My Bully, My Aunt, and Her Final Gift
by Harold Phifer

“Sometimes the death of a loved one can fix your pain.” A funeral that turned into a comedy show. The death of my evil aunt taught me a lot about grief, love, loss, resentments, and redemptions. After her death, I was tasked with the job of putting together a memorial that no one wanted to attend. It’s far from being grim, with laughter till the end.

In My Bully, My Aunt, and Her Final Gift, Harold Phifer revisits the complicated relationship he shared with his late Aunt Kathy, a woman who stood as the antithesis of positivity in his life. Despite her domineering and often cruel behavior, her passing left Harold with an unexpected opportunity for humor, healing, and reflection. As he plans her memorial—a gathering that no one seems eager to attend—Harold’s childhood memories resurface, pulling him back into a world shaped by his aunt’s unpredictable rules and twisted philosophies.

Blending heartfelt truths with laugh-out-loud moments, Harold weaves a tale of resilience, self-discovery, and ultimately, redemption. This memoir offers a lighthearted yet honest look at how even the darkest relationships can leave behind gifts of wisdom and self-awareness.