I completely agree with what you just wrote Cynique. All I'm trying to do is add to what you and Chris are saying: as a Black person you can do all the right things and still fail. We fail with abilities and actions that result in success for white folks. Most of it has to do with support structures white folks have in place that we are lacking.
You see, if we keep saying all you have to do is work hard and make the right decisions to succeed, you don;t do anything about all of the roadblocks that hamper the success of so many others. This is the mentality of many Black republicans who look at their own success and say, "well if I did so can you." Sure some folks escape, but we can't forget about the many others who never will--due to no fault of their own.
Yes work hard, avoid bad decisions, pray, keep your fingers crossed, and do all you can to improve your chances to succeed. But we must also be clear; there is still a battle to fight. I think we have forgotten that, and the biggest consequence of this is our lack of solidarity.
Folks like to say, "Black people are not a monolith." of course this is true, but we are treated by society as if we are, and must react as a monolith in order to enjoy the freedoms we deserve in this country.
That monolith built universities, it build communities, it build newspapers that feed and nourished our community. Today we talk about our ability to reach others with stupid videos on Twitter, while the communities, universities and newspaper we built shutdown and struggle. It is sickening to think about really.
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