@Pioneer1My environment has always been integrated. I attended school and college with, worked beside, lived next door to white people. And, of course, I've always been around black men. And I never found the men in one group any more completely appealing than the other. There were ones I found attractive in each group and ones I found unattractive in each group;all seemed equally horny. (I don't know about penis size.)
"Italian stallions" were "something else". Cool, aloof Nordic types very intriguing. Black dudes? Comfortable to be around.
What made a difference, of course, was that I didn't socialize with white people. All my interactions were with my own kind. And there were plenty of rejects among them.
As for my husband, he chose me. And because he we were very compatible, we ended up married.
Oddly enough, it was only after we wed, when other women would tell me I had a handsome husband, did I look closer at him and think, humm he is kinda fine. This probably had to do with him aging well, because we were 23 when we tied the knot.
Among my black female friends, we never went around raving about black guys being top of the line.We just stuck with who we were around. Interracial coupling wasn't pursued.
It amazes me how you tout black men as being so superior over other men, so much more appealing to women, white ones in particular, based solely on what? You seem convinced that all white woman are turned on by all black men. How do you know this? You never consider how traits other than physical ones can be aphrodisiacal to all women
I simply think that fine, sexy, personable, brilliant individuals are found in all ethnicities.
A few years after my husband passed, out of curiosity and encouraged by my kids, I tried dating this one black man - who never picked me up and took me grocery shopping!
No chemistry.
End of story.