A Jealous And Insecure Man

[Pioneer1]

Let me ask a provocative question.....

What's wrong with a man being jealous and insecure?

Not in a timid and scared way to the point that he doesn't take risks or chances.
But in a protective and territorial way where he's generally on alert when other men come around and suspicious that they may try to push up on his woma(e)n or take his money.

If a man should NOT think like this, WHY shouldn't he?

[Troy]

Jealously and insecurity are human emotions nothing is inherently wrong with them, but like all negative emotions including hate, fear, envy, etc we should try to moderate then.

 

If a brother greets your woman with a smile while you are standing there, do you fly into a rage or are your pleased that she was greeted in a friendly manner?

 

Do you later give her grief, or slap her around, for encouraging the brother or do you think homie was a friendly guy?

 

The emotions are natural what provokes them and how we react to them is what matters. 

[ProfD]

2 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

Let me ask a provocative question.....

What's wrong with a man being jealous and insecure?

As @Troy alluded, those are negative emotions. Usually points to deeper issues within that individual.

 

People don't make the best decisions based on their emotions. 

 

Jealousy and insecurity are not traits that enable a man to provide for and protect his woman, children, family, village, etc.

 

 

2 hours ago, Pioneer1 said:

But in a protective and territorial way where he's generally on alert when other men come around and suspicious that they may try to push up on his woma(e)n or take his money.

If a man should NOT think like this, WHY shouldn't he?

A man should have the mental and physical abilities to handle his business. No time for jealousy and insecurity.

 

In fact, a strong man (mentally & physically) doesn't have to worry about his woman leaving and/or another man testing him.

 

A strong man can easily find another woman. They are attracted to him.