1. Have FUN, the purpose of this group is not to argue or to moan, fix the problem not the blame.
2. The owner/moderator has complete control over new memberships.
3. Anyone including the owner/moderator can be wrong or told they are wrong, but no one must change their mind or think their mind is trying to be changed by another. Learn how to hear your wrong and not suggest someone wants you to change cause they say you are wrong.
4. If any member deems language emitted by another member is unsettling or rude or violent , they are free to leave. Monitoring and penalizing language online is a dysfunctional venture, and the owner/moderator will not spend time doing it. Learn to not reply to someone calling you or using a name that you abhor.