Ask someone with a sense of humor like @Cynique to explain it to you @Delano
True, I don't like your style of telling me what I don't understand while ignoring every question I pose for clarification.
I do try to listen, perhaps you should consider doing the same.
Fortunately, there are people in my life who can hear me. That does not mean they can hear me all the time. Shoot, from time to time, you even hear me Del. I don't expect perfect clarity with all people all the time... we are merely human.