And, that would be the wrong kind of division @Pioneer1
@ProfD True, but I think that is unrealistic, though, for the most part, unfortunately.
Today, a lot of relationships are made between people that are not balanced no matter what culture, imo, and that's a reality.
And, if I am right on this, then what can be done to help us, as Black folk gain self-confidence and then engage in healthy relationships as a whole, whether with a Black mate or non-Black?
As for me, personally, I was ready for my relationship with my husband. I was mature before we met and had several marriage proposals before him. So when he came along, I knew I was ready.