Call me old and cynical - because that's what I am. I'm beginning to think black folks should stop worrying about stereotypes. It's a waste of time. And our accusing white people of stereotyping us is an example of us stereotyping white people. In one-on-one contacts with white people, intelligent ones will judge a black person as an individual. They will see our good qualities and in many cases be threatened by them. But in a dog-eat-dog world, everybody is threatened by those of any race with whom they are in competition. White folks do each other in!
Americans need look no further than the highest office in the land to see a black family that defies stereotypes. Republicans are frustrated with Obama because they can't stereotype him.
in show business, stereotyping is as much about reality as about race.The white characters in EMPIRE are also stereoptyped as demonstrated by the blatant caricature of a loud, pushy. female Jewish PR agent, and the white wife "going down" on her black husband. Let's face it. Squeaky clean middle class Blacks are boring and have to be cast in ludicrous sit-coms that operate on a one-joke premise. We're just like stupid white folks, only we're black. Gritty, larger than life black characters are provocative. "Orange Is The New Black" is more compelling than "Black-ish". That's just the way it goes.
In the real world, you can't escape the burden of your race and you can't bend other Blacks to your will. They gonna do what they do. You can, however, feather your own nest and lead a tolerable life and when it comes to white people, you can plod along, telling yourself that "those who care don't count, and those who count don't care". You can also do like I do. Just utter the very liberating phrase that consists of 2 powerful words. Fuck it.
IMO.