younger dudes she'd prefer if they weren't broke. 😁😎

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On 3/5/2023 at 10:46 PM, ProfD said:

Younger, testosterone-filled men usually try their hand at older women mainly for s8x, food and money. They're adding a notch to their conquest belt.

 

Also, younger men don't want to deal with the 1) competition and 2) drama and 3) pregnancies that come with dating among their peers.

 

Conversely, older women like to think they're still attractive and full of vigor. While older women are hitting their stride s8xually, the men in their age group are running  out of gas on several levels.

 

Yet, only a very small percentage of older women dating younger men will last for any length of time since they don't have too much in common.

 

A younger man isn't going to want t deal with an older woman's mentality and ailments. Especially if she starts reminding him of his mother.

 

On the flip side, an older woman won't be able to keep up with a younger man's energy and physical desires for a long period of time.

 

More than likely, a younger man won't be able to provide an older woman with emotional stability and financial security. 

 

In a flash, it's a fun adventure for both older women and younger men. Like an amusement park ride. 😎



I think you just KILLED IT right there!!!!!

Not sure if anyone online OR in the real world has articulated it as detailed and briefly as you just did!
Damn.

Not all young men today have a lot of energy though.
Many of these young dudes are so full of weed and chili-cheese fries.....they don't have the energy the average 60 year old man had 30 years ago.

 

And on the flip side, just being older doesn't necessarily mean you have more money and are financially secured.

Go to any homeless shelter and you'll find a ton of old men and women whose hair has turned White and teeth have fallen out and are flat broke.
Haven't gained anything as far as wealth or even wisdom over the years.

 

 

 

 

 

Troy

 

 

On 3/5/2023 at 11:40 PM, Troy said:

What about an older man and a younger woman?

 

YOU tell US......lol......shit.

You're older than me so I know you're over 55, and just had a baby....lol.

I'd have to presume your fiancé is around 40 if not younger.

Lol...Is she that same sista with the dog in that photograph advertising the apartments in Oklahoma you showed us a few years ago?
Were you finally able to track the girl down?
She looked like she was in her 30's.



How is your little girl doing BTW.....?

 

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I've had younger men approach me talking about wanting to have a baby with me. lol Boy if you don't get...

 

Anyway, I'm not really into younger guys. Emotionally, they tend to be erratic.And some seem to think single older women are so desperate for a man we'll just marry them because they offer. They also don't seem to care for serenity and calm but want everything fast and almost chaotic.

 

Older men tho are so certain of themselves and that's highly attractive.

 

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I've heard a lot of women say they find confidence very attractive.
I don't fully understand the mechanisms of this.

As a man, if I find a woman attractive....she's attractive.
Unless she's acting like a straight up dude, her personality and attitude has little to do with it.
Now if I want to APPROACH her....now other factors come into play.  
But whether she's confident in herself or totally lack confidence, means nothing to me.

On the flip side, I've seen some ugly dudes who pull more women than they can handle.
And it's clearly not because of their looks, and in most cases not because of their money......but it's something about their personality.

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2 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I've heard a lot of women say they find confidence very attractive.
I don't fully understand the mechanisms of this.

As a man, if I find a woman attractive....she's attractive.
Unless she's acting like a straight up dude, her personality and attitude has little to do with it.
Now if I want to APPROACH her....now other factors come into play.  
But whether she's confident in herself or totally lack confidence, means nothing to me.

On the flip side, I've seen some ugly dudes who pull more women than they can handle.
And it's clearly not because of their looks, and in most cases not because of their money......but it's something about their personality.

 

Beauty is to women what confidence is to men. It covers a lot of flaws to the opposite sex.

 

A man having a backbone is just sexy. It usually means that he's not easily led by others and thinks for himself.

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On 3/17/2023 at 4:54 PM, SpeakHerTruth said:

.And some seem to think single older women are so desperate for a man we'll just marry them because they offer.


I have to admit that this was ONE of the reasons that attracted me to older women....lol.

Less competition from other men.
Especially other young men.

Most young men find older women attractive to various degrees, but most will not approach an older woman.  Especially one 15 or 20 years older than them.  They'll just admire them from a distance.  And a lot of older men were either celibate, married, or chasing after younger women.  So I went for the easy pickin's....lol.
When I was younger I dated women around my age too, but I still went after older women who were willing to give me the time of day.

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It all depends on your personal situation and who that "youngin" is!

Give it about 20 or 30 years and THEN we'll see if you don't end up changing your mind....lol.

A friend of mine used to preach up and down how she could never get with a man younger than her because they were too immature and she needed an older man.....that all changed after she turned 45, lol.
When parts of her started sagging and her hair started turning grey....she became less picky and choosy.
She end up being the NEIGHBORHOOD FREAK....lol.

Pretty soon every young man who came by her house to shovel snow or cut the grass was targeted by her.
Even highschool boys ringing on her doorbell to sell candy for the football team better have quick reflexes before SHE opened up the damn door.....lol.
She ONLY  wanted them young too.....younger than 30!.
She started baking cakes and giving them away just to bring attention to herself and trap a young fool....lol.

You never know what you'll end up doing in this world.

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It's bad enough dealing with a man your own age who expects you to reinforce his high opinion of himself. Who needs a fawning, boring, young gold digger with whom you have little in common?  Especially with the broad selection of sex toys available. Men are very replaceable for the secure woman who is  good company for herself. This was the consensus reached in my circle of friends before they all died of old age (with smiles on their faces). I'm the only one left and, needless to say, the male friends of my daughters aren't interested in anything but marveling over how I manage to "stay up on things".  Plus, the older I got, the more I look for the perfection that's so rare. Having said all of this, for those so inclined, I do believe age is just a number; and so, apparently  does seventy-something Cher, who is pictured all over FaceBook with her new 40 years younger black boyfriend.  To each his own.

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On 3/19/2023 at 11:01 AM, Pioneer1 said:

I've seen Cher's boyfriend.  
....a literal BOY friend.

I hope y'all don't believe she's serving up anything good at this point in her life. 🤣

 

Dude is a paid companion. Easy work. He doesn't even have to beat that box up. 😁😎

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Come on. Cher may still be "viable". A lot depends upon whether or not your ovaries are still producing estrogen. Nowadays 70 is the new 50.

 

i really don't like to discuss my personal life but - as  a widow in my 70s, i had a boyfriend in his 60s - and i never got any complaints.  He's dead now and i'm still kickin'. 🤩

 

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4 hours ago, Cynique said:

Come on. Cher may still be "viable".

Cher might be viable and pliable to some degree. But, she's 76 and he's 36.

 

That 40 year gap could be a problem especially if the lining in the walls of her casket have gotten thinner. 🤣😎

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I like older women but I'm not screwing a 76 year old woman (sorry to disappoint you Cynique....I know you had plans).

No matter how attractive I found her, I'd be too worried about hurting her.
Knocking one of her hips out of alignment or giving her a heart attack.

As I got older I found out that some women are just FRAGILE.
While some are strong and just as tough as men, most are not.....and many are as delicate as butterflies.
You can't even play rough with them....lol.
And they become even MORE delicate and fragile as they get older.

Where as a smack across the rear end was considered cute when she was 30 and would only leave a red mark.....at 60 it may end up a bruise where she's unable to sit down for days and might even have to go to the hospital.

You guys (women) are just delicate......most of you NEED men, lol.



 

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 Where's my girl, Mel? I would certainly be interested in hearing her take on this subject - if she can manage to plow through the opinionated swill of the viagra brigade  passing judgment on what they have presumably never experienced, clueless  about  the female snickering  that  male boobs  and  testicles swinging below their knees, and penises that require women to fake orgasms, brings on.  🤣  Watta ya think, Chevdov?

 

Because her brain is actually the female's sex organ, older  women who date young men are  really lowering their standards, catering to their baser instincts. 

 

And why the obnoxious, nauseating pioneer continues to fantasize about me is yet another indication of how removed he is from reality.  🤮  

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On 3/22/2023 at 9:47 AM, Cynique said:

i really don't like to discuss my personal life but - as  a widow in my 70s, i had a boyfriend in his 60s - and i never got any complaints.  He's dead now and i'm still kickin'. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-1DDAeyq5w

6 hours ago, Cynique said:

Because her brain is actually the female's sex organ, older  women who date young men are  really lowering their standards, catering to their baser instincts.

I ain't hatin on 'em, but I ain't lovin on them either. 

Don't hate, mate. (comma is optional depending on your position(supine, noncommital, full frontal et cetera.

 

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7 hours ago, Cynique said:

Because her brain is actually the female's sex organ, older  women who date young men are  really lowering their standards, catering to their baser instincts. 

Hold the phone...

 

An older woman's brain is fading and her box is more Arizona than Seattle.  Both of her s8x organs are in distress.🤣

 

That older woman is only having s8x with her paid companion so that he can relieve himself.😁😎

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13 hours ago, Cynique said:

clueless  about  the female snickering  that  male boobs  and  testicles swinging below their knees, and penises that require women to fake orgasms, brings on.  🤣  Watta ya think, Chevdov?

 

🤣

 

I too, think that it's a lowering of standards to date a younger man that may be 30 years her junior. 

And, I get tired of hearing men 'talk' and then afterwards make excuses for underperforming. 

 

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4 hours ago, ProfD said:

An older woman's brain is fading and her box is more Arizona than Seattle.  Both of her s8x organs are in distress.🤣

@ProfD Where are you getting your info about older women? From anecdotal old wives tales? Certainly not from Gynecologists. Unlike pioneer, you don't usually make  "off-the-top-of-your-head" claims. 

 

First of all, how age affects their sex lives differs from woman to woman.  Not all females age the same.  Their genes and metabolism  and hormones and health have a big impact on  their libido. And for those so inclined, there are over the counter preparations available to rejuvenate their sex appeal and facilitate  intimate contact.  Age really is just a number. As rich as Cher is, she could afford  the  plastic surgery that would make her as good as new "down there".  Plus, this isn't the first boy toy she has had.  So don't cast her as a "has-been".

 

 I  find it typical  that  men can speak with such authority about something they have never tried. They  shouldn't  be so quick to judge and ridicule and underestimate the ability of an older woman  to turn a young guy on.  They'd do well to keep in mind that females can look up much longer than males can look down.

 

 Sex is no longer an activity I have any interest in because -  men tend to get on my nerves, not because i'm "incapacitated". Believe it or not.  I'm trying to fall in love with Jesus but he's playin hard to get. Woe is me. 

 

23 minutes ago, Chevdove said:

I too, think that it's a lowering of standards to date a younger man that may be 30 years her junior. 

And, I get tired of hearing men 'talk' and then afterwards make excuses for underperforming. 

@Chevdove Right!

 

 

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46 minutes ago, Cynique said:

@ProfD Where are you getting your info about older women? From anecdotal old wives tales? Certainly not from Gynecologists...you don't usually make  "off-the-top-of-your-head" claims. 

 

 I  find it typical  that  men can speak with such authority about something they have never tried. 

I'm just clowning around as usual. 🤣

 

However, as an old man and without TMI, I've been around long enough to know a lot too.😎

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An older woman's brain is fading and her box is more Arizona than Seattle.  Both of her s8x organs are in distress.
 

Lol...
I think you're talking about and OLD woman....not necessarily an OLDER woman.
There's a difference.
 

An "old" woman's body has often deteriorated to the point that she no longer gets wet, can have orgasms, or even has a sex drive.

But then you have "older" women, which is relative to the man's age.  Usually atleast 10 years older in my opinon counts as an "older" woman.

I'm kicking it with a woman who's 63 right now, and not only is her body just as fit and her skin just as smooth as most women in their 30s....she gets "almost" as wet (lol) and has orgasms.

I've met several women in their 60s I can say the same thing about.
Not every woman, obviously.
Hell...some women have petered out (pun intended...lol) in their 30s and are in menopause.  Every woman is different.






Chev


And, I get tired of hearing men 'talk' and then afterwards make excuses for underperforming. 



Girl stop playing!!!!
You know them young dudes be in it for themselves!!!!  

Sheeeeeit.....
I used to use my "back" as an excuse.....LOL.
 

Now I can use my age.🤣
I'll look a woman straight in her eyes and say, 🤨"Well I'm not 19 anymore....what did you expect?????"  

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1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

I think you're talking about and OLD woman....not necessarily an OLDER woman.
There's a difference.

I should have been more clear.

 

Of course, *I* know the difference between older and old women. Sh8t... I'm about that whole life.🤣

 

I thought my sense of humor was established around here.

 

Guess I need to use more emojis. 😎

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11 hours ago, ProfD said:

I should have been more clear.

 

Of course, *I* know the difference between older and old women. Sh8t... I'm about that whole life.🤣

 

I thought my sense of humor was established around here.

 

Guess I need to use more emojis. 😎

 

 

LOL....I knew you were joking.
But what you said is usually the perception of most young men when it comes to older women.
Many of them think ALL women over 40 are wrinkled up and dry, lol.
I thought similarly until I finally had sex with a woman over 40 when I was 19 and realized it wasn't THAT big of a difference....lol.

More so than the body, it's the mind....attitude....that I found more attractive than younger women.
 

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