So I been seeing stories about Singer Monica dating a guy in Prison and Now Keyshia Cole being in love with football player Antonio Brown. I am using these 2 as example because it's recent, but there are many other cases o could talk about.
My point is how come black women as a whole seem to choose the most toxic worse men of our race? By that I mean seemingly successful black women also choose the worse most toxic men in our race. Sure we all heard women love bad boys, but by in large black women out of every race seem to be the ones to consistently and more often than not choose bad partners...
From what I have witnessed most black women don't even want a blue collar hard working type man (Welder, Plummer etc). From the numbers I remember 2 and 1 is estimated only 18 percent of black males are actually fathering children, while 50 percent of black males are single and childless. Meaning there are alot of single mothers out there with multiple baby daddy's. But the kicker is alot of those single black men are actually middle class.
I grew up in a religious environment and I noticed something...Black women throughout my church are more likely to be single parents and end up with dead beats...Even when being raised by 2 parents, in a religious household in a wholesome environment. I had a friend early last year who I grew up with get killed by her husband she met in prison. She got killed by him and so did her brother. She essentially got her brother killed because she wanted a bad boy. The Males in my church seemingly never get with women who are ghetto or low class. Even when a dude doesn't date a black woman they usually end up with a well to do white woman.
Sometimes I wonder what's wrong with black women and is it an intelligence/I.Q thing? Usually a person of high I.Q wants to be with a person with a similar or higher I.Q...Thats usually the case with most races...But not ours.
