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Chris, whenever people hit 50 they start talking about the world coming to the end -- soon. Whooping Cough and this other sicknesses that were eradicated are coming back 'cause there are enough now who believe the vaccinations are actually bad for you -- good night nurse! Cynique, I would recommend you skip Inception. It was a plodding mess of a movie. Seek alternative ways to manipulate your dreams :-)

It was a poor likeness but obvioulsy supposed to be Obama. I'm not sure that this stupid game at an obscure backwater church's fair was news worthy. The broadcast generated unnecessary attention. I guess it was a slow news day in that town.

A member of Ray, Goodman & Brown (Harold Brown, I think) sat behind me on a flight to Atlanta last week. In the midst of his persistent conversation with another Brother across the aisle from him I learned of Al Goodman's passing.

Intersting conversation. The death of "Black Literary Fiction" is but symptom of a much larger societal problem. Of course Black folks are the canaries in the mine. Black literary fiction, literary magazines, intelligent film, serious television, music, websites, you name it, will be increasingly difficult to make commercially viable going forward. The only ones who will try to produce this stuff, including Black Literary Fiction, will be; subsidized by the government (not for profit), or be on a mission. Either way they will not be interested in getting rich or even making very much money... We don't have very many people in our community willing to invest in this type of thing. Oprah will seemingly support Tyler Perry before Spike Lee. If makes business sense. Besides we make Tyler box office king. I watched 30 minutes of Soike Lee's Do the Right thing the other nigth, that 30 minutes was better than all of Perry movies combined. I have to sign off as my flight is landing.... @aalbc

Carey I hear you, but I think you are missing the main points. Many of the interactions taking place on facebook would not have taken place at all. Think of it like writing a letter. A century ago people could stay in touch because there was a reliable mail delivery system to transport letter. Prior to that people who were at great distances from each other simply could not stay in touch. Needless to say the interactions on facebook, via hand written letters and in person are different. However it is up to each individual to determine which form of communication is better at any given time. Facebook more than anything else is a substitiute for face to face interaction, and a way to complete interactions between people who actually see each other regularly. I can definitely relate to Anthony's comments and had to take similiar actions to restrict my time and what I do on Facebook. Simialir to what I have to do at Thumpwer's Corner

Carey, I disagree with your premise. The face to face social interactions which you suggest are being impeded; never would have taken place in the first place. In reality people are connecting with folks they would never have met and can now interact with them in the real world. I would argue the opposite: Facebook facilitates face to face interaction. Of course, as I’ve said before, Facebook, like life in general, is what you make of it.

Cynique in LeBron's case don't hate the playa hatee he game. Professional sports was jacked when they became big business; it became more about money than the love of the sport. Can you image a time when professional players had to work as car salemen during the off season to make ends meet. Players use to actually live in the community with the fans. Go to the local bars they were part of the community. LeBron, if he is sucessful (wins a championship), will build a global franchise: He and his boys will make FAR more money than the relatively platry sums offered by the NBA. The game of basketball is incidental.

Xeon, yes it really does depend upon the individual. If you are not a business owner and do not like social networking sure don't bother. Despite the hype one can still have a full and meaningful life without Facebook. I hosted a dinner party on Friday with people I connected with over Facebook that I went to grade school going back to 1967! A couple of these folks I have not seen since the mid 70's. This is not likely to have happened -- certainly not as easily -- without Facebook. Now one can argue that there is no point in getting together with people you have not seen in 30 years. While I enjoyed that diner great deal, I completely understand that some people have no interest in getting together with old acquaintances and friends. Again Facebook would have zero value for these people. I also know people who have been reunited with family members via Facebook. I created a secret group on Facebook just for my family members. It was born from a family reunion I organized last year. I think Anthony Wallace's opinion about Facebook, in general, is wrong. However I know there are people who are wasting time there, and for those individuals, he is right.

Carey I agree with everything you wrote. The analogy "crying like a 1863 slave owner" was completely on point. I'm not so sure about the lakers though, but time will tell!

rambam you can discuss ANY topic of literature here. Thumper, this boards namesake, often makes forays into hsi "winter wonderland" and reports on his finds here. Elliott, Shakespeare and the rest was required reading for anyone with more than a grade school education here in the US so, most folks here have read those works unless they were home schooled or went to a private school that did not focus completely on Western culture. The best way to broach a new topic is to tell us what YOU think, then pose a more specific non open ended question. Enjoy

LeBron is using his talents in ways that no other baller has before. He is playing the NBA rather than getting played by them. He is demonstrating control over his destiny. He has not allowed money alone to dictate his decisions.

Xeon I accept your premise. However, how do we reverse the problem, without imposing draconian laws and seriously restricting our freedom? Indeed, perhaps the REAL problem is TOO much freedom. Seemingly any behavior is acceptable. Celebrities who behave badly are still idolized. Teenagers who have children out wedlock are still given big baby showers. Men who have a couple of "baby mommas" are still view as desirable. People who claim the above are problems are shouted down and derided as "old fashioned" or God damned "Republican" This is just not a Black thing, though we seem to be a leading indicator of very serious cultural problems.

I spend at least an hour, sometime more, a day on Facebook. I rationalize that it is part of my job, and much of what I do is work related however I do use it for personal stuff too. I strive to be very disciplined on Facebook, early on I saw how it can be a huge time sapper. I found myself posting a link to a book review -- next thing I know I was looking at someone's photos for 20 minutes. I don't play games like Farmville or Mafia Wars. I don't have the time. I've even blocked those apps to prevent people from sending emails from those programs. I also block the apps that send virtual flowers, I love you hearts, drinks, if I get something new -- I immediately block the ap. I disabled the chat feature. I don't reply to messages unless they are directed to me specifically and are business related or from someone I really know. The Facebook Fanpages (AALBC.com Fan Page) help a lot. I recommend people using Facebook for business purposes create a fanpage rather than a profile page (Troy's Profile Page). At the end of the day Facebook, like the Internet in general, is really what YOU make of it. It can be a fantastically useful and beneficial place -- indeed the Internet is the source of my livelihood. At the other extreme it can be a very dangerous place. I know of a man who was murdered by someone he met on-line and invited to his house. However for most of us, it will range from being a relatively innocuous waste of time to being a really cool place to stay connect with family and friends. I don't foresee any terrible adverse impact on culture -- at least not nearly as bad as the impact of the Boob-Tube!

This is classic Cynique y'all! Cynique with your permission I'd like to republish -- this is great. "...hoping they didn’t take you up on the offer." HA, HA HA! "The Internet - the enabler of every bizarre facet reflected by today’s society." - Deep! I OFTEN think about the things I do for my children that they are unaware of and/or take for granted -- things that my parents would not have dreamed of doing for me. I'm sure the kiddies benefited in some respects but I think they may have placed at a disadvantage in others. My kids have been to more places, acquired more processions and experiences by 16 than I did by 30 -- no exaggeration! Net-net this is a good thing. I'm fortunate I had the resources to provide this for them. However part of me wonders how they will react when times are hard. Well they reflect on the good times, continue to work hard, confident things will improve; or will they fall apart unaccustomed to going without the luxuries to which they've become accustomed. "children taking center stage as their doting parents over-indulged them" this seems so true -- especially in upper middle class families. Some of my buddies have given up their entire weekends shuttling kids from “play dates” to baseball practice to piano lessons. They spend lavishly on sweet 16 parties, Christmas, vacations, camp, schools, cars, salons, clothing, etc. But even lower middle class parent do the same thing spending a ton of money on sneakers ("tennis shoes" for you southerners), jewelry and clothing. Speaking of sneakers I was a teenager when the real pressure to get the latest sneakers started. If you got the $100 Air Jordans you was the man! You could get by with Puma, Addias, Converse or maybe Pro-Keds -- anything less and you were the object of ridicule and scorn. There was no surer indicator of how poor you were if you stepped outside with rockin' some no-name brand sneakers ("skippies"). The mentality persists into adulthood and the cycle continues... ...and we are seemingly becoming a nation of spoiled brats unable to instill discipline into our children -- because we never had it.

I'll disagree with that. Or rather I'll say AMERICA IS FUCKED UP! compared to what? America does not have the crushing poverty other countries have. America is a relatively free country where you can come and go as you please, and pretty much say what you want. Try going on-line, in China, and say, "China is Fucked Up". America is not perfect and she is does do some fucked up things. But to claim the whole country is fucked up is sheer hyperbole. Maybe, at the rate we are going, in a generation or two, or three you might be right...

"I come to realize that I'm wasting way too much time on here. The real movers and shakers aren't on here, just us everyday working joes. I want to be a mover and shaker. It's time to get my hustle on, so I will only be checking my FB once a week to post any signings or dj gigs I might have. FB is keeping us from making any real moves, it's a drug and I need to stop being a junky." --Anthony L. Wallace Is he right?

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Chris -- whatchu talkin' 'bout? 'Splain Brother. BTW didja find any records of Americans starving to death?

...I just re-read what I wrote. I'm surprised you could interpret anything I put down -- sorry about that Cynique, I would be willing to bet it is harder to raise a child, for everyone, today than it was 50 years ago. The negative external influences are far greater nowadays. What do you think?

All those books in 90 days Linda, impressive. I always recommend Standing at the Scratch Line to dudes looking for a good read. Chris who is Janelle Monae?

I'm listening to a Sunday morning talk show here in NYC, while trying to get a newsletter written (first one since late April). The radio hosts talking about the number of murders taking place in Chicago. In one recent weekend, 52 murders took place over a single weekend - including a 1 year baby! This past weekend 40+ murders took place. Virtually all of these murders are of Black people by other Black people... One Brother felt that Black men need to hit the streets and take them back -- policing our own communities. That sounds good, but it will never happen. Most Black people with money do not live in those communities and are not coming back to help. Working class Blacks in those communities are too busy trying to keep their own families running. The rest of the Brothers are contributing to the problem. Besides trying to stop gang activity can be very dangerous. What do y'all think is the cause of this problem? What are the solutions? Some say it is the "culture of violence" of the Black inhabitants of Chicago. Some blame the legacy of slavery. Some blame a lack of jobs, good schools, and community centers.

Bookfan your research, as usual, is sound. I would have never rememebered the conversation. Given what I wrote then I like the paper back cover even more

Cynique, nice. I LOVE hearing your perspective. I remember when the first McDonalds came to my neighborhood (Spanish Harlem) it was in the mid 70’s and is still open. I rarely had the money to do. We went after I graduated from Jr. High School – that was a BIG treat! Today I only go to a McDonalds if I’m on the highway and I’m hungry. They built an Applebee‘s in Harlem, right on 125th street. Like the Starbucks on the same street it is doing very well. I hate chain restaurants. I avoid them unless there are no other options. Increasingly, in many cities, there are no options. One of the things I dislike about 2010 is the increasing sameness of everything. I swear, I can be in a mall in Anchorage Alaska, look at the stores, and can’t tell if I’m in Dallas, TX, or Willow Grove PA. They will all have a Barnes and noble, a Wall Mart, an Outback, Radioshack, etc. And all of those cities will all have a Power 99 radio station playing the same, mostly mediocre, music. When they are not play bad music then tell be doing telephone pranks or dishing up dirt on some celebrity. I can see where one might like the idea of multiplexes, but it is like having a couple hundred stations to choose from on cable TV now. 99.9% of the stuff you don’t want to see and ½ the stuff you do watch is rarely turns out to be worth the time. And why does every Black actor today have to be a former rap star, singer or comedian? It has been so long since we’ve seen good acting I think most of us have forgotten what it looks like. I saw Denzel in Fences and he, and the rest of the cast, reminded me what good acting is... I remember going to the drive-in. When we visited my cousins in North Carolina, as kids, we would sit on the roof of the car. The last close to my home in NYC (I believe), closed in the 80’s. By then I owned a car and would take dates to the drive in. It was a cool date cause most NY Women did not have cars and had never been to a drivein movie. I remember when no one had AC too. I often wonder how we made it. We had electric fans. We would also play in the water blasting out of a fire hydrant. Few of us had cars, so that was not an issue. I do recall my mom putting on baby powder and just lying on the bed, under the fan, to stay cool.

Soul Sister, I truly appreciate you candor and honestly. Rarely does an overweight person describe themselves the way you did. I trust you will continue to take care of yourself and reap the benefits of striving for a healthier weight. I'm 48, I LOVE food too –- all the cuisines you mentioned and more! I'm also 30 pounds lighter than I was when I was 45. The single biggest factor in my weight loss was eating less. I eat all the same food – just less. I also try to get into the gym or do something physical 3 times a week. Sometimes I make it sometimes I don’t. The other benefit is just an overall sense of feeling good. My clothing fits better. I feel as healthy as I did when I was 30 (no exaggeration). Hypertension runs in my family. My father passed at 44, his bother passed at 36. This is terribly sad; so much so because it was so avoidable. (note: I also understand, as a 48 year old Black man, there were other things going on which led to self-destructive behavior back then. Perhaps we are seeing similar issues in Black women today?) Aesthetics is one thing, health is entirely different matter. Weight related health problems, in most cases can be avoided. Again, this is part of the reason why life expectancy is going down – more so in our community. Another thing that bothers me are the women who say it is OK to be a “Big Girl”, telling other women it is OK to embrace and love the extra girth. To me this is the same as glamorizing cigarette smoking, binge drinking or sexual promiscuity. A perfectly normal human being can, from time to time, engage in all of the above activities. However it is wrong to suggest there are no consequences if the behavior becomes a habit or a life style. We should all strive to maintain a healthy weight not for appearance sake but our own health and well being.