Lol....
5'7 may be on the short side, but it's not a midget.
Eazy E was only 5' 5 and had many women and fathered children.
I can't judge you on your looks but you're obviously smart, was married, and have children so I have little reason to doubt what you say about never having problems attracting women.
However it's rare to hear men, especially Black men admit to this even if they did.
Having problems attracting women is probably the 2nd from last problem most men would honestly admit to.
I think we all know what the #1 problem men would be the last to admit to....lol.