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@Kalexander14 I can honestly say that i find pioneer insufferably obnoxious. His enormous ego and inability to deal with rejection prevent his from accepting this as being my true feelings.  BUT.THEY.ARE.

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Cynique

 

Ok...perhaps you're right.

 

What can I say, I'm a Black man...lol.
We've had to develop STRONG defense mechanisms and coping skills to survive in this society.

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@Pioneer1One of the few times i've ever agreed with you.  All black women aren't like me. That's a plus for you.  

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@Cynique, Perhaps he has one of those schoolboy crushes on you, it'll wear off. I wouldn't blame him, though, your image does warrants attraction, not of fatal kind. Please don't harm him!

 

@Pioneer1, stop it, man! Your "strong defense mechanism' isn't so much a skill as it is a replacement for the burden of rejection. 

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K2
 

She's not a bad looking woman.....and seems to have a lot of "free time" on her hands....lol.

But I don't mess around with anyone over 72 (except for maybe Ernestine Shepherd if I ever had the opportunity).
Women in their 70s and 80s often have hip issues.


You can have her!


Send a ticket for her to come join you where ever you are.
She can be your 2nd wife...(or play thing).....along with that Palestinian nurse....lol.

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2 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

You can have her!


Send a ticket for her to come join you where ever you are.
She can be your 2nd wife...(or play thing).....along with that Palestinian nurse....lol.

Just an example of the presumptuousness that i find insufferable.  i wouldn't have pioneer if he was a 35 year-old hunk because his personality is a turn-off for me.  He tries to pass himself off as a macho playa but he's probably an unattractive  loser whose  faithful companion is actually a blow-up doll he keeps stashed away in the closet of his lonely abode. 

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@Pirneer1, that pesky defense mechanism flaring up again, huh? Got a cure you should try, pull back the drapes, come out from behind the curtain, draw the blinds, and take the vail off, women are supposed to wear the vail anyway. How can you kiss the bride standing at the altar wearing a vail? Put the true image of the real you out-there. It may b the only way to know how you truly feel.

 

Look out, man, haven't you read a word I've written don't let that attractive face fool you, she's potentially dangerous, man! There' some pun there but it's not worth messing with a Chicago female like that. Frankly, I believe she'll go toe- to -toe with you. Not good for your male image!

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@Pioneer1, I'm compelled to offer an example: True story: several years ago (date and names omitted) I went to visit a close acquaintance, her boyfriend had just beat her up. She was crying, nervous and in a rage; bloody lip, bruises. She went into the kitchen pulled a knife, said when comes back I'm going to kill him. I looked holding the knife and felt compassion knowing she would hurt if she pulled on someone. I calmed and showed how to hold and maneuver the knife.  Several months later I was informed her boyfriend attacked her again. They told "every place he did not grab " she sliced. Poor girl served 8-years in a women's prison because the court would self-defense as her defense. The assault was so brutal. For murder. THAT'S A TRUE STORY, and I'll never teach another person how to use a knife again.

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@Kalexander2 Chill out.  This subject doesn't deserve all of the attention you're giving it.  It ain't that serious.  

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@Cyninque, of course, sister and I apologize to all for the graphic detail. Survival of the fittest is keened awareness of the environment and submission to one' s instincts based on empirical exposure, education, and osmosis possesses. By no means do I infer you would even contemplate such a horrific act. But every human is capable of unimaginable love as well as unspeakable violence, depending on the level of one’s fittest. I doubt you've ever been anybody's victim of a direct threat to your existence. But you are a Black woman living in one of most aggressive, hostile cities in the world, and you’re not unintelligent.

 

I argue that’s not what makes us human. It simply means our psychological nature us functioning properly. Of all the species in this planet, the female is most alluring, simply because she a female, most of us males would disagree saying wealth, food, me or you, take precedence over of a woman, then we’d promptly recall the next thing that comes to our mind. Guess what the next thing is! And that’s is what renders a woman potentially, extremely dangerous.

 

Go on, disagree with me if you will, who really know your strengths and weakness better than you. Many of you fall for the three words of your poison, but if doesn’t kill you (by that day of the month) God help the thing of your next thought. Okay pun aside.

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@Kalexander2Did you see my post where i said i am from  Maywood,   But  I presently live in another suburb of Chicago.  I have never lived in Chicago. 

 

You are very long-winded. Your philosophical ramblings about life, are too commonly-known to be considered revelations.  Everybody on this site is mature enough to reach the conclusions you have.  Some embrace them more than others.    

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@Cynique, Yes, saw that. I’ve always been under the impression “The Greater Chicagoland” included, Maywood, Evanston, Lisle, and everything up to the farms to the West and North. Guess I was mistaken.

 

Long-winded: I write the way I feel, mostly for only myself too. Not to be considered as wisdom, I’m not that conceded, I hope! I simply share how I feel, about whatever I’m presented with. Its rare one gets to challenge her/his self freely on so many profound ideas and topics. Besides, this is the only Black site that hasn't kicked me out. Yet!

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Listening is the easy part of the conversation. The intake/input is stimulating.   Once someone belabors a point then the conversation is a wrap.  I know then the person isn't convinced of her/his own ramblings. 

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@Mel Hopkins, that's when our hands or earplugs come in handy, Effort at anything requires a certain amount of labor, and we have names for everything we find not interesting or boring. That should be allowed as a reason to stop the labor.

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10 minutes ago, Mel Hopkins said:

Listening is the easy part of the conversation.

It seems the talking bit is easier for some.

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@Kalexander2Well, once again, i find your capacity for not being offended by criticism a plus.    You do bring a different vibe to this board, and nobody really has to justify why they say what they feel. We are all entitled to hold the opinions we do just as long as we recognize them as opinions.  So stick around, babe. I am admittedly a nit-picker, and an unabashed bitch.  That said, the word you wanted to use, should've been "conceited" instead of "conceded" in one of your previous posts; something a "journalist" with a college degree should know.  ;) 

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@Cynique. Like you, madam fact checker, I have an unmovable confidence, in myself, that require validation from no-one. Just listening to people, thinking about what motivates them calls up a patience germane to dealing with a child, the older the more patience required, actually. Everyone needs to believe they're worth more than they really are. Did you kno9w that narcissists feed off finding faults in other people, it's their only way of validating themselves? e.g. "I'm not the loser, you are because you can't do this, you got that wrong" etc.; such people make great politicians and managers because what is needed comes naturally to a narcissist. An asset when done gently or a liability if extreme.

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23 minutes ago, Kalexander2 said:

Everyone needs to believe they're worth more than they really are.

Why?  What's wrong with having a realistic assessment of one's self?  People who don't take themselves too seriously, are usually the ones who merit being taken seriously.  

 

Suddenly, everybody has discovered the word "narcissistic"and, boy, are they throwing it around.  At this point, i don't care whether i'm a narcissistic or not.  I am able to admit my flaws.  That why i referred to myself as a nit-picking bitch. :D

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@Cynique. Opp. I did aim for the spot and the comment was not directed at you personally. Unball your fists, now! Truth is everyone should discover narcissism to better understand themselves. We are all anarchists, some more extreme than others. Just another example our human self that's gone unchanged since before the written word. My point to my personal pessimism about humanity and the human condition. 

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Why would you think my fists were balled?  Especially since i ended my post with a smiley emoticon?  May i ask how old you are?

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