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WARNING: a personal question is asked so simply don't reply if offended, don't reply if insulted. Only reply if you want to answer, and no man should comment as no man is a woman.  And if a man must comment please don't be disrespectful.  I have never banned a comment nor is that my way online but... 

I ask women in AALBC a simple yes or no question. Based on interactions with black men in intimate settings, can you count all the orgasm you had on both hands in your life? 

This does not include orgasms by yourself or aided by a machine by yourselves or with a woman. 

For my extra thoughts

Single Status Update from 06/18/2022 by richardmurray - AALBC.com’s Discussion Forums

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I want to respect the OP's wishes that men refrain from commenting, but as Del alluded to....the women on this thread aren't commenting.

Most women tend to be shy by nature, and that shyness or insecurity about doing and saying certain things is part of what makes them attractive.
However I personally wish women...especially Black women globally...would be more honest and sincere about their feelings on sexuality
It would have made things MUCH easier on me when I was younger if I had known exactly what most women wanted and were looking for instead of having to do "trial and error" with them.

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I'm from a much older generation so i can't speak for what the current mind set is, just about what I recall from personal experience and girl talk back then. In my day, before viagra, most women didn't  indulge in sex with the idea of achieving an earth-shattering climax.  With us, sex was a process that included foreplay, sensual intimate contact with an appealing partner, and the afterglow that involved cuddling. Pillow talk was also a plus.  An orgasm was just the icing on the cake.  And since woman are capable of multiple orgasms at one time, on a good night we might be able to count on one hand what we experienced.  What we all agreed on was that although alcohol lowered our inhibitions, it could interfere with a "passionate reaction". 

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4 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

However I personally wish women...especially Black women globally...would be more honest and sincere about their feelings on sexuality
It would have made things MUCH easier on me when I was younger if I had known exactly what most women wanted and were looking for instead of having to do "trial and error" with them.


@Pioneer1 oh hon-ty,

You should read my book! Or even have read my blog back in the day! Google kicked me out of the advertising program until I removed one of my posts.

 

So let's be mindful of Troy's platform. Google AdSense frowns upon "let's talk about sox" topics.

 

Most women I know aren't shy about sox or even talking about it. But think about it - we are all still learning when we're young. So it's anything that goes until you know what works. 

 

Now, if someone asked me back then or even now how many O's I have had... I'd wonder why he wanted to know and I would most likely be turned off.  I've heard women my age and younger say "He ain't ready" and here's why.

 

I learned early on that you can learn a lot about a man's approach to intimate encounters by his ability to hold a stimulating conversation about everything else. It seems to have something to do with intellect,  an open mind and creativity. Compelling conversationalists always seem to bring heightened encounters.

 

While climaxing is great, the best encounter can transpire over days...Sort of like the scene from Modern Problems with Chevy Chase and Patti D'Arbanville. I didn't know that was possible but I learned it is transcendent.

 

I believe this is why many women seek out "sapiosexuals." With those types,a lot of O's happen while we're fully clothed. And usually that's just the beginning.

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I've heard some say that "everything is mind/mental".

Although I didn't think about it much when I was younger....the older I get, the more I appreciate the abilty to give women MENTAL orgasms.
I'm sure I'll have this ability long after my abilty to give them physical orgasms start declining.


 

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@Delano that is fine, this is all for fun. I didn't expect any commentary and i only hoped to generate thoughts or thinking offline. So what has come:) is surprising but good enough.

 

@Pioneer1   I have been fortunate to have many, not all but I say most,  unshy women in my offline life. 

... I once saw a woman in the street, downtown, she was paraplegic, chair bound and she had a man who was sitting next to her, also paraplegic, chairbound.  They got many stares. but I watched them from a distance, as I wrote poetry inspired by their enjoyment of each other. So don't worry, as long as you find someone who wants to walk the road of life with you, all will be well.

 

@Cynique thank you for your reply

 

@Mel Hopkins thank you for your reply

 

 

Happy belated father's day or juneteenth to all:)  may all father's continue to earn respect and all people whose forebears were enslaved in recent times enjoy their freedom and yearn for even more

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I've had women I THOUGHT were shy.....until we got behind closed doors.....then the freak came out, lol.
Even women from other countries/cultures I thought I could tease and play games with.

 

I was messing with one woman from Panama who asked me could her MOTHER come to the bedroom with us to "help out"??????

 

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Now that this thread has opened up a bit...chemistry, knowledge and skill have a lot to do with happy endings. 

 

IMO, since some of the taboo has been lifted in the our community, more women *know* their bodies and how to communicate it to their partner. 

 

Likewise, a few good men are willing to take instruction and *learn* how to please a woman thoroughly. 

 

I believe it's better than it was several decades ago when it was reported that a high percentage of women never experienced an O.

 

But, the real deal is being able to make a woman squirt. That's some next level sh8t.  Not too many women or men are hip to it. 🤣😎

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16 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

Lol....is NUDITY included in the show?

Nah.  But Katt hilariously handles your concern about that whole situation especially if the female's c-spot is big enough to make you question your manhood. 🤣😎

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What's with the C spot thing?  The clitoris isn't a "spot", it's an organ that reacts to titillation.  The G spot is where you detonate the really BIG BANG .  It's a reclusive area located elsewhere in the genital folds, just waiting for the master touch. Men have the nerve to make women the object of sexual ridicule. But the laugh's on them. 

 

 

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23 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Never been a fan of big clitorises....lol.

That’s probably because you already know the difference between the “C” and the “P” is - inny and outty - and becomes erect with mental / physical stimulation. 

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On 6/24/2022 at 5:11 PM, Mel Hopkins said:

That’s probably because you already know the difference between the “C” and the “P” is - inny and outty - and becomes erect with mental / physical stimulation. 


With the mental stimulation...it took a while...but I finally got it, lol.

One of the biggest causes of midunderstanding between men and women is not being familiar with the basic mental hardwiring of the opposite sex.
Men tend to be more VISUAL and get more turned on by physical attraction while women tend to be more EMOTIONAL and get turned on by words and ideas that stimulate their imagination.

This is why so many men will get off looking at porn magazines (before the internet) while women get off reading "romance novels"

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