Mel Hopkins

Will do! I started to make some changes last night and my website locked up in google chrome. I had to restore it - and start again. It's not going to beat me! Thank you so much!

"Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake." - HDT @Cynique I've only been active here long enough to experience you during your hibernation and I've felt a singe. (If I feel it, it's real) I could only imagine how "hot in "herre" it's going to be when you arise in the spring. I'm glad SOC cast didn't win anything - they may be fine actors but they portrayed terrorists - (of black women) .

Thank you for this nudge! As soon as I read your article ... it clicked immediately what was missing! I didn't put my own name in the description - google SEO PDF reminds us to include key words that would pop up during a search.. I wrote about my novel! The only place my name appears on the site is the domain name, Title and description on home page. duh! I will fix my copy straight away! Thank You! great article!

Yes, How did we have all those firsts among black people soon after and towards the abolishing of African slavery... how about the turn of the century 1900 I once did a black/women history tribute (february -march) and I was blown away be the large number of women who were: Union spies, awarded professional degrees, entrepreneurs, big band music managers, film producers, Writers, Journalists, Publishers et al.. I was astounded and kind of ashamed I wasn't doing more with the "freedom" I have today... So yes, I agree with Troy don't blame the victim not everyone is a leader, but I agree with you too! Those who are leaders need to do a lot more to make up the difference...

Thank you! As I mentioned to Troy, if you use the Google search engine to find me on the net - aalbc.com/melhopkins comes up as number 9 on the first page - my amazon page come up at 8. Guess where my own website comes in? It comes up on the 9th page! - in Google terms my own website bearing my name doesn't even rank! Lol! However, I'm not just linking here for a high rank - I believe in the goal of AALBC.com - it was mentioned in the forum, we don't control any institutions - so if that's the case, only we can change that "truism".. Do you agree putting an effort into our own product and into a product that serves as a commnunity to be step in the direction to change that reality held by some?

If I remember correctly, there is a post on aalbc, telling bloggers how we can help each other... I think the post is in a conspicous place - but if WE (because this idea benefits the whole and the individual) do at least one thing on that list we post our own blog post - we become a symbiotic unit without much effort... Edit: to add the two posts I am referring to http://aalbc.com/blog/index.php/2015/08/18/bloggers/

I added one of my blogs. I remember seeing many of those blogs displayed on the black weblog awards. Maybe a partnership or combined promotional efforts with the organization may be a win.

Thank You! I removed the image link and added the image directly.

It's still displaying on my end - but I guess that's because it's in my pc. Let me edit again.

Tired of the school's reading list filled with white boy and dog protagonist, Marley Dias kicked off her own hashtag #1000BlackGirlBooks which features Black girls as stars of their stories. Check out the PhillyVoice article here

So thankful for this post! It is amazing how our thoughts can inspire each other!

Absolutely, I am. I liken it to the same thought-process that pit light-skinned blacks against dark-skinned blacks...it is a divide and conquer "talented tenth" mentality that allows the stereotypes to flourish. We, for the most part, are very proud of all of our "Divine 9" brothers and sisters" And yes, I'm not going to act like those negative types don't exist within the ranks but I believe they are outnumbered. Unfortunately, those short-sighted "greeks" alienate a lot of good people who would be an asset to the organization. As for my experience, I believe our chapter was an exception to the "rule" because we were a commuter school chapter (St. John's U, Queens College and York - Queens, NY chapter) and our graduate chapter Epsilon Pi Omega was very active with the undergrad chapter Nu Mu (translation: We had grown-A women watching over us ) so it was quality of character, great grades, and community involvement over "prettiness" . And believe it not - many of my sands ( line sisters) and Sorors are still "doing good in the hood" today. I had to take a break because of my crazy schedule. I'll probably get active again.

Actually since I am an AKA, I can see her pledging my sorority - - In fact, one of my sands looked very much like Da Button Pusha , when she was younger. A lot of folks gave us the business about pledging her because we promote that "pretty girl" facade. My oh so fly soror was having none of that nonsense and we accepted her as is. What most don't know about the women of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc...is this: we are very much into women empowerment. And yes even though we wear the "costume" the bottom line is about what we give back to our community that matters. Da Button Pusha seems to be right in line with those values. She probably wouldn't be bothered with us, however because of our "reputation'

Da Button Pusha, message is outstanding... "don't let anyone outside you, define you" BAM! Exactly, how I raised my daughters! No one gets a vote on who they choose to be. Not even me. They came through me but they are not me... and I don't know what plans they made with The CREATOR before they arrived here in on earth. I told my daughters I was/am their guardrail. (not their" third rail" as a myspace friend once said) I listened to their dreams and helped them stay in that lane. I (along with the village) helped to protect them so they could realize their dreams... My daughters had me and the rest of our family - but not all of our daughters are so lucky. We need more women such as Da Button Pusha to drop science that will reach our daughters wherever they are - and help them find their voice and place in the world...without the "world" trying to mold them into their warped sense of what a woman "should be".

Where do I sign up! Seriously my coding skills are limited to basic html -and I even have to use crib notes - but I would promote the heck out it of it once it's up!

Heard on the local news last night : A 20-something year-old Black man here in Metro Atlanta won about 400-thousand dollars in the Georgia lottery. He was shot to death in an apparent home invasion on Wednesday night. His sister was in the house at the time but unharmed. The moral of this tale : Dreams do come true but when it does it's probably best to leave your neighborhood.

When Black Enterprise did a feature article on my digital marketing efforts to sell my book; I thought it would lead to a lot of book sales... I didn't but what I got was an influx of email asking me "HOW do you do this..." It frustrated me at first; but today I have a database of people who were willing shared their email addresses with me for no other reason than to ask a question. Followers on social media are cool - but there's no middlewo/man between me and my email addresses.

I'm doing the same, albeit slowly. I deleted my facebook account. Now I'm managing 3 twitter accounts, 1 linkedin account and 1 About.Me account. I'm refocusing my attention on my blogs and websites (In fact, I reactivated one because I realized that it is on my author page here at AALBC) and I will soon consolidate all of those to one location once I figure out how. My logic is this: if the site isn't connected with my revenue - I don't need it or the attention. I support this site for two reasons because it supports me and Troy. All those in my social network have my contact information and I have theirs - so why do I need the middleman? Ok off to read the article.

Yes, I do - and I really like signing it with disqus for the very reasons you mentioned. Most times I don't think to check back to the site I've commented on - but when I use my disqus account I see who responded to me. I also had it for my blogger sites too - but for some reason it is no longer there. I just logged into my account and I see that I did respond to an aalbc.com blog – through my disqus account. Geez! I’m all over the place with accounts… I have to get this under control. I wish I had one account – one sign in! Now, that would be perfect!

Wait! I can log in here through Disqus?

Key words: Government, "persons" i.e., corporations. Those are who will profit especially big pharma. Individuals will still pay taxes, corporations will not. In contrast, It is illegal in 26 states to grow marijuana for commercial use. Whereas if I wanted to smoke a cigarette I could grow tobacco in my backyard. Some farmers are subsidized not grow tobacco and others grow and make a nice living . By the way; it is reported sugar kills more people in more ways than tobacco ever could. Every leading cause of death is directly or indirectly caused by over consumption of added sugar... and while some people say "moderation" reports indicate an average american diet contains 156 lbs of sugar per year... 29 lbs is sucrose. A 2000 calorie diet is only supposed to contain 8 teaspoons of sugar - unfortunately food manufacturers add a lot of sugar to everything just to make their foods palatable and it is that sugar that is making us sick. EXCEPT the difference with sugar consumption is it personal. Sort of like NIMBY, unlike secondhand smoke where our personal choice is removed. Maybe since sugar consumption doesn't interfere with another's personal space most people don't care. Former Mayor Bloomberg, however, understood the effect of overdosing on sugar.He worried about his constituents even at the risk of pissing off big business. He understood the toll it takes on the quality of life and even cognition. Yes look at the studies and you will see sugar is making us not only fat but retarded. Once I realized how toxic sugar is in the doses we are ingesting Bloomberg's law seemed to be one of the smartest things we can do to save ourselves - even if it is from ourselves!

LOL! "Abuse"? <big smile> I'm just glad folks can have their weed without going to jail for it. Now, if we criminalize sugar and sugary products , we'd be better in the long run! :

Although it did get her message out, Charlo Greene's on-air resignation seems more to me than alarming and sensational but rather it was about integrity. Yes, “integrity’s 2nd meaning -" to remain whole and undivided". Maybe Greene could no longer publicly report on the opposition to "legalization of marijuana" while simultaneously presiding over Alaska Cannabis Club. No telling how many times that story came up and she found herself fronting it. Now, Troy, I do understand your position; why couldn't she quit in private. I'm a firm believer, however, that if you are proponent of cause why not use all of your resources to draw attention to it. Use whatever to be heard especially, when viral content is making ordinary people into minor celebrities. ​In hindsight, it worked. Not only did Charlo Greene raise more than $8,000 for her cause using Indiegogo, the crowdfunding platform; Alaskans voted 52-48 yesterday to legalize marijuana. So maybe we will only be in “deep doo-doo” if we continue to believe someone will recognize our deeds as long as we continue to do good work. Nope. Well, not as long as we are living in the age of "turn down for what”.

Social media, in my opinion, doesn't prove we are stupid. A lot of social networking sites, however, are putting us on a path to the land of "idiocracy". The steps we are taking are as follows: We want to remain connected to our peers and one way is through our shared beliefs. Yes, even something as simple as belief in an optical illusion of a viral video. If our peers believe something is true, many of us do our best to see the truth in it too. For example, look at religion - there's very little in any of the tenets of the three big religions that is "factual" or even can be proven - but it doesn't stop each of those three big religions from having billions of believers. Our beliefs are our fellowship. Same can be said in social media networks. Look at your "friends" , your "followers" clearly there's something that connects all of you. What ever that connection is there is a trade-off and that is the challenge with social media; we are beginning to "share belief" in the mundane to remain connected. Eventually without questioning those beliefs we will undoubtedly become mentally weak. Today's Social Media, such as facebook, doesn't serve as space to engage in critical thinking nor problem solving - it serves as a place for us to be seen. What we share there is a reflection of us. Oops! I've just proved your argument didn't I?