What A Minute: Can Yall Figure This One Out?

[Pioneer1]

Who is what to who???

[Troy]

The accused, a porn star,  married, a man who already had children, one of whom she ultimately started banging and eventually married. Making that man both her stepson and husband.

 

At some point, she apparently cut off the first dude’s head.

 

Well, it makes for a funky looking family trees, People get into relationships with their stepchildren all the time. 
 

The missing head is unusual, but probably not a first.

 

 

 

 

[Pioneer1]

But what was the father even THINKING?

Why would you bringing a woman that young and attractive (and one doesn't necessarily equate to the other because I've seen a lot of beautiful old women and ugly young women) around your grown ass children and NOT expect something to happen between them?

 

[ProfD]

The unalived dude clearly didn't think his wife would turn around and marry his son. 

 

Most men do not think the woman they are taking care of and/or married to will hook up with their offspring regardless of age.

 

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

The unalived dude clearly didn't think his wife would turn around and marry his son. 

 

I'm not sure why he wouldn't.
She was an attractive woman and his son wasn't gay, so why WOULDN'T the idea that a sexual relationship between them cross his mind?

 

 

 

 

Most men do not think the woman they are taking care of and/or married to will hook up with their offspring regardless of age.

 

Most fools or stupid men wouldn't...no.
However I think most men with good sense SUBCONSCIOUSLY suspect this, which is why they usually are hostile to other adult men living in the same household as them; even their own sons.

 

Most men will tolerate a house full of women.
Their daughters can live with them for as long as they need or want.
They can even leave home, get married, and then turn around and come running back if they have trouble with their husbands.
They will always be "daddy's little girl".
Men on the other hand.....

 

Mamma will always love them and take them back in, but if DADDY is in the house...they think twice about coming back because pops isn't as welcoming.

 

" He wanna come back???
For what?
Where is the nigga gonna stay, in the backyard? 
We done rented out his room.....shit!"
 

....lol.

Family or not, most men with good sense know that if other straight MAN is living with them, there's a possibility of them boning their woman.

[ProfD]

13 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I'm not sure why he wouldn't.
She was an attractive woman and his son wasn't gay, so why WOULDN'T the idea that a sexual relationship between them cross his mind?

 

Most fools or stupid men wouldn't...no.
However I think most men with good sense SUBCONSCIOUSLY suspect this, which is why they usually are hostile to other adult men living in the same household as them; even their own sons.

Family or not, most men with good sense know that if other straight MAN is living with them, there's a possibility of them boning their woman.

 

Only a very insecure man would think or worry about his woman having a s8xual relationship with his son.

[Pioneer1]

2 hours ago, ProfD said:

Only a very insecure man would think or worry about his woman having a s8xual relationship with his son.

Now ProfD,
I respect you and your intelligence...however......

This is what Obama would call a "fundamental disagreement".....lol.


We don't misunderstand eachother; both of our positions are crystal clear....we just DISAGREE.....lol.


Unless that woman is his BIOLOGICAL MOTHER (and even then shit can happen!).....a man would be a FOOL  if his half-way decent looking woman and his adolescent/adult son are living in the same home together and it NEVER crosses his mind that they may be having a sexual relationship behind his back.

I'm sorry, there is no other way for me to reason or explain this besides it simply being common sense that any man should have.
He should just naturally think about this possibility!

Now if the son is a baby or even 8 or 9 year old, ofcourse my lady having some sort of relationship with my son would be one of the last things I'd suspect her of.
However if that boy is 14 or 15 or older.

Now wait a minute......
That doesn't mean a man should be laying up in bed every night looking up at the ceiling all night long twiddling his thumbs and wondering, or installing cameras and shit in the house trying to catch them in some sort of act.
It simply means that there is a CHANCE that it can happen and he needs to keep his eyes and ears open and be aware of how they conduct themselves around eachother.

[ProfD]

7 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

This is what Obama would call a "fundamental disagreement".....lol.

We don't misunderstand eachother; both of our positions are crystal clear....we just DISAGREE.....lol.

Fair enough. 

 

I still believe if a man has to consider the possibility of his woman and son hooking up, he needs to get rid of her. She is not a good look.

 

 

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

5 hours ago, ProfD said:

 

I still believe if a man has to consider the possibility of his woman and son hooking up, he needs to get rid of her. She is not a good look.

Ofcourse, we know those type of women exist.
And a man should know his son well enough to know if he can leave his girlfriend or wife around him.

But at the end of the day, if you're son is old enough ATTRACT the same woman you're banging....one may have to ask why is he still living in the same household as you?

This reminds me of those Mother-Daughter teams where both women are in one house working jobs and helping to support eachother.
It looks so nice and cool....until one ends up taking the others man...lol.

And you haven't seen "nasty" until you've seen a mother and daughter get into it with eachother over a man.

[ProfD]

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Ofcourse, we know those type of women exist.
And a man should know his son well enough to know if he can leave his girlfriend or wife around him.

Right. A man should be secure enough within himself and be able to decern that foolishness. 

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

But at the end of the day, if you're son is old enough ATTRACT the same woman you're banging....one may have to ask why is he still living in the same household as you?

That's another question for a whole thread. Bottom line is most men don't have grown azz sons living with them. Otherwise, it would be too much of a reminder that he failed as a parent.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

And you haven't seen "nasty" until you've seen a mother and daughter get into it with eachother over a man.

That's made for TV dysfunctional sh8t. Classy women don't entertain those situations.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

Right. A man should be secure enough within himself and be able to decern that foolishness. 

 

I thought discernment was more a matter of intelligence/wisdom than self-assuredness.

 

 

Bottom line is most men don't have grown azz sons living with them. Otherwise, it would be too much of a reminder that he failed as a parent

 

Excellent point!
This was the first time I actually heard someone give THAT perspective of having an adult child still at home, however it makes sense.

 

 

 

Classy women don't entertain those situations

 

Lol....but how many women ARE classy?

 

[Troy]

On 11/13/2025 at 12:02 AM, Pioneer1 said:

She was an attractive woman and his son wasn't gay, so why WOULDN'T the idea that a sexual relationship between them cross his mind?

 

Because we are not animals and many of us have some modicum of self-control.  It seems your expectations of humans is pretty low.  Perhaps I'm naive but, I would not be worried about my son banging my wife, or my wife cutting my head off  -- I don't have that kind of mental energy.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

 

Classy women don't entertain those situations

 

Lol....but how many women ARE classy?

 

Virtually all the women I interact with are classy enough not to raise me suspicion of sleeping with my son -- especially if I'm dating them.  I don't have a son, but I would hope they would also respect the code implicitly.

 

Now you raise an issue with "class."  Clearly everyone in this story were of a lower class.  Perhaps in these social circles one need to worry about children hooking up with stepparents. I call this "ghetto mentality."

 

That you @Pioneer1 you might be watching too much step-mom porn 

 

[ProfD]

4 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I thought discernment was more a matter of intelligence/wisdom than self-assuredness.

How do you define intelligence?

 

How does one gain wisdom?

 

4 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Classy women don't entertain those situations

 

Lol....but how many women ARE classy?

A whole lot of women are classy. Just a matter of being in the *right* environment. 

 

3 hours ago, Troy said:

Now you raise an issue with "class."  Clearly everyone in this story were of a lower class.  Perhaps in these social circles one need to worry about children hooking up with stepparents. I call this "ghetto mentality."

Trailer park mentality would be the white version of it.

[Pioneer1]

Troy

 

Because we are not animals

 

Oh???
Some of us aren't?

 

 

and many of us have some modicum of self-control.  It seems your expectations of humans is pretty low.

 

Depending on the human, when it comes to sex....yes.
Infact, depending on SOME of the dudes I've seen...my expectations of them are actually pretty HIGH.
I EXPECT for them to try to screw any woman they can have 5 minutes alone with, including female relatives.

If I go to a family reunion and see some of the characters I know leave without hitting on ALL of the females he comes across there...although I think it's a GOOD thing, I'm still a bit disappointed that he didn't do exactly as I expected of him.

 

 

 

Virtually all the women I interact with are classy enough not to raise me suspicion of sleeping with my son -- especially if I'm dating them.  I don't have a son, but I would hope they would also respect the code implicitly.

 

In today's society, especially in our community for those born after 1970...there IS no "code" of ethics or conduct that most of us honor outside of the code of basic humanity that is given to us through human instinct.

I'm in my 50s and most of the women I kick it with are over 40.
If I bring them around my family (I generally don't hang around 20 and 30 year olds so the only time I really interact with them is at work or at family get-togethers) the young men usually find them attractive and I see them giving them the "eye".
Besides most women just naturally not finding younger men attractive (..though some do) what really keeps them in check is knowing ME and how I am and how protective and territorial I am.
But the women I kick it with AND the men of my family know this about me, so they don't try anything while I'm present and evidently don't try anything behind my back either....lol

 

But FEAR is the "code" they respect.
Not some arbitrary ethical code regulating who they bang or refrain from.

 

 

 

Now you raise an issue with "class."  Clearly everyone in this story were of a lower class.  Perhaps in these social circles one need to worry about children hooking up with stepparents. I call this "ghetto mentality."

 

Ok.
But they are still part of society.....a huge part of society.
We're talking about humanity, not simply "upper class" humanity....so my points should be considered valid.

 

 

That you @Pioneer1 you might be watching too much step-mom porn

 

No need to.
I saw and in a few cases EXPERIENCED so much MILF as a younger man, porn of THAT scenario just doesn't do it for me....lol.

You have to feel for boys who find out that the ONLY reason they have any "friends" who hang around them is because their step-mothers and REAL mothers are freaks...lol.

 

 

 

 

 

 

ProfD

 

 

How do you define intelligence?

 

The ability to learn, understand, and retain knowledge.

 

 

 

How does one gain wisdom?

 

There are multiple ways, but since YOU don't believe in the supernatural I will say:

Wisdom is gained through the proper understanding of knowledge through observation and experience.

 

 

 

A whole lot of women are classy. Just a matter of being in the *right* environment. 

 

You're right to say it depends on the environment because "a whole lot" is a very subjective figure....lol.
But what I really meant by that question was WHAT PERCENTAGE of women in today's society would actually be considered "classy".

And then ofcourse, we'd have to define "classy".

 

 

Right. Trailer park mentality would be the white version of it.

 

Yes, but as I said to Troy....that's increasingly COMMON today.
Which makes my point valid.

 

Just because something is vulgar or uncouth...doesn't render it invalid or mean it's not common.

A LARGE percentage of women have little to no class today.
They don't even know how to SIT in a chair when they're wearing a dress...lol.