@Troy and @Pioneer1
Rhetoric doesn't equal evidence. Your arguments are weak.
I have deeply reflected on my behavior in this thread. Sadly, it is one that I've repeated throughout my life, which is hold up black men in high esteem believing:
1 - they would know or at least try to understand the history of black women here in the United States; and/or
(it's pitiful Troy, with all your knowledge that you even thought Lincoln had anything to do with helping black women. Many black women already held the status of "free negro" in the US. Any child born to a free negro (women) was free... If you referring to women in the south...black enslaved women were freed but without status in America... I could go on - but I've wasted enough time trying to educate you both on the status of black women...especially when you couldn't care less. Which brings me to my second point. Neither of you
2 - care enough to find the facts about how black women are regulated to the bottom rung here in the U.S. by every culture and ethnicity (Now I see that includes black men.)
For 8 years we had a black feminist (his words) in the white house - and President Obama's policies, mandates, initiatives helped black women inch up from the bottom.. now due to selfishness of black men - There's another man in the oval office who is so jealous of President Obama that he's made it his priority to undo all the good that President Obama did for us, black women. 45's latest thing is to repeal the birth control mandate that will affect 55 million women, will lose free coverage and it will hit black women the hardest. Which brings me to my third point
3 - they (BM) would protect us and our interests...
What is reality is, black women are alone again. Black women fight and protect the lives of black men. While I won't - I do think black women do because we alone give birth to black men - but for black women to look for assistance from any black man who is not a "rare air brother" such as Obama, is naive.
So yes, I have deeply reflected on my behavior here in this thread - and sadly, my biggest fear was realized. Black men, as a whole, don't give a lick about black women. That's probably why it's so easy for them to leave black women to fend for themselves.
As Cynique mentioned we, black women, do our best when we fight for ourselves. We have our best interest at heart.
Out.