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@Pioneer1, it reads like you got slapped in the face with a strong lesson in why AfroAmericans should not be putting on the cape for non-FBA folks. Non-FBA folks do not see racism white supremacy in the same way that we do. Non-FBA folks were indoctrinated to white supremacy differently in their home countries. It's been passed down through their culture. AfroAmericans paved a way for non-FBA folks to immigrate to the US. But, we have nothing to offer them in terms of opportunities. H8ll, the AfroAmerican infrastructure is not even under construction. Still got work to do amongst ourselves. In addition to culture, therein lies another reason that non-FBA women do not appear to be easily accessible to AfroAmerican men. Beyond any physical attraction, it comes back around to what can AfroAmerican men do for non-FBA women or any woman to insure their protection and security. It's interesting that you received that dose of reality in light of the dialog we've been having around here.

The disconnect here is that you're looking at treatment from a physical perspective literally. In no way did I suggest allowing a woman to perform a prostate exam during a romp. Most women wouldn't treat a man to a prostate massage unless she was highly experienced s8xually. Otherwise, "Do unto others as you would would have them do unto you" is a metaphor for how humans should treat each other. Every doctor who takes the oath is bound to it. Medications are prescribed to treat disease or sickness. The side effects are revealed in accordance with the oath. Patients have every right to refuse to take any medication prescribed. That includes medical procedures too. Plenty folks decide against disease treatments, surgeries and exams. We're not obligated to see doctors. Men are notorious for making doctor visits a low or no priority. Those types of people are perfectly fine with some combination of holistic approaches and letting nature take its course. That mentality may not save a life but it does save some time and money.

When a woman finds a man attractive, he can say anything to her. Having a sense of humor goes a long way too. The woman I approach would know what it means to cut a rug. She'd probably smile or laugh or both. If that woman is feeling me, she'll get her azz up and move something. Still grinning and smiling. If she's not motivated by attraction or humor, a C-note will make her feel like Jodeci and "Get On Up". If she doesn't take the bait, one of the Lonely Hearts she's sitting with will either encourage her to cut a rug or volunteer to take her place. C.R.E.A.M. If time ever permits, I'll roll up to Michigan and show you how I roll my program. For a number of reasons, I've never had a problem when it comes to pulling women.

Good luck with that only because part of what he teaches is that it's all about the code and not about him. He's just the messenger. Nation of Islam founder Wallace Fard Muhammad is believed to be a white man of Arabian or Pakistani descent. Similarly, W.F. Muhammad disappeared after he dropped Islamic knowledge on the honorable Elijah Muhammad. Some figures don't want us to know much about them so there's no confusion in the message.

You're treating each other when it comes to the mattress mambo. The question remains would you want the same treatment. Clearly, they weren't bound to the hippocratic oath. Hitler wasn't a doctor either.

No different from dreams and what we once called make believe. The adult version of it could land someone in a psychiatric hospital. That's a gotd8mn fool running around hoping the white coats don't catch him.

Figure of speech bro. I see my sense of humor doesn't work too good around here.

Roasting each other is something humans do. It's a form of entertainment. Obviously, it's not always funny especially if/when you're on the wrong side of the jokes. Young people are brutal with it until they *grow* up and learn when to roast and how far to go with it. Comedians routinely give hecklers the business. It becomes a part of the show.

They're among the silent folks who were at those parties. They were at the Diddy parties too. Not gonna air the laundry though. Other groups of people are fully aware of it. As I've mentioned, we are considered forbidden fruit. Still, that's around not stopping other groups of people from getting at Black men all over the planet. Ask any black man who's served in the military or played pro sports or entertainment industry. Kanye West pseudo-crazy azz seems to only attract a string of non-FBA women.

I'm referring to any problems men over 50 years old have and hide and as a result are even more gun shy when it comes to women. No shame in wanting to do their thing. Being honest with themselves is the key. They have to put themselves in a better position to attract those women. Not gonna fall into their lap. Reads like a support group needs to be formed in order to improve game. Again, despite that she may be a nymph, your argument is that she should be available to Black men. Yet, there are Black men who are banging the h8ll out foreign women at home and abroad. Ask the woman how she defines success. Wait for answer. No different from men using a woman's looks as an attraction, women have their criteria too. Between TLC calling dudes scrubs and Beyonce telling them to put a ring on it, there's more at play than carpet munching. Doesn't matter. A woman has a right to choose whether she wants to deal with a broke azz or under-resourced man. A man who amassea a multi-million fortune isn't down. He's considered successful. Mike Tyson once married a doctor. It makes a successful woman look real stupid when she gets played by a broke azz n8gglet. That's why it's important for people to be honest with and true to themselves. Know thy motives. Be prepared to deal with the consequences. Personal responsibility and accountability. No confusion.

Sure. I understand how the atmosphere and vibe can be pleasant enough to have a good time in chill mode. As personalities are different, I'm gonna sip something and chop up game with the ladies and cut a rug.

Consider the source. They are haters. Right. Former FLOTUS has always been a feminine chocolate cutie.

Reality is whatever happens in the real world. Not a mythical or magical place that only exists in one's head. The shared reality among humans is that 1) we all live on the same planet and 2) we are born to die. There is no escaping it. Everything in between is personal reality based on how one thrives and survives this existence i.e. experiences. No two people share the exact same experiences throughout a lifetime. Not even people born of multiple births. The difference between rich and poor is a personal reality. It's not just a state of mind either. For grins and giggles, test it with a bank. Apply for a $500k loan to buy a house. Wait for the answer. That is a personal reality.

Somebody has to get the party started or will remain stale. Funny how folks will say they went out and had a good time when all they did was sit around sippimng on drinks and/or watching other people. No dancing or nothing.

They sure did wait a long time before deciding to settle down. Coinciding with getting older and the *problems* that come with it. That doesn't read like a prime candidate for a 6 figure woman. There's no shortage of average men. Fewer successful men especially among Black folks. When parents groom their children to become successful they don't encourage them to marry "down". That's why I wrote older established... Of course, there are older folks who are more broke than a bag of glass. There's no shortage of men and women who are ONLY good for happy endings. Very few of those brothas want to spend a lifetime as the tail instead of the head. Then, those same n8gglets will ride around in her luxury car flexing and trying to pick up broke azz women. First, they have to *know* who they are and more importantly, they have to be raised properly. Marriages dissolve every day. New relationships are formed.

Surely, you're going in (pun intended) with the belief that she wants to please you as well. Quid pro quo. Slippery slope depending on who's determining what someone else deserves. Apples and oranges. Medical professionals take an oath to do no harm. They cannot purposefully prescribe the wrong meds. The golden rule if practiced as it is written leaves no room for confusion.

Just say no. Exactly. History doesn't tell that part. It was those same type of n8gglets who set MLK Jr., Malcolm X and Fred Hampton, etc. Nowadays, those same type of n8gglets were at the Diddy parties dancing around in baby oil and getting free happy beginnings and endings. They're notoriously silent right now too.

As old folks would have said, she cleaned up well once former POTUS Obama started climbing the political ranks. Former FLOTUS looked like an around the way girl before they got a few coins.

Brotha Del, you traveled a long way for love. I hope it was worth the trip and staying there.

Counter-racism as taught by Neely Fuller Jr. is about Black folks dismantling the system of white supremacy and replacing it with a system of justice. Mr. Fuller wrote a book "The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code.

Nope. I've seen it for several decades. It might help to the extent that it widens the pool of candidates. Older divorced or widowed dudes might end up back on the market. They would appreciate a woman who comes to the house with her own bag i.e. money. Definitely a problem. I believe unrealistic standards is a sign that she doesn't really want a man. Many of them are trying to be a man. In their 40s now, a couple of them may have settled for the Black man who works in the service industry or a blue collar job. That would have definitely expanded their options.

No reason for argument. No intellectual dishonesty. Because Black folks haven't demanded anything tangible from any POTUS, we haven't received anything. IOW, we got exactly what we asked for...nothing. That goes for politicians across the board. They work for special amd permanent interests. If Black folks have received anything tangible from politicians IMO it has been by default not by demand. Asking for better schools or more job opportunities or health care benefits all Americans. That's not the same as demanding billions of dollars to develop a Black infrastructure that enables our people to become more self-sufficient and autonomous. Israel and Ukraine and other countries get billions of US dollars every year for nothing.

There's already not a 1:1 ratio of Black women to Black men. The reality is choices in Black men get slimmer as Black women become more successful. Even if a Black women lowers her expectations of what she wants in a Black men, especially if she's successful, more than likely they're going to be unequally yoked from a power perspective. As Steve mentioned, successful Black women should consider dating older established Black men.

Unfounded or unsubstantiated fear is an irrational reason for making decisions. I cannot think of anything tangible that Black folks have received in return for their vote. Tokenism and symbolism doesn't count.

Women's reproductive rights have been talked about since Roe v Wade was overturned. Still, half of American women voters are willing to vote for the party that did it. I'm wondering what he thinks about his secret crush wagging her finger at us too.