ProfD

You said something in another thread that at first I agreed with, then I decided to think in terms of OUTSIDE of the United States and thought about women not just in THIS environment but on a GLOBAL level.



You...in effect....said that women tend to like bad boys and prefer bad dudes over intellectuals.
And many of us who grew up in the urban environments of the United State could certainly bear witness to that.

However what about the Asian and Indian women?

When you look at China, Japan, the Koreas, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and the other nations of East and South Asian you have BILLIONS of people, which means a LOT of sex is happening between the males and females...lol.

Although criminal and violent men exist in all racial and ethnic groups, I think most of us can agree that when you think about thug life or a gangsta.....Chinese and Indian men aren't the first ones that come to mind, lol.

Most of them are some of the most plain, square, wimpy, push-your-glasses-up nerdish men you'll ever run into.....yet they're attracting women and making babies.

If "women" prefer thugs and bad boys....why aren't THOSE women choosing them?

Bad Boy doesn't necessarily mean thug or gangsta.

High testosterone man is probably a better description of what I'm referring to as a bad boy.

In those other cultures, the people seem to be laid back & docile in general. Fewer bad boys &/or displays of high testosterone.

While the men may not be outdoorsmen or athletes of gym rats or whatever, they could still be high testosterone in other ways.

We don't really see or know how Asian or Indian or Middle Eastern men get down with their women behind closed doors. Especially when everybody wrapped up like mummies.🤣

Otherwise, bad boys or high testosterone men are not the majority anywhere.

Even if a woman is married to a good man, those who cheat seem to do so with a higher testosterone man.😎

ProfD

Bad Boy doesn't necessarily mean thug or gangsta.
High testosterone man is probably a better description of what I'm referring to as a bad boy.

I can agree with this.
High testosterone is much more likely to be the reason so many rebellious and violent men are attractive to some women.
It's a sign OF having high testosterone and being aggressive.

In those other cultures, the people seem to be laid back & docile in general. Fewer bad boys &/or displays of high testosterone.

If this is the case....then it's not about "women" as much as it's about the CULTURE they were brought up in and how they were raised.
They were basically trained or conditioned on what type of man to find attractive.

Well, couldn't the same thing apply to women in America?
Could it be that women HERE are also being trained or conditioned on what type of man to like and find attractive?






Otherwise, bad boys or high testosterone men are not the majority anywhere.

I agree that the bad boys aren't the majority anywhere, but there are some ethnicities or communities where the men in general seem to have a higher testosterone rate than others.

Unlike most Black American men, Italian men seem to pride themselves on being "high testosterone" men.

Even if a woman is married to a good man, those who cheat seem to do so with a higher testosterone man.😎

True.
And don't ask me how I know....lol.

25 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

In those other cultures, the people seem to be laid back & docile in general. Fewer bad boys &/or displays of high testosterone.

If this is the case....then it's not about "women" as much as it's about the CULTURE they were brought up in and how they were raised.
They were basically trained or conditioned on what type of man to find attractive.

Well, couldn't the same thing apply to women in America?
Could it be that women HERE are also being trained or conditioned on what type of man to like and find attractive?

Culture & environment definitely play a huge role in attraction between both men & women.

Regardless of culture/ethnicity/environment, I believe most women would prefer a high testosterone man.

Of course, women will settle for a different type of man especially depending on her mentality.

A feminist-lite woman may not want a high testosterone man. Too much competition in the pants-wearing department.🤣

Overall, culture & environment & mutual attraction put men & women together as it has since the beginning of time.😎