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@Chevdove I would say this applies to everyone. There are various instances of people snapping like Michael Douglas in Falling Down. Who is shooting up the school. @Chevdove the truth is often offensive . I don't think being a victim is a strength either. I think of strength as a positive attribute. So I don't think abusers abused victims and bullies having traits aren't aspirational for me. Can you tell me or describe an abuse that you personally feel would be beneficial for you to undergo. I think all relationships are a negotiation. Which can be done either consciously unconsciously or not. In one of my first jobs out of University I told my boss that I was going to sign a report. I said I'll do the work but I won't sign it. She said fine. I told coworkers that story for years. A few said they didn't know they could say no. Our social system is sociopathic it is built on agression domination and theft. There are women that feel pressure to give a guy some of her takes her out for dinner. Then other women will go to dinner with a man they don't like for a free meal. There are women that will split the bill. And some that will pay either because they invited you or that's their thing. I used to hang out in New York night life. And I saw a few kept men and women both straight and homosexual. It appeared that the younger person was generally better looking more fit. That's a projection because it could be the younger person could have the money. I felt as though . you both got what the wanted or needed. I believe most decisions are subconscious or emotional. How many times has a friend told you their reasons and you think, naw that doesn't add up.

People are invisible yet always accessible.

Isreal is kicking Africans out so K2 may have more pressing problems. Not a game I am interested in playing. For a number of reasons.

@Pioneer1Cynique has answered your questions from her perspective. It is problematic to say what she means, when she had said what she meant. Yeah I have said this it cuts down the games. Honesty diffuses the Game. Although there have been times I wanted to lie. If you lie your are taking someone's ability to choose by deciding what is best for both of you. Or perhaps neither of you cared enough to ask.

Stop runnin from massa.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiDti_Xnnmo

The question what do you want is a good game ender. For both sides.

I prefer riddling to jesting.

If members searchive the term and then go to your site would your rankings go up. Based on a results I would say Google has an algorithm to reward high traffic sites more than the term being searched. Which is why I don't generally use Wikipedia as a source. Just trying to think of was members can boost your ranking.

Firstly I would say it is a complicated issue. That has such a large emotional component that may prevent a rational discussion. The trix comment is not related to your statement. A post has to be somewhere and I have no control over where it goes. One of the things I do when thinking about a topic issue or a problem is reverse the statement or answer. So do you think being abused is a strength? Does the abused feel strong and confident when getting abused? Does being abused improve the quality of a person's life? I would say not in the short-term. However I look forward to seeing your reply. I don't think Cynique is a biznitch, I think she's a part time crank. Can you tell me what I said that you see as me psychoanalysing Cynique. I prefer to ask than assume people's reason or rational. I don't care why she did it either beyond the discussion. Whether she is propping up Black Men or busting their balls I wouldn't know. Those are statements she made about herself. O dont feel yhat Cynique is busting Black Balls or propping up Black Ball owners,that hasn't been my experience because that is not part of our discourse ,discussion or communication . @Chevdove Maybe ask a sex worker? Or just have a chat with one.

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@Troy if members and visitors search through El Goog do your numbers go up.?

You can buy like on Facebook. I wondering if they were bots

His support get him the office but I don't think it will keep him there.

i subsequently offered what i thought might give a back story about myself so maybe you could draw conclusions about why i have the attitude i have. That's my point I don't want to psychoanalyse or presuppose your motivation. I wanted to hear what you thought was the reason. I even posted you have answered the question. The case closed was a pun on you saying I am psychoanalysing you. It also had to ask K2 multiple questions before he answered my question. So I no longer ask K2 to clarify his position. I also won't be asking you to clarify any self referential comments that you make. It takes too long , it has the reverse effect. You get annoyed that I am either not being clear and or that I am putting you on a couch. For what reason. Years ago when Troy said I should read your chart I asked for your permission and whether you wanted it in your email.

in case you hadn't seen this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z3ApTwWRQNw @Pioneer1 it seems this thread is about a question. or am I mistaken. And if not was that questioned answered.

The answer I was looking for was the one that you have given.

I am going to drop this because it is to difficult for you. I ask a question twice that is actually the point if this this thread. Can you point to one thing I said that is me psychoanalysing you? I said if you aren't aware of why or don't want to talk about it fine. This one time asking for clarity or wanting to hear your rational didn't work. You have no on test in explaining a comment that you volunteered. I make observations and sometimes statements. Case closed.

53 million are they all People?

Sentiment is how you feel, motivation is why you did it. How does my typo confuse you about the authorship, when you wrote it. You've already said you weren't proud of your behaviour. Pioneer was asking why, I have asked why? Not answering something you posted about yourself seems like deflection. It is not clear your reason and your objective for being a ball buster to men. It's not just life it is your life. You voluntarily share a behaviour and describe it as if it were someone else. "I was probably doing the guys a favour." Don't you know what you were doing or would you rather forget.l?

Cynique the bit in red is something you said. You had responded with a general statement about women in general. What was your reason for doing so? If you don't want to reveal yourself or don't know, that is fine. It just seemed like a deflection. More than an oversight from someone who is generally rational.

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@Cynique you could she's light on this, yet you are deflecting, why? Typos

@Troy spontaneous plagiarism.