Troy posted a video of a celebrity that I had watched nearly a dozen times scrolling through the thread before I took time to read who the woman actually was.....Shakira

Why do I find this video disturbing?

Unless I'm mistaken, Shakira is almost 50 years old.....but she looks like a 20 year old in this video.

Now how much plastic surgery she may have had or how much make-up she used for this video shoot is besides the point, but this "forever young" mentality that I'm seeing among a lot of celebrities today is very harmful to psyche of the public.

Most 50 year old women have grey hair, cellulite, can't hop up and down and shake their hips like Shakira.
And there's nothing wrong with that.....most of them are STILL attractive.

When women...especially her fans....see her looking and acting like this at 50, they will wonder why THEY can look and act like her and feel that something is wrong with them.

I saw another video of Kanye West celebrating his 49th birthday.
He had no grey in his beard and not only was he bald but it didn't look as if his hair was thinning.
49 looking like he did at 29.

Nothing is wrong with this is it's now NATURAL for people in their middle ages to maintain the same looks as they did at 20 and 25, but we know most people don't and it's negatively affecting the self esteem of their fans....especially those who are around their age who age with them.

Get outta here! 50 is the new 30.

And why would a woman be negatively affected by her ageless idol rather than positively inspired. That's why she's a fan!

1 hour ago, aka Contrarian said:

Get outta here! 50 is the new 30.

Does Mr. Grey Hair, Mr. Arthritis, and Mr. High Blood pressure know that?

When a 50 year old acquires these problems does it BAFFLE the doctors of today and make headline news because these are problems that nobody should be getting at just 50 years of age?

"I'm only 75.....I shouldn't have this much grey hair.
I want to look like Shakira!"

Speak for yourself. You obviously know nothing about the state of womanhood in the year 2026

4 minutes ago, aka Contrarian said:

Speak for yourself. You obviously know nothing about the state of womanhood in the year 2026

You've known nothing about the state of womanhood since you made your "transition".

And you know nothin aboutmanhood since they turned you out in jail

20 minutes ago, aka Contrarian said:

And you know nothin aboutmanhood since they turned you out in jail

🤔 -"aboutmanhood"

Is that a new word?
Is that Arabic?

Yes it is Arabic. It means you know nothing about nothing.

Plastic surgery & body transformations ( injections) & hair implants to name a few things that are big business because people don't want to put in ths work (diet & exercise) to get in shape naturally & age gracefully.

Low self-esteem is the only reason any seasoned woman would aspire to look &/or be like Shakira or anyone else.😎

@ProfD I wouldn't say low self-esteem is the only reason. It's not necessarily even a case of wanting to look like somebody else. It's often just a case of wanting to become your "best self"; just as easily a case of self- love, rather than self-hate.

It's presumptuous to suggest that one size fits all when it comes to why a woman decides to improve her appearance.

Men would do well to stop trying to define women. 😉

4 hours ago, aka Contrarian said:

Men would do well to stop trying to define women. 😉

The question is.....
Why do so many women adhere to those definitions?

That fact is, most women's identities revolve around what the men of their society think of them.

@Pioneer1 Thats not a fact, And the only person asking that question is your dumb ass.

9 hours ago, aka Contrarian said:

@ProfD I wouldn't say low self-esteem is the only reason. It's not necessarily even a case of wanting to look like somebody else. It's often just a case of wanting to become your "best self"; just as easily a case of self- love, rather than self-hate.

It's presumptuous to suggest that one size fits all when it comes to why a woman decides to improve her appearance.

Men would do well to stop trying to define women. 😉

I'll stand by my belief that a seasoned woman getting plastic surgery or implants has low self-esteem & I'll add...wasting her money.

Of course, whataver a woman chooses to do to herself &/or with resources is her own business.

That woman probably shouldn't grin & smile in the face of a man like me. I'll see comedic source material in her.🤣😎

@ProfD Those who observe societal behavior have always claimed that women dress to impress other woman, - that they value the opinion of their peers more than men. This has come to be true in other areas, too. When it comes to appearance, they are more fixated on being admired and envied by females more than males, always pricing each others' clothes and checking labels and what stores someone shops at.

I just don't equate self-improvement with low self-esteem. Acknowledging that you're not perfect and electing to improve on what you have, is a positive approach. "Vanity, thy name is 'woman'."