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Why do I get the impression that you are from Chicagoland???

I'm sure the black and white answer is: porn is not a good thing. Most of the porn out there is not a reflection of what a healthy sex life is and should be. Watching too much of it can give people a warped sense of sex. Yes, when it comes to sex in a marriage, there isn't a perfect definition of what works and what doesn't. One person's disgusting act is another person's fantasy. And if both people are will to try new things AWESOME. But most porn involves victimizing girls that didn't have a healthy childhood. And to buy it, subscribe to it, and watch it means your supporting an industry that doesn't care about these females. So, I would prefer to try new and daring things on our own before giving money to an industry like that.

Wow, what a discussion... Porn, Sex and Religion. Well, as I've journeyed through this thang called life, I've learned that there are a few topics that a person should not touch. I mean, unless a person is prepared for a mountain of "push-back" and controversy, there are some subjects that will surely find them in a heap of trouble. Having said that, and although I've never liked discussing politics, religion or another man's wife, I'm gonna jump in this discussion. See, I was married for 35 years and I learned a few things along the way. Well, first, sex is a very powerful "tool". It can be used to attract another person and control another person. However, it will not be, nor should be the glue that binds a couple together. Because truth be told, it will have periods of "depression". How the couple kick-starts those down periods or regenerates those feelings of the first years of their union is and should be a private affair. If it takes a porn flick or sexual involvement out of their normal habit of "spread it, get it and go" then that's their mission and who has the right to defines how another couple should reach their bliss? So I am here to say, sometimes, although the couples love may be a strong as the first 6 months, sex and sex organs, and the impulses that control them are very complicated, and they have little to do with love. So, I thought about this for some time and came up with what I believe is a good message. Actually, what I am about to present came by way of someone else who spent a little time on the subject. Here it goes: If you always do what you've always done You'll always get the same old stuff Life can treat you good, then turn as cold as ice And believe me when I tell you This thing called love, for sure is like most things in life Not all bad, not all good (It's just something that I believe) Not all cold, not all hot (Yeah, I like that, not all hot) Not all bitter, not all sweet (Sounds all right to me) So don't miss all the good, waiting for the best There's still happiness, right in the middle Perfect love sounds real nice But that never seemed to happen With any relationship of mine It was always up and down, in then out And after the last goodbye I still didn't know what it was all about You get disappointed if it ain't bliss all the time And you get so annoyed It can't feel the same every night, love it Not all bad, not all good (I'm tryin' to tell you that it's) Not all high, not all low (Not all high and not all low) Not all heaven, not all hell And as far as I, as far as I can tell It's not some prize you win You don't have a thing to prove Just enjoy the groove right in the middle 'Cause I've learned when it comes to love It's the exact same reality That's why they say, ...Que sera, sera... Which means, whatever's gonna be is gonna be Whatever's gonna be is gonna be Whatever's gonna be is gonna be Not all bad, not all good (I need somebody to understand) Not all sunshine, not all rain (You know that too much of a good thing is really no good) Not all laughter, not all tears (I'm only trying to tell you) To let your good times roll, keep your self control And there's a lotta soul, right in the middle. Right In The Middle by Luther Vandross BTW, Luther also did another song by the name of CREEPIN' *winking at writergirls870's suggestion/comment*