The Interracial Reality: Are White Men Gaining Traction? :Observation On Sexual Racism

[Pioneer1]

Here you got a White man BRAGGING about how easy it is for him to have sex with Black girls.
Even though the clip is about 15 minutes, they only talk about the actual theme of the video for just the first few minutes before O'shea goes into some other random shit.

 

Here you got these White boys sitting up here BRAGGING about how easy it is.

The reason I think there's some merit to what he's saying is because when I look at a lot of the younger people in society today, I too have noticed how easy it seems that so many young Black women are taking to so many young White men both sexually AND platonically. 

For whatever reason, it seems like a lot of younger Black women just feel more COMFORTABLE around White men in a way we didn't see in the past.

[Laydee Gaga]

5 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Here you got a White man BRAGGING about how easy it is for him to have sex with Black girls.
Even though the clip is about 15 minutes, they only talk about the actual theme of the video for just the first few minutes before O'shea goes into some other random shit.

 

Here you got these White boys sitting up here BRAGGING about how easy it is.

The reason I think there's some merit to what he's saying is because when I look at a lot of the younger people in society today, I too have noticed how easy it seems that so many young Black women are taking to so many young White men both sexually AND platonically. 

For whatever reason, it seems like a lot of younger Black women just feel more COMFORTABLE around White men in a way we didn't see in the past.

 

Prostitution is celebrated NOW among BW which is why its so easy for them to appear be "comfortable" around white men. When theres a set goal then it looks comforting since you know what will happen at the end. BW dont really go on dates with WM, they just have sex with them in hopes he asks her out after. So they arent really comfortable, they are in a vulnerable position since BW are the last pick for WM. BW would have to compete with Asian and Hispanic women for WM and WM have shown they rather marry them than BW.

 

You need to study history, speak to people and eavesdrop on other races conversations. BW who "date" marry WM are always involved in some kind of sex work. Always. There is a reason for that but do your research. 

[Troy]

On 12/6/2024 at 4:31 AM, Pioneer1 said:

White man BRAGGING about how easy it is for him to have sex with Black girls.

 

Why do you watch stuff like this man? 

 

But more importantly, why do you use this material, as the Brother in the video does, to make generalizations about the wider community.

 

On 12/6/2024 at 9:59 AM, Laydee Gaga said:

BW who "date" marry WM are always involved in some kind of sex work. Always.

 

That is absurd on its face. Do you think Melody Hobson is a sex worker?

Edited December 8, 2024 by Troy
Stupid AutoCorrect

[Pioneer1]

Laydee Gaga

 

 

Wow, that's a lot to unpack....lol.

 

 

BW dont really go on dates with WM, they just have sex with them in hopes he asks her out after. 

 

????
How common is this?

 

 

 

 

So they aren't really comfortable, they are in a vulnerable position since BW are the last pick for WM. BW would have to compete with Asian and Hispanic women for WM and WM have shown they rather marry them than BW.

 

Hmmm.......
I believe they'd prefer Asian women, but when it comes to choosing between Black (AfroAmerican and African) women and Latino women...I've seen just as many White men with Black women as with non-Black Latinas.

 

 

 

 

 

You need to study history, speak to people and eavesdrop on other races conversations. BW who "date" marry WM are always involved in some kind of sex work. Always. There is a reason for that but do your research. 

 

What's the "reason" for it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Troy

Why do you watch stuff like this man? 

Somebody has to.
Does the truth about how so many of our women behave and feel about us, bother you?



 

But more importantly, why do you this material, as the Brother in the video does, to make generalizations about the wider community.

And even MORE important than that.....
Why don't you PROOF READ your comments before posting them, lol.

I barely understand what you're saying much of the time because that speech-to-text or whatever you're using is jumbling up the words...lol.
 

[Troy]

5 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I barely understand what you're saying much of the time because that speech-to-text or whatever you're using is jumbling up the words...lol.

Yeah, most of the time when I post I’m laying in bed using text to speech. But I swear as it is writing what I say it’s correct then I hit save and the text has been changed. I’ve caught it a couple of times. It’s like it corrects what I’m writing After the fact it didn’t always do that. 
 

I’ll be more careful and proof my posts.
 

5 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Does the truth about how so many of our women behave and feel about us, bother you?

It is hard for me to take anything these children say on YouTube seriously. Particularly since the most absurd stuff is elevated and pushed into everyone’s feeds. I’ve published hundreds of videos over the years and it’s always the most scandalous stuff that gets viewed the most and I’m positive it’s because YouTube is pushing it, so people create more this stuff to feed the algorithm and make more money.

 

so know the video themselves don’t bother me. I just wish people would take some of the more serious videos share those and talk about them as much as they do the videos of some silly little white boy talking about how easy black women are to bang.

[Pioneer1]

Troy

 

But I swear as it is writing what I say it’s correct then I hit save and the text has been changed. I’ve caught it a couple of times. It’s like it corrects what I’m writing After the fact it didn’t always do that. 

 

I believe you because I've seen it MYSELF a few times in my posts.
I go back to re-read what I typed and know for sure that I didn't use THAT particular word.

 

It is hard for me to take anything these children say on YouTube seriously. Particularly since the most absurd stuff is elevated and pushed into everyone’s feeds. I’ve published hundreds of videos over the years and it’s always the most scandalous stuff that gets viewed the most and I’m positive it’s because YouTube is pushing it, so people create more this stuff to feed the algorithm and make more money.

so know the video themselves don’t bother me. I just wish people would take some of the more serious videos share those and talk about them as much as they do the videos of some silly little white boy talking about how easy black women are to bang.

 

But this actually IS a serious issue because that silly white boy will grow up to be a serious White MAN, with more power and will take that confidence and mentality with him through out his life.

He already knows how easy he THINKS it is to pull Black women and already thinks that they're in love with him (and many of them are) and will use those experiences to not only take advantage of the ones WILLING to sleep with him but quite possibly FORCE himself on other Black women with the excuse that "they really wanted it anyway".

 

Sexual access is almost as important to men and the male ego as making money. And for some men, it's even MORE important.
If something out there is causing Black men to LOSE sexual access to Black women and causing White men to GAIN sexual access to Black women, shouldn't we know about it...for the sake of our pro-creative abilities?

 

 

 

[ProfD]

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Sexual access is almost as important to men and the male ego as making money. And for some men, it's even MORE important.
If something out there is causing Black men to LOSE sexual access to Black women and causing White men to GAIN sexual access to Black women, shouldn't we know about it...for the sake of our pro-creative abilities?

Again, knowing *why* Black men are lacking s8xual access to other groups should address your concerns.  However, I don't believe you are willing to *accept* it.  Money and power.

 

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

If Black men are the way we are...we were DESIGNED that way for a reason.
It wasn't a mistake

Black men are not designed to *turn off* women.  Any behavior that is unattractive needs to be corrected.

 

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I guess the fact that we have to "compete" with White men over Black women is what I don't like.

It's not about *competition* more than who has the ability to take care of that Black woman's needs.

 

Some Black women cycle through a bunch of loser Black dudes before they look elsewhere.

 

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

We didn't have to in the past, now it seems that many of us have to.

Your posts compare the past to present which is a slippery slope because it's based on your perception.  No quantifiable data. 

 

All of the Black women I see and know are procreating with Black men.  No mix.  

 

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

It's clearly a competition in the eyes of many if not most White men.

And they KNOW they have certain advantages with their wealth and image.

It's really not a competition in their eyes.  They see an opportunity.  They shoot their shot.  Like any man should do.  They might have more confidence.

 

8 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Although I miss some aspects of it, I'm grateful that I made it past my 20s and 30s so that I don't have to deal with what a lot of the younger Black men have to deal with today.

With my mentality and the way I think, I don't know what I'd do if I did.

I think you're more concerned with Black men in their 20s and 30s having s8xual access to a variety of women.  I don't believe it's a serious issue to them. 

 

Black men don't need anybody putting on a cape for them when it comes to women.  Nothing has changed.  They just need to man up.  Get money and power.  S8x becomes even easier to access across the spectrum.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

Again, knowing *why* Black men are lacking s8xual access to other groups should address your concerns.

 

No, it doesn't.
Because I already DO know why, and I'm still concerned...lol.

 

Knowing WHAT the problem is is only part of it.
A key part, but still ONLY a part.
Actually SOLVING the problem should be the goal.
...that removes the concerns.

 

 

 

  However, I don't believe you are willing to *accept* it.  Money and power.

 

That's only part of it.
There are plenty of Black men WITHOUT money or power who have plenty of sexual access to White women.
So it's more than just money and power that allows sexual access to non-Black women.

 

 

 

Any behavior that is unattractive needs to be corrected.

 

When it comes to that which is considered "unattractive"...

Perhaps the OBJECT being viewed isn't the problem, but the VISION of the viewer is.

 

 

Perhaps too many women are being PROGRAMMED to find traits UNATTRACTIVE that they...by nature...SHOULD.

 

 

 

 

Some Black women cycle through a bunch of loser Black dudes before they look elsewhere.

 

But were they REALLY losers?
Especially if they attracted THEM?

 

Most women don't find a man she considers a "loser" attractive, let alone has sex with and babies with him.

She obviously found the man SEXUALLY attractive.

Now somebody has told her or conditioned her to believe that what she PREVIOUSLY found attractive and willing to sleep with...was wrong or bad.
And that now she must look elsewhere to find a man that SOCIETY considers more suitable and acceptable.

 

 

All of the Black women I see and know are procreating with Black men.  No mix.  

 

I would say MOST of the ones I know are.
But many of them are not.

The problem is, the ones who are not seem to be GROWING.

 

 

 

 

They shoot their shot.  Like any man should do.  They might have more confidence.

 

Confidence often comes from SUCCESS.

They aren't naturally confident.
Most White men are timid when it comes to women.

But if they find out the Black women are being condition to fall in love with them almost unconditionally....hell yeah it's going to raise their confidence levels.
They realize they can almost NOT LOSE.

 

Now imagine if every ASIAN or LATINA woman a Black man talks to falls deeply inlove with him.
Wouldn't HIS "confidence" levels be off the charts?

 

 

I think you're more concerned with Black men in their 20s and 30s having s8xual access to a variety of women.  I don't believe it's a serious issue to them. 

 

Well, remember a lot of them today are gay and trans.
Attracting women isn't even on their gaydar radar!

So ofcourse it wouldn't be a serious issue for a large percentage of them.
 

[ProfD]

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Actually SOLVING the problem should be the goal.
...that removes the concerns.

It has to be identified as a problem worthy of being solved.

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

There are plenty of Black men WITHOUT money or power who have plenty of sexual access to White women.
So it's more than just money and power that allows sexual access to non-Black women.

I thought we already identified that it's culture and an anti-Black narrative.  

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

When it comes to that which is considered "unattractive"...

Perhaps the OBJECT being viewed isn't the problem, but the VISION of the viewer is.

If a woman finds a man unattractive, it's not a vision problem.  It's a chemistry problem.

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Perhaps too many women are being PROGRAMMED to find traits UNATTRACTIVE that they...by nature...SHOULD.

I don't believe women are being programmed to be unattracted to that which they naturally desire.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

But were they REALLY losers?
Especially if they attracted THEM?

Sure.  People are attracted to losers all the time. 

 

Women spend time with dudes who cannot provide for and/or protect them. 

 

Men kick it with women they would never introduce to their family and friends.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Most women don't find a man she considers a "loser" attractive, let alone has sex with and babies with him.

She obviously found the man SEXUALLY attractive.

Money will make a loser attractive.  People will do something strange for some change.

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Now somebody has told her or conditioned her to believe that what she PREVIOUSLY found attractive and willing to sleep with...was wrong or bad.
And that now she must look elsewhere to find a man that SOCIETY considers more suitable and acceptable.

If a woman has bad luck with 3-4 Black men, she might start thinking they are the problem instead of evaluating her own attraction to them.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I would say MOST of the ones I know are.
But many of them are not.

The problem is, the ones who are not seem to be GROWING.

We're going to eventually need that reference data.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Confidence often comes from SUCCESS.

There's no shortage of confident unaccomplished folks running around.

 

Plenty broke azz dudes with game who have baby mommas and wives and girlfriends.

  

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Now imagine if every ASIAN or LATINA woman a Black man talks to falls deeply inlove with him.
Wouldn't HIS "confidence" levels be off the charts?

Sure.  His confidence would be off the charts.  But, it would still take something for those women to fall in love with that Black man.

 

3 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Well, remember a lot of them today are gay and trans.

They wouldn't factor into the equation of this particular issue.  Unless they are also having a hard time getting dates from non-Black folks too.

 

Every previous generation seems to be concerned about the next generation.  The kids will be all right.  They always seem to figure it out one way or another.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

It has to be identified as a problem worthy of being solved.

 

That's what I'm attempting to do.
However a lot of our bruthaz are too slow to realize this and pick up on what's happening.

 

 

 

 

I thought we already identified that it's culture and an anti-Black narrative.  

 

Yes, but you switch up the focus from time to time.

If I say it's because they're Black, you say NO...it's because they are broke and they need to get their weight up.
But then in another argument in another thread when the issue is brought up again....you acknowledge that it's not so much the money issue as much as it's the anti-Black culture.

 

It's like playing wack-a-mole...lol.

 

       "SURPRISE...NIGGA!"

As soon as we nail down reason in one hole, here you pop out of ANOTHER hole with a different reason for the same problem...lol.

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If a woman finds a man unattractive, it's not a vision problem.  It's a chemistry problem.

I don't believe women are being programmed to be unattracted to that which they naturally desire.

....or a CONDITIONING problem.

 

Look at all of the light skinned and brown skinned women with very dark men today.
100 years ago many of them wouldn't give them the time of day because they would have found them very UNATTRACTIVE because of their dark skin.

Colorism was a very huge problem among our people at that time.
The women were CONDITIONED to find those men unattractive.

As the times changed they were CONDITIONED otherwise.

 

This is why I suspect this "all of a sudden" love affair with White men is a product of CONDITIONING.

 

 

 

 

Sure.  People are attracted to losers all the time. 
Women spend time with dudes who cannot provide for and/or protect them. 

 

That doesn't mean he's a loser.

First of all, if he wanted her and GOT her...he's NOT a loser.

 

Second.....
Even if he can't protect or provide for her, he may be good in bed and able to give her multiple orgasms every night.
So he's SATISFYING her sexually.
He's giving her what she wants.

 

 

 

 

Money will make a loser attractive.  People will do something strange for some change.

 

Now wait a minute mayon...lol.

You're going to have to stop and define "loser" for me.

 

First you're calling dudes who have the ability to attract women, "losers".
NOW you're even calling some dudes with MONEY, "losers".

 

I'd like to know YOUR definition of a "loser".

 

 

 

 

There's no shortage of confident unaccomplished folks running around.
Plenty broke azz dudes with game who have baby mommas and wives and girlfriends.

 

Again, just because he's broke...doesn't mean he's "unaccomplished" and has nothing to be confident about.

He may be HIGHLY accomplished in other areas where it counts.

 

 

 

 But, it would still take something for those women to fall in love with that Black man.

 

Yeah, like letting him fuck them.
Often times THAT helps with them falling in love with him and countering all of the negative shit they've been hearing about Black men for much of their lives.

 

 

 

 

The kids will be all right.  They always seem to figure it out one way or another.

 

Some of them will, many of them won't.
That's why so many young people commit suicide and engage in other forms of reckless behavior.

They're NOT alright.

Many of them are frustrated and angry and don't know how to solve their problems....and they think they're alone in dealing with them.

[ProfD]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Yes, but you switch up the focus from time to time.

If I say it's because they're Black, you say NO...it's because they are broke and they need to get their weight up.
But then in another argument in another thread when the issue is brought up again....you acknowledge that it's not so much the money issue as much as it's the anti-Black culture.

 

It's like playing wack-a-mole...lol.

As soon as we nail down reason in one hole, here you pop out of ANOTHER hole with a different reason for the same problem...lol.

For Black men, it's all of the above.

 

Anti-Black sentiment, cultural differences and being under-resourced are issues. A Black man with money has more options. No guarantees. 

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

....or a CONDITIONING problem.

 

Look at all of the light skinned and brown skinned women with very dark men today.
100 years ago many of them wouldn't give them the time of day because they would have found them very UNATTRACTIVE because of their dark skin.

Colorism was a very huge problem among our people at that time.
The women were CONDITIONED to find those men unattractive.

As the times changed they were CONDITIONED otherwise.

 

This is why I suspect this "all of a sudden" love affair with White men is a product of CONDITIONING.

Slavery conditioned self-hate and colorism a couple centuries ago.

 

Who or what is conditioning Black women to find white men attractive nowadays?

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Now wait a minute mayon...lol.

You're going to have to stop and define "loser" for me.

 

First you're calling dudes who have the ability to attract women, "losers".
NOW you're even calling some dudes with MONEY, "losers".

 

I'd like to know YOUR definition of a "loser".

A loser cannot obtain, keep or maintain the women or whatever he desires.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Again, just because he's broke...doesn't mean he's "unaccomplished" and has nothing to be confident about.

He may be HIGHLY accomplished in other areas where it counts.

 

Yeah, like letting him fuck them.
Often times THAT helps with them falling in love with him and countering all of the negative shit they've been hearing about Black men for much of their lives.

Sure. If the goal is merely to bed women and keep it moving, that man can feel like a winner temporarily.

 

Some men feel like they have accomplished something especially when they nail down a woman who was hard to get or out of their league.

 

When the woman replaces that man in the same bed with another dude, the former winner often feels like a...loser. At least that's what it sounds like at the bar.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Some of them will, many of them won't.

That's why so many young people commit suicide and engage in other forms of reckless behavior.

They're NOT alright.

Many of them are frustrated and angry and don't know how to solve their problems....and they think they're alone in dealing with them.

Again, every previous generation believes the current and future generations are or will be screwed up. 

 

That's why humans get old and die. The universe is masterful in converting energy.

[Troy]

On 12/8/2024 at 7:04 AM, Pioneer1 said:

But this actually IS a serious issue because that silly white boy will grow up to be a serious White MAN

 

Sure, but he is just one person.  His presence on YouTube gives him much more impact in your eye, but not mine.  

 

For example, I'm confident, were it not for social media, Donald Trump would never have been elected president. Collectively we give what is said to Twitter, for example, far too much weight. 

[Laydee Gaga]

On 12/6/2024 at 12:46 PM, Troy said:

 

Why do you watch stuff like this man? 

 

But more importantly, why do you use this material, as the Brother in the video does, to make generalizations about the wider community.

 

 

That is absurd on its face. Do you think Melody Hobson is a sex worker?

Im sure Melody Hobson helps to hide her husbands sexual deviancy. 

On 12/8/2024 at 11:02 AM, aka Contrarian said:

His winning her over had to do with her reluctance to date and marry outside her race. She eventually realized that love was color blind. 

You pretty much confirmed what I said to the other poster. Also, love is not color blind. Its a choice. Not sure how Black women arent insulted by white man only liking them when they have no other option

On 12/7/2024 at 4:56 PM, Pioneer1 said:

Laydee Gaga

 

 

Wow, that's a lot to unpack....lol.

 

 

BW dont really go on dates with WM, they just have sex with them in hopes he asks her out after. 

 

????
How common is this?

 

 

 

 

So they aren't really comfortable, they are in a vulnerable position since BW are the last pick for WM. BW would have to compete with Asian and Hispanic women for WM and WM have shown they rather marry them than BW.

 

Hmmm.......
I believe they'd prefer Asian women, but when it comes to choosing between Black (AfroAmerican and African) women and Latino women...I've seen just as many White men with Black women as with non-Black Latinas.

 

 

 

 

 

You need to study history, speak to people and eavesdrop on other races conversations. BW who "date" marry WM are always involved in some kind of sex work. Always. There is a reason for that but do your research. 

 

What's the "reason" for it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Troy

Why do you watch stuff like this man? 

Somebody has to.
Does the truth about how so many of our women behave and feel about us, bother you?



 

But more importantly, why do you this material, as the Brother in the video does, to make generalizations about the wider community.

And even MORE important than that.....
Why don't you PROOF READ your comments before posting them, lol.

I barely understand what you're saying much of the time because that speech-to-text or whatever you're using is jumbling up the words...lol.
 

 

I will go into detail about the prostitution part another time but prostitution/ sex work isnt about money. 

 

As far as the first response to my statement listen to this "Native" man speak on his dealings with Black women. https://rumble.com/v5wjw6b-ask-tommy-sotomayor-anything-like-on-twitter-space-tsotomayor4real.html?start=6821

 

Last I am privy to black womens spaces so I hear and witness the things black women dont speak about publicly when it comes to white men. I used to live around Ari Nagel (look him up), while he is married to a black woman he is still active on the dating apps and has young and old black women hooking up with him still. He has over 200 black children at this point.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

 

 

Who or what is conditioning Black women to find white men attractive nowadays?

 

I think it's a COMBINATION of many different things:
 

1. So-called Integration, where Black women and White men are AROUND and interact with eachother more today than in the past.
 

2. The media and negative images of Black men being portrayed
 

3. So much of the actual negative behavior OF many Black men.
 

4. I can't prove it...yet...but I believe subliminal messages are being sent out to influence the attraction of women of color towards White men.

A loser cannot obtain, keep or maintain the women or whatever he desires.
 

Ok.
So by THAT definition, then an actual "loser" wouldn't have been able to pull those women in the first place!

So how does a woman end up dating and having sex with a bunch of "losers" if they...by your definition...CAN'T get them?

 

Some men feel like they have accomplished something especially when they nail down a woman who was hard to get or out of their league.

 

Right!
And if that was their goal...and they accomplished it...they DID!

 

 

 

When the woman replaces that man in the same bed with another dude, the former winner often feels like a...loser. At least that's what it sounds like at the bar.

 

Lol.
Sometimes.

I've gotten women that...at that time..I felt were "out of my league" and it DID feel good to pull them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Troy

 

 

Sure, but he is just one person.  His presence on YouTube gives him much more impact in your eye, but not mine.  

 

One tree...in a forest full of them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Laydee Gaga

Im sure Melody Hobson helps to hide her husbands sexual deviancy. 
 

Good point.
I'm sure a lot of Black women who are in relationships with White men have asked themselves from time to time what in the WORLD have they gotten themselves into.
 

Especially when they ask them to try that "kinky" sex with weird objects and even animals...lol.

 

[ProfD]

12 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I think it's a COMBINATION of many different things:

That combination of factors is one part of it. 

 

Technology has shrunk globe too.  As a result, people have access to more information.

 

Education and economic opportunities are huge factors too.

 

Travel allows people to live in different environments,  see different places and experience new things.

 

Several factors are enabling people to mix and match even beyond their own cultures.

 

12 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

So by THAT definition, then an actual "loser" wouldn't have been able to pull those women in the first place!

So how does a woman end up dating and having sex with a bunch of "losers" if they...by your definition...CAN'T get them?

Deception.  Some men will lie and cheat and steal in order to get ahead. 

 

Luck.  Some women have needs to release.  They will satisfy themselves with Mr. Right Now...a dude is *not good* for them over the long run.  

 

12 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Right!
And if that was their goal...and they accomplished it...they DID!

Lucky winner.  Temporarily.

12 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

I've gotten women that...at that time..I felt were "out of my league" and it DID feel good to pull them.

You won that round of the game.  Needs were met in that moment.  No harm no foul.

[Troy]

Tommy Sotomayor is very popular @Laydee Gaga he is a very provocative and entertaining (to some) commentator.  I the vein of Kevin Samuels (RIP) and spoke about Black women and relationships.  I'm not sure I'd put much stock into their advice but I can see where people would find them fun to listen to -- opinionated and not afraid to say anything.

 

On 12/10/2024 at 4:23 AM, Pioneer1 said:

 

One tree...in a forest full of them.

 

I disagree, but I can see why you would say that.  Neither one of have the data to prove one way or the other... 

[Pioneer1]

Troy

Since you compared the two.....
 

I think Kevin Samuels was faaaaar more serious than Tommy Sotomayor.

Tommy is more of a "shock jock" type of commentator who says and does provocative shit JUST to get people riled up and emotional.
He's intelligent and insightful when he WANTS to be; but if he needs a bunch of views or needs to hype up a future show, he'll say inflammatory shit against Black women or against Black folks in general and sit back and wait for people to cuss him out.
He craves the attention.
 

Kevin was more psychological and I would actually put him more in the category of a "therapist".
Although he was far more opinionated and often times offensive than an actual licensed psycho-therapist would be...lol.

I liked his analytical approach, but I didn't like his promoting the more traditional Western version of what a "family" should be.

[ProfD]

35 minutes ago, Pioneer1 said:

Kevin was more psychological and I would actually put him more in the category of a "therapist".
Although he was far more opinionated and often times offensive than an actual licensed psycho-therapist would be...lol.

Kevin Samuels had carved out a nice niche for himself. That dude was hilarious. He gave both men and women the bizness. Gone too soon.

[Pioneer1]

ProfD

Kev actually taught reinforced the principle that you should actually check people out and what they have to say FOR YOURSELF instead of going by what others say of them or even watching little snippets and sound bites of their work.

When Kevin first came out, I thought the dude was a paid agent of the White racists to further divided Black men and women from eachother.
That was based on what I HEARD about him and especially the little quick videos and snippets that people would post, usually of him saying something inflammatory.

But when I actually sat back and listened to his entire show.....I actually began to appreciate his commentary.
Not only did I like his analytical approach to the problems between Black men and women, but I liked how he had a strong "pimp hand" and was able to intellectually lay the smack down on his female detractors if need be.

Although the "manosphere" claimed him, he wasn't part of it.
Many if not most off those dudes are angry at women and seek to debase and insult them, while Kevin sought to REFORM and REFINE them.

[ProfD]

On 12/31/2024 at 7:16 PM, Pioneer1 said:

But when I actually sat back and listened to his entire show.....I actually began to appreciate his commentary.

Same here.  When listening to him, what I heard was Kevin Samuels trying to get folks to be honest with themselves and realistic in their expectations.

 

A short, overweight, single mother expecting to have a monogamous relationship with a man who earns 6 figures or more.  Girl bye.

 

Those who considered Samuels' style to be caustic or abrasive were either being too sensitive or he was hitting nerves.   He definitely wasn't handing out those participation trophies that makes everybody a winner.

[Troy]

Hey fellas on  scale of 1 to 10 what would you rate yourself and you can’t use seven?

[ProfD]

8 hours ago, Troy said:

Hey fellas on  scale of 1 to 10 what would you rate yourself and you can’t use seven?

Of course being modest, it would be foolish to throw my 10 around on a public forum.

[Pioneer1]

On 1/2/2025 at 11:52 PM, Troy said:

Hey fellas on  scale of 1 to 10 what would you rate yourself and you can’t use seven?

Honestly, I can't say.

I'm not a woman and can't see my level of attractiveness from their eyes.

To sit up here and rate myself is akin to masturbation, lol.




 

[ProfD]

On 1/2/2025 at 11:52 PM, Troy said:

Hey fellas on  scale of 1 to 10 what would you rate yourself and you can’t use seven?

I take it you're going to answer your own question whenever time permits.

[Troy]

I saw a couple Kevin Samuels video and he asked that question to a sister more than once.  Considered honestly, it is a good though provoking question. I don't know if anyone ever answered a "10."  In terms of a complete package of finances, physique, and personality,10s are rare. 

 

I'm not gonna answer that question @ProfD.  I'll allow others to do that for me.  What I can say is that I'm not a 10  

 

[ProfD]

31 minutes ago, Troy said:

I'm not gonna answer that question @ProfD.  I'll allow others to do that for me.  What I can say is that I'm not a 10  

Understood. It's definitely a question most would prefer others to answer for them.

 

Of course being a clown, I had to turn the question into a joke.

[Pioneer1]

3 hours ago, ProfD said:

 

Of course being a clown, I had to turn the question into a joke.

Most women tend to like a man with a sense of humor.
Perhaps the ladies may rate you a 7.29 for that one...lol.
 

[ProfD]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Most women tend to like a man with a sense of humor.

True.  Laughter, conversation, music, food, etc., is a helluva cocktail.  Legal intoxication. No slipping drugs into drinks and pulling out baby oil.

[Pioneer1]

22 hours ago, ProfD said:

True.  Laughter, conversation, music, food, etc., is a helluva cocktail.  Legal intoxication. No slipping drugs into drinks and pulling out baby oil.

Now....
Lol, was that a slight DIG at Cosby and Puff?

We've all heard you shouldn't drink on an empty stomach.
How do we know that those Mickey pills weren't the only "food" available at the time???

[ProfD]

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

Now....
Lol, was that a slight DIG at Cosby and Puff?

Low hanging fruit allegedly.

 

I'm not suggesting either one of those dudes is guilty of anything.  Not without receipts.

 

1 hour ago, Pioneer1 said:

How do we know that those Mickey pills weren't the only "food" available at the time???

It wasn't.  They probably had sausage, hot dogs, yams, cucumbers, zucchini, squash, eggplant and beef steak on the menu too.

[Pioneer1]

20 hours ago, ProfD said:

They probably had sausage, hot dogs, yams, cucumbers, zucchini, squash, eggplant and beef steak on the menu too.

I'm almost SURE they had "sausage"...of various varieties...on the menu...lol.

[ProfD]

On 1/8/2025 at 6:10 PM, Pioneer1 said:

I'm almost SURE they had "sausage"...of various varieties...on the menu...lol.

That's why I worded the post in such way.

 

Again, I'm not accusing anyone of anything.  Just using it as comedic source material.