Girl, Get Your Guy!: Date with Strategy and Get the Love You Deserve

Viral sensation and renowned dating coach Anwar White delivers a next-level dating strategy for Black women who are tired of outdated rules and ready to be the chooser—not wait to be chosen—for their perfect match.

Your Fairy Godbrother is here with the tea, tequila, and the unvarnished truth when it comes to dating. Girl, if you’ve picked up this book, you’re ready to date like you mean it—and with strategy!

Girl, Get Your Guy! equips Black women with clarity that supports and prioritizes their experience in the dating landscape. Through four engaging narratives, White combines personal reflection, practical advice, and tried-and-true methods for navigating patterns that may serve you in the boardroom but not on a first date.

First, you’ll take an honest look at the amazing woman you are and identify what you need—not simply what you want—in a relationship. Next, you’ll build a dating strategy, from creating your profile and reaching your Olympic Dating podium to applying White’s trademark 7-Date Strategy. Along the way, you’ll learn how to become the Chooser through strategic vulnerability, healthy boundaries, and insights from a male perspective.

White also addresses lingering emotional wounds, the myth of being “perfectly healed,” and how to navigate the crucial first 30 days of a new relationship. Each chapter is designed to shift the way you think about dating, relationships, and companionship to make authentic love possible.

Girl, Get Your Guy! is a roadmap for Black women who want to navigate modern dating with confidence, intention, and authenticity. It’s time to fully embody the queen you are—with your Fairy Godbrother helping you every step of the way.