Different strokes for different folks

[aka Contrarian]

The argument about penis size as it relates to the sex act, seems to be ongoing; "the bigger the better" being the consensus.

But, I suspect there are no figures to support that claim, just as there is no concrete evidence that large penises are an inborn trait  of black males, thereby making them better sex partners.

And the point made in the girl-talk discussions I've been privy to for over 50 years has always  been, it's not what you have, but what you do with what you have. Technique and good staying power favorably compete with a large member which can cause pain and injury.

Interestingly enough, "width" got just as good marks as "length", making short thick penises an asset. Average-sized ones also made the cut. Nor was it unusual for tiny ones to show up among black men. But here again, technique was the thing, with sensuous foreplay and intimate cuddling serving as icing on the cake, along with being a good kisser.

And, then, there's oral sex...

 

Everybody pretty much knows all the aforementioned factors are important when it comes to intercourse so, imo, the reason the hype about penis size continues, is the apparent need for black men to have something to brag about. Maybe they can't be a CEO in the board room, but they can at least be a stud in the bedroom, an idea that supposedly excites the fancy of white women, the ultimate prize so many brothas have their eye on.

 

I don't know how accurate the following is, nor do I care if anyone disagrees with my take on what I previously said, but my  current sources tell me that the 2025 mindset of many single women weary of tryin to  navigate the dating scene is that they'd rather eschew the hassle, curl up at home in bed, and munch on a snack while watching a good movie on TV, a vibrator readily available.

                   zzzzzzzzz

[ProfD]

@aka Contrarian, nothing has changed since the beginning of time. 

 

During slavery, white slaveowners would use the biggest Black men as bucks to breed more slave babies.

 

Those same bucks were broken, raped in front of everyone as an example to keep other slaves in check. Powerless.

 

3 hours ago, aka Contrarian said:

so, imo, the reason the hype about penis size continues, is the apparent need for black men to have something to brag about. Maybe they can't be a CEO in the board room, but they can at least be a stud in the bedroom...

Right. Unfortunately, in the absence of power and money, some men are reduced to using assets to make them feel better about themselves with the lowest being their manhood. 

 

In fact, the most non-athletic, no contact sport between some men is the proverbial p*ssing contest.

 

The consternation over the male member comes up in power settings where folks will say is this a measuring contest or women will say just because I don't have...isn't  weakness.

 

Of course, the human phallus or likeness has showed up in art, images and construction for ages. 

 

Funny thing is NO man can measure himself against a horse. Not even close.

[Pioneer1]

 I wonder if Latino men were known as being the ones with the biggest dicks, would Latina women be going out of their way to shout it down and disprove it?

 I also wonder if Asian men were known as being the ones with the biggest dicks, would Asian women be all over the internet downplaying it and pretending as if it didn't matter?

It's a hell of a thing to be playing basketball or football only to look over and see YOUR cheerleaders not only remaining silent every time YOU score a point, but actually in some cases cheering for the OTHER damn team.

 

   

 

 

 

 

Cynique

The argument about penis size as it relates to the sex act, seems to be ongoing; "the bigger the better" being the consensus.

Who said that?
Did anybody on this site say having a big penis made you good in bed?
Talk about straw man arguments.....

I thought most of discussion of penis size on this forum lately revolved around RACE...not sexual performance.

 

 

How accurate the following is, nor do I care if anyone disagrees with my take on what preceded this

Well you're certainly putting a lot of energy in to something you CLAIM you don't care about....LOL

If you don't care and it doesn't matter to you...why start a whole THREAD on the matter???
 

 

 

 

Interestingly enough, "width" got just as good marks as "length", making short thick penises an asset

"Interesting enough" for somebody who said they didn't even care about the subject, huh?

 

I'm sure I'm the only one who sees what's going on here....lol

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ProfD

 

Funny thing is NO man can measure himself against a horse. Not even close.

That doesn't stop some dudes from trying, though.....lol.

Infact, in the Bible there was a passage that suggested the ancient Egyptian men WERE packing dicks like donkeys!

[Troy]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

 I also wonder if Asian men were known as being the ones with the biggest dicks, would Asian women be all over the internet downplaying it and pretending as if it didn't matter?

 

You are looking at it the wrong way.  What I'm knocking your use of stereotypes -- particularly as they related to race. 

 

Another stereotype is that Asian men are inherently better at math than Black men.  Do you think this is true? Now you can look up test scores to support the stereotype, but it could also be Black boys spend more time playing basketball and boasting about penis size than studying math.  @Pioneer1 did you study calculus in high school?

 

 

[Pioneer1]

12 minutes ago, Troy said:

 @Pioneer1 did you study calculus in high school?

 

Ofcourse not.

Now, why would you ask someone who is.....what do you call me...."incorrigible"?....a question like that????

 

I barely passed Algebra....lol.

As far as the Asian academic superiority stereotype......

This may be true if Asians (as a race) were to be compared to AfroAmericans (as an ethnic group) or White Americans (as a  group)
However it would NOT be true if Asians were compared to Nigerian Americans (as an ethnic group) or many other African-American ethnic groups in the United States.
Africans tend to earn the title of being academically superior even to Asians.

[aka Contrarian]

@Pioneer1I never said I didn't care about the subject of penis size, as you in your strawman mode claimed. I said I didn't care if no one agreed with what I wrote about the subject.

My post wasn't meant as a rebuttal. It was a contribution, exploring one side of the multi-faceted subject of penis size. Am I not allowed to comment? If I poured salt on your wounds in the process, then that was a bonus. Bwahahahaha.

 

You seem to have a great need to be propped up, always looking to others for reassurance. Griping, at the idea of black women "all over the internet" pickin' on black men. Pouting if someone questions your assertions.

Apparently you consider yourself the only one allowed to criticize other Blacks. Woo, woo, woo. What would  Neely Fuller think of that????

[Pioneer1]

6 minutes ago, aka Contrarian said:

Am I not allowed to comment?

Hellll nah......

If you're bored this afternoon, slip on those slippers and take your ass outside and fuck with that hornet's nest.
If it doesn't have icicles on it....lol.
 

 

[aka Contrarian]

@Pioneer1Why would I be bored when I can I swat at a gnat  like you?

And why arent you at your job? Called in sick cuz you got your widdle  feelings hurt?

[Pioneer1]

15 minutes ago, aka Contrarian said:

And why arent you at your job?

I hit the Lotto for a multi-million dollar jackpot!
 

 

I decided to take the rest of the week off and celebrate.....lol.

Want something from the store?

[Troy]

I asked you about studying calculus in high school, because I did not study it either.

I was too worried about fitting in with my boys on the block: gambling drinking, and chasing girls.  Fortunately, I was an athlete and spent a great deal of time, off the block, working out or working my messenger job.

 

The AP Calculus class was full of Asian kids, so they were FAR better at math than us, but that was because they studied it and we did not. They do not demonstrate greater ability cultural differences led them to be better at math. 

 

By the time I began studying engineering in college I was already behind -- not just with my lack of knowledge but my ghetto mindset.

 

I believe all groups have the similar inherent ability in math the differences are to do with environment (ex. lead in the drinking water) and culture (ex. ghetto mentality).

 

If you buy into the Chinese kids are better at math than Black kids stereotype, then you do our people a disservice.

[Pioneer1]

Troy

Based on both observation and experience, with the vast majority of people...you tend to excel wherever you put your focus and most of your energy.

I didn't have too many Asians in my class growing up but we did have a few.
Based on observation they DID tend to do better in math and a few other subjects....but they failed miserably when it came to social interactions and they were TOTALLY absent on the sports teams in both Middle School and High School.
We didn't even know where they lived, because we didn't see them walking around or riding around the neighborhood on bikes like us.

They didn't attend any parties and if there was a school event they were very awkward  when it came to interacting with anyone except other Asians.
I'm not talking about recent Asian immigrants either, but kids who were born and raised in the U.S. and even their parents seems to speak pretty good English so they were thoroughly integrated into American culture.
They were just socially inept in many cases.

Black kids did good socially and in sports because that's where most of us put our focus and energy in.
Asian kids did good in academics because that's where they put most of THEIR energy and focus in.

Interestingly, the Korean and Chinese kids DID tend to get good grades but the Filipino kids did about the same as the Black and White kids.
Some excelled....others failed and had to stay behind a grade, lol.

In my opinion, school isn't JUST about book learning but how to interact with people...especially people of different backgrounds.
Learning how to handle conflict, approach and be successful with the opposite sex (or same sex if....lol), and how to get along in life in general.

To be a well rounded person, you need BALANCE.

[Troy]

3 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

To be a well rounded person, you need BALANCE.

 

Of course, but I was taking about stereotypes and how buying into them leads to confusion.

[Pioneer1]

Almost forgot.....
Who REALLY excelled in the schools I went to were the Jewish students!

I grew up in a neighborhood that was still transitioning from almost all Jewish to nearly all Black from the 60s to the 90s.....lol.
All the Jewish students DID was study.
And when they left the public schools they would get on a bus and spend hours at a PRIVATE school strictly to learn Jewish traditions.
This was every day!

[Troy]

Yeah that is probably why Jewish people punch over their weight when it comes to winning Noble Prizes and we dominate in basketball.

[ProfD]

Just now, Troy said:

Yeah that is probably why Jewish people punch over their weight when it comes to winning Noble Prizes and we dominate in basketball.

Jews can buy Nobel prizes and sports teams.  Ownership.

[Troy]

@ProfD are you saying that Jews influence that awarding of Nobel Prizes with money?  In the sciences that seems unlikely.

[ProfD]

2 minutes ago, Troy said:

@ProfD are you saying that Jews influence that awarding of Nobel Prizes with money?  In the sciences that seems unlikely.

I'm writing that money cannot be ruled out especially when folks want to *win* badly enough. 

 

For example, honorary degrees are given to people who donate enough money to colleges and universities.

 

Otherwise, I'd like to believe folks are *earning* the accolades, awards, titles, etc., bestowed upon them. 

[Troy]

In the sciences, I believe the Nobel prizes are mostly earned as you actually have to do something.
 

Nobel peace prize they gave to Obama was clearly not earned. He killed more people with drone attacks than the Bush. Cheney administration did and that saying a lot!

 

[ProfD]

7 hours ago, Troy said:

In the sciences, I believe the Nobel prizes are mostly earned as you actually have to do something.

True. One has to put in work. 

7 hours ago, Troy said:

Nobel peace prize they gave to Obama was clearly not earned. He killed more people with drone attacks than the Bush. Cheney administration did and that saying a lot!

The Nobel committee would argue that POTUS Obama earned the prize because achieved peace through strength.

 

Some people believe in violence and killing as a solution to *problems*.

 

The US is blowing up nuclear facilities, financing wars in other countries and sinking boats in international waters. 

 

if the Russia-Ukraine conflict ends, along with the Israel-Palestinian cease-fire, the azz POTUS OJ could end up with a Nobel Peace Prize despite killing folks directly and indirectly.

[Pioneer1]

 

 

....yet none of my questions on this thread have been answered.

Would Asian women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their men?

Would Latina women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their men?

Would Arab women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their own men?


It's a heck of a thing to see cheerleaders from YOUR school.....cheering for the OTHER damn team to win.

 

 
  "Go White boy, Go White boy, Go!" 

 

[ProfD]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

....yet none of my questions on this thread have been answered.

Would Asian women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their men?

Would Latina women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their men?

Would Arab women DOWNPLAY the masculine characteristics of their own men?

The obvious answer is we don't know if women of other cultures downplay the men because....

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

It's a heck of a thing to see cheerleaders from YOUR school.....cheering for the OTHER damn team to win.

Women of other cultures are not cheerleading for the men either. 

 

Women of other cultures do venture outside of it. Look no further than wife of the Vice POTUS.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

The obvious answer is we don't know if women of other cultures downplay the men because....

Well, perhaps that response IS an answer to the question!

 

You have 3 sons....
One is always going to jail and you have to constantly bail him out.

 

I ask you do your other two sons go to jail like that one.
...and because you never had to bail them out, you say you don't know.
 

Ofcourse that's not proof that they never get into trouble or go to jail but....you DO KNOW you've never had to bail them out.
So if the other 2 actually DIDN'T get into trouble...the fact that you never had to bail them out of jail would certainly be evidence of that.


If you haven't seen women of other cultures getting on social media and dissing and downplaying their own men - no, that doesn't mean they don't.
However IF they don't  -not seeing any videos of them do that would be evidence that they aren't doing it, lol


 

Women of other cultures do venture outside of it. Look no further than wife of the Vice POTUS
 

I knew quite a few girls from my highschool who used to kick it with boys from other highschools.
That's just the way it is.
That's human nature.

However those are individual choices and people doing what they feel like doing.
 

Indian women who fall in love with and date or marry American White men is different from Indian women getting on social media cussing out Indian men, saying Indian men ain't shit, and grinning while praising White men for how much better they are than Indian men.
 

[ProfD]

46 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

If you haven't seen women of other cultures getting on social media and dissing and downplaying their own men - no, that doesn't mean they don't.

However IF they don't  -not seeing any videos of them do that would be evidence that they aren't doing it, lol

Not seeing videos on them doing it may be enough evidence to satisfy some.

 

However, I would need proof to believe they aren't doing it. Spend time around and observing them. 

 

Social media would lead some people to believe Black people are ratchet, ignorant and broke.

 

Those same people would have their minds blown upon riding through Black enclaves of successful people with houses, cars and well adjusted families. 

 

The question is why is social media displaying ignorant and dysfunctional Black people instead of the positive.

 

[aka Contrarian]

@Pioneer1Still pounding on the  black man wailing wall.

Everybody loves a winner.

Go sit back on the bench, Loser!

[Pioneer1]

Dolemita said:


 

"Everybody loves a winner.

Go sit back on the bench, Loser!"