Him?????

[Chevdove]

Serena is charming and it seems to me that her husband dotes over her and gives her the respect that she deserves.

When Kendrick Lamar ask her to support his efforts, she came running--literally! She has shown her support for 

her people. Leave her alone! 

 

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

If she wants a ring and Black men don't come through with it...she will be happy with the man who does.
 

Maybe it's not the RING that she actually wants.
Maybe it's a White man.
Maybe it's mixed children.

I said MAYBE.....because I don't know for sure one way or the other.


 

Women don't have to marry them though. There must be something ielse in it for them.
 

Thus my thread about "mejorando la raza" and the desire to leave one's own race or ethnicity for one PERCEIVED to be better.

I'm not saying this is the case with Serena.
However we've all known Black people who vocally express their fondness for light skinned babies with curly or wavy hair or what they call "pretty" babies.
And I've known some...male and female...who purposefully and shamelessly decided to mate with White and non-Black people TO produce those type of offspring.
 

Fuck tangibles.
That alone.....being "closer" to Whiteness....is what they really value more than wealth!
 

Tired of giving up the snatch box for fun without a commitment.
 

Some women DON'T get tired of it though, lol.
There are many here in the United States, but in Canada and Europe there a LOT of women past 40 who have never been married and have no desire to.  They just want to date and remain single OR alone.
As you rightly pointed out, they don't need a man to be happy.
 

A lot of women are about that life and not about "making deals" with the coochie...lol.
That's a mentality that comes from being brought up to believe you SHOULD get married or make a man "work" for sexual access to your body.
In some countries, that mentality isn't as prevalent.



 

Over time, for any number of reasons, it takes more than s8x to sustain a long-term relationship
 

Facts.
However, as we discussed before....many women AREN'T looking for a long term relationship.

 

 

 

 

Some men believe it is their right to have s8x with a woman of any group. 

 

I believe in America it IS a man's right.
Not his right to FORCE himself on any woman, but his right to BE with any unmarried woman who desires to be with him.

And the same for the women.

That doesn't mean I have to LIKE it though, lol.

 

 

Grown azz women are not being tricked or manipulated into having s8x with men. 

 

I consider brainwashing and other tactics that White racists use in the media and in society in general to condition the minds of so many women to "love" them and see them as ideal and superior to other men....a form of manipulation.

The very image of a White Jesus as a "savior" is part of that manipulation.

 

 

 

 

 

When you grow up seeing THIS image on your wall and being told how wonderful and great this man is and how he saves you from all of your problems, your subconscious automatically attributes these characteristics to every man who LOOK like him.

You grow up with an automatic love for and faith in White men and don't even know where it comes from.



 

Chev

 

 

21 hours ago, Chevdove said:

You could have chosen so many other pictures that would show him to be much more handsome. LOL.
Leave her alone! 

I know.
But I didn't.....now leave ME alone.......

 

[ProfD]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Maybe it's not the RING that she actually wants.

Maybe it's a White man.
Maybe it's mixed children.

I said MAYBE.....because I don't know for sure one way or the other.

Right. She's entitled her VGQ...whatever the reason(s) for choices.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

However we've all known Black people who vocally express their fondness for light skinned babies with curly or wavy hair or what they call "pretty" babies.

And I've known some...male and female...who purposefully and shamelessly decided to mate with White and non-Black people TO produce those type of offspring.

That's been hapoening for 100s of years now. Even within our own race. 

 

Burnt chocolate n8gglets chasing high yellow women to have better looking children.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

A lot of women are about that life and not about "making deals" with the coochie...lol.

Women don't make deals with men to whom they're attracted.

 

If a man has to work for it...she's just not that into him.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

However, as we discussed before....many women AREN'T looking for a long term relationship.

Most women would prefer to have a relationship of some kind rather than be alone.

 

Most men want some kind of relationship especially when theyget  old and broken down and need help.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

I believe in America it IS a man's right.

Not his right to FORCE himself on any woman, but his right to BE with any unmarried woman who desires to be with him.

And the same for the women.

That doesn't mean I have to LIKE it though, lol.

We know how the laws would be written in Pioneer1-Land.

 

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

I consider brainwashing and other tactics that White racists use in the media and in society in general to condition the minds of so many women to "love" them and see them as ideal and superior to other men....a form of manipulation.

The very image of a White Jesus as a "savior" is part of that manipulation.

A few folks will go astray but the majority stick with their own race.

 

Several factors go into human attraction beyond shape, size and color.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

Right. She's entitled her VGQ...whatever the reason(s) for choices
.

She's entitled to it, but I'm also entitled to CRITIQUE it.

If her way of dealing with racism is to marry a White man OR not deal with it at all, that's her right.
I wouldn't take that away from her.
 

Infact, I'd LIKE to know which women prefer White men over me so I know who I should help and who I shouldn't.
 

I love, protect, and help the women who have MY back.
No hate involved.
Straight up business.


 

That's been hapoening for 100s of years now. Even within our own race. 
Burnt chocolate n8gglets chasing high yellow women to have better looking children
 

It's a sickness that needs to be "conditioned" out of our people with a program of self esteem and self respect.

 

 

Women don't make deals with men to whom they're attracted.

 

Lol....I hear (read) you.
Actually, it depends on HOW attracted they are to the man.

A lot of women will find a man attractive and all she want from him is just his attention and love.
But her friends and family will DEMAND that she get more out of him and that's where the "dealing" often takes place.

 

This is especially true with a lot of women from non-Western cultures where the men are expected to offer a certain amount of provision in exchange for a woman's "love".

 

 

 

Most women would prefer to have a relationship of some kind rather than be alone.

 

Facts.
I would say this is the case with human beings in general both female AND male.

Even if the relationship is strictly platonic or intimate but non-sexual.
We crave that human interaction.

 

 

 

 

 

We know how the laws would be written in Pioneer1-Land

 

Come on man, I've made it clear on a number of occasions that although I DO NOT like White men having sexual contact and loving on White men, I wouldn't prevent it.

 

If I were king and had total authority...I wouldn't make laws against it, lol. 

Why?
Because again, I want to KNOW which women are down for me and other Black men and which ones are not.

I also like the challenge of CHANGING Black women (especially African women) who were infatuated with White men TO falling in love with Black men by showing them a better side of us that what they've been conditioned to believe in the media.

 

I personally don't believe Black men are trying hard enough to overcome the propaganda being formulated against us by their racists.
Especially with regards to foreign women.
Many bruthaz think it's cool to "not care" what other people think about them, not knowing the damage that is being done while they are indifferent to it.

We NEED women.
Not just physically but psychologically....to motivate us to be better.

How motivating is it to hear women of YOUR group calling other races of men "cute",  getting on the internet proclaiming how happy they are to be with them, and even encouraging OTHER women to do the same?

What kind of self-hating madness is that?

[ProfD]

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

She's entitled to it, but I'm also entitled to CRITIQUE it.

Right. 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Come on man, I've made it clear on a number of occasions that although I DO NOT like...

 

If I were king and had total authority...I wouldn't make laws against it, lol. 

Gotcha. Understood. 

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

We NEED women.
Not just physically but psychologically....to motivate us to be better.

Sure. Gotta kick it with women who are mutually attracted and down with the program.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

How motivating is it to hear women of YOUR group calling other races of men "cute",  getting on the internet proclaiming how happy they are to be with them, and even encouraging OTHER women to do the same?

Don't give them any attention. Treat them like a tax write-off.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

What kind of self-hating madness is that?

It is a form of social conditioning. Hard to know whether they were raised that way or picked it up over time.