@Mel Hopkins I did not need to probe, because as I wrote, "I got it." Maybe because I've known her all my life, maybe because we share genetic code. Maybe we are just two black people of the same culture. In any event, it is not a cop out; indeed we were connecting. The specifics of how she happen to come to the sentiment are incidental to understanding it understanding it.
Now it is possible I got it completely wrong, but I doubt it. Don't you find that you can communicate with some people on some subjects more easily that with others. Sometimes my wife or mother can give me a look and I know exactly what they are "saying." Of course this is much easier to do in real life that it is is on these forums.
No I don't think you can change someone, but as you said you can provide a catalyst. I just don't think engaging legal battles to remove statues is the best use of our collective resources.
The image Cynique shared about the statue, in my neighborhood was very powerful (isn't art great for raising consciousness).
I do plan on looking up the information and now next time I walk past it with someone I'll explain what it means. Now if someone responsible for it decide to tear it down--fine. But I'd rather spend the time sharing information about what that Dr. did than using the energy to try to get it removed.
Yesterday the statue mean nothing to me, which I suspect was what it mean to almost everyone else. Today the statue is a reminder how what horrifically white mean treated Black women.
Perhaps it will come to mean the same thing to the white folks responsible of it being in place (you know they are white), as they too learn more about the "doctor's" evil experiments. Maybe they will decide to remove the statue on their own volition. Again I could care less one way or the other. Tearing it down will not turn a single racist.