I'm surprised that someone like you who believes in polygamy is so appalled by adultery, Pioneer.
And what planet do you live on when you say the adulterous behavior of high profile white politicians is a well-guarded secret?? The media jumps on any hint of scandalous behavior regardless of race. Randy white politicians are all who've been in news for the past few years: John Edwards, Anthony Weiner, Elliot Sptizer and just recently General Patreus and his crony and numerous other representatives and governors who've cheated on their wives with prostitutes and strippers and other women. And of course, Bill Clinton. Puleeze.
The rules that govern this society are not "white" rules. White and black men aren't that different from each other. They're all capable of being dogs on the prowl. The rules are to preserve the structure of society and guard respect for women. Your dreams of a patriarchial black culture geared toward trifling black men has the potential to be a nightmare. And it's not like black men don't already do everything they can get away with. That's why there is this ongoing conflict between bruthas and sistahs. You just can't accept the idea that black women aren't amenable to being submissive to black men who haven't earned the right to dominate by being responsible providers able to take care of the mates they want as subordinates. The behavior you think comes natural to black men has been cultivated by the slavery formula that reduced them to studs and breeders.