@ProfDYou answered your own question. The reasons you gave explained why nobody is shaming white women for abandoning Kamala. Because that's the way it's always been; white women play it safe and remain loyal to their racist chauvinistic mates. It's understandable why they'do this rather than embrace feminism.
On the other hand, black male Trump supporters are rightfully being cited because they had a chance to advance their race, and they chose to support a convicted felon, and side with their misogynistic, burrito-eatin brothers rather than honor their black sisters and mothers.
Fingers could also be pointed at the black females who chose Trump over a woman of color. But their reasons aren't even worthy of being analyzed because they're so catty and petty and down right jealous, - straight outta a gossipy hen session. And Kamala's doing the jobs she was elected to do, made no difference to these treacherous heffas.
Alas, for all the metaphysical BS about "karma". Trump's misdeeds have never caught up with him! Instead, in his dotage, he has been rewarded with OMNIPOTENCE, courtesy of an indifferent universe.
Piss on amerika. Glad I'm 91, not 19.
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