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  1. LawdHahMercy don't get me started. From USA Today, January 09, 2017 Black pastors rally in Washington for AG nominee Jeff Sessions
  2. Kiese Laymon: A Writer's Writer

    Writing takes far more than talent to be great. One most also possess courage to be at the top of her craft.  At least that's the takeaway from the essay "You Are the Second Person" by Kiese Laymon. 

    Laymon is identified as an essayist and novelist but a few paragraphs into "You Are the Second Person" you begin to realize those aren’t just his job titles, he’s the embodiment of those skills.

    Prior to reading his essay, the definition of hack eluded me.  Now I know it identifies someone who eschews writing for expression and instead kowtows to a publisher for a check.  Check out Guernica Magazine and "You're Are the Second Person"

  3. Nope crazy isn't normal. If it was, then it's true we get the leaders we deserve.
  4. In a letter sent, November 3, 2016, to the Government Accountability Office by the 5 U.S. Senators request- "As one of the largest advertisers in the United States, the federal government should play an active role in ensuring that minority-owned media outlets have fair opportunities to compete for and be awarded federal advertising contracts." A 2007 report revealed the federal government agencies spent more than $4 billion in advertising but " a pittance of that amount (5% from 5 agencies) was spent with minority media publications." Maybe some of those advertising dollars might find its way to websites with large audiences too. Follow or contact these five senators .S. Senator Bob Menendez (D-N.J.) was joined by fellow Democratic Senators Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y), Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.), Mazie Hirono (D-Hawaii), and Cory Booker (D-N.J.) for updates on how to bid for these advertising contracts.
  5. U.S. Senators Demand Study on Federal Advertising in Black-owned Media

    A 2007 report revealed the federal government agencies spent more than $4 billion in advertising but " a pittance of that amount (5% from 5 agencies) was spent with minority media publications."  In a letter sent, November 3, 2016, to the Government Accountability Office by the 5 U.S. Senators request-

    "As one of the largest advertisers in the United States, the federal government should play an active role in ensuring that minority-owned media outlets have fair opportunities to compete for and be awarded federal advertising contracts."

    Maybe some of those advertising dollars might find its way to websites with  large audiences too... Follow or contact these five senators .S. Senator Bob Menendez (D-N.J.) was joined by fellow Democratic Senators Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y), Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.), Mazie Hirono (D-Hawaii), and Cory Booker (D-N.J.) for updates on how to bid for these advertising contracts. 

  6. Me too... and with the government's help if possible - and yes black women have been instrumental to our survival since time immemorial from when we migrated through what's now called Africa and out of it to travel and settle the rest of the worlds. It was then men and women were smart enough to work together. BUT your comment is indicative of the flawed mindset of men in the black community - and men overall, today. Case in point, I've had a twitter account for 8 + years and for the first time my numbers of likes and retweets soared through the roof last night- because I tweeted that Trump now lives in public housing as a result of his bankruptcies and poor credit rating. The trolls went insane... one so far as to tell me Obama sucked D to find financial success whereas Trump made his money from the private sector... Then it hit me; Men are conditioned to believe the worst thing in life is to accept a handout. Even if his surrogate (i.e. baby mama) is accepting an handout then he might as well be dead. No man wants to be reminded of his perceived failure. And before anyone speaks to the psychology of women being a man's surrogate in the market place... tell me you've never heard a man ask or say "is that you, homey" when referring to the man's wife/girlfriend or life partner. (Women may date "projects" but men marry their projection" ) As I wrote in my profile status and blog post " AALBC Discussion| I'm not your mule" patriarchy has been a great disservice to men too. For many reasons, but especially because if you look closely a man's psyche has been severely damaged and it's allowed him to become a tool of oligarchy. Want to know the cause that is producing the undesirable effect in the black community? Y'all (generally speaking) don't recognize help when it arrives nor do you know how to ask for help or accept help when its offered. If you do accept help you make sure to bury the helper's body so deep it can't come back to haunt you. You can't apply a solution to a symptom. It's like applying a band-aid to a gunshot wound, you may stop the blood from soiling the shirt but the bullet remains to destroy the body from within. No the solution is for men to get their mind right. This action produces consequences that benefit us all. Especially because so no one can get you to use your own hand to punch you in the face. That old 'hood trick's time has run its course.
  7. "There’s no excuses for fathers/men who choose to be absent. Nor is it a woman’s responsibility to get him to return.  A mother/woman raises her children but it’s not her responsibility to raise, repair or rehabilitate a broken man or the relationship from which he walks away.  That is all very much an inside job. His job. " #Imnotyourmule

     

     

     

  8. I'm not complaining about black men. I'm complaining about the focus put upon black women for the disappearance of some black men. An alleged impoverished baby mama society doesn't happen in a vacuum. Black women aren't equipped for parthenogenesis as are Komodo dragons. Therefore, blaming the woman for the shortcomings of a man will only allow his apparent dysfunctional behavior to continue. We're all experiencing these adverse cultural conditions both directly/indirectly. Maybe it's the nature of a woman to ask for help when the going gets too hard. "I need help" is definitely in my vocabulary as is " Yes, Please and Thank you". Maybe the lack of compassion for some is the "twisted culture" that produces "Disappearing Acts" [see what I did there - always bring it back to black literature] But before one can receive compassion one has to admit he needs help and recognize and accept it when offered. As I mentioned black women fared well under the Obama administration. However President Obama also did what he could to help black men too. Reports indicate prison population was reduced. The Fair Sentencing act in 2010 and other acts, legislation and programs were championed to alleviate some of the pressures on the black community.
  9. @Troy thank you. The sharing and editing features haven't returned to the profile status... I'll keep checking
  10. I don't like to characterize black men as being the weak link either especially when 46 % who handle their family responsibilities aren't. But that leaves black women with sole-custody of 54% of the nation's black children. So, if we're to believe Xeon's claim of” a celebrated impoverished American Negro baby mama society” in which black women give birth to the children, raise the children, work a job/start a business to maintain the household and get advance academic degrees to provide some semblance of a life for herself and her children; then the only person missing from the 2-parent equation is the man who sired the child(ren). Black women are left holding the chain. So, you're correct @Troy. Black men who choose to be absent aren't weak links - they are the missing links. . There's no excuses for fathers/men who choose to be absent. Nor is it a woman's responsibility to get him to return. A mother/woman raises her children but it's not her responsibility to raise, repair or rehabilitate a broken man or the relationship from which he walks away. That is all very much an inside job.
  11. It does. I can no longer edit more status or share them. However, when I posted the following (11 year old girl...status)- I could do both (edit and share) With the share ability I can promote my profile status on other social networks - I think I can even embed in my own blog. Thank you for looking into this.
  12. I've studied this board for a year and that is exactly what I've observed - thank you for the confirmation. I hope he returns.
  13. #blackhistory

    According to " Why Do We Take Pride in Working for a Paycheck?"  by Livia Gershon,
    The early American Labor movement didn't include black men or black women. 

    Around 150 years ago, it was allegedly beneath white society to sell their time for wages thus bringing the term, wage slavery into the American lexicon when referring to corporate jobs. 

    It's reported that in an effort to entice white workers including white working class women, whom worked the farms for their husbands, wages and working conditions were made more palatable.  This fight came from an organized labor union "Knights of Labor" however their advances didn't include black people.  

    Today, black women only earn .68 cents on a dollar earned by a white man.  

  14. Well this would make black boys & black men the key challenge that needs addressing in this cyclical problem. Black women (including single black mothers) are the most educated and employed according to the US Education and Labor Department 2015 statistics. Therefore this would seem they're the only responsible group in service to the black community. But they alone are not enough. So what is to be done about these black boys and men? How, when and why did they become the black community's weakest link and make themselves the target of the former and current president?
  15. @Troy Is there a suggestion, Q & A topic for current discussion boards & profile? I have a question that wants to masquerade as a suggestion. It seemed as if I could share my profile post on other social networks but now I can't. I'd like to share my aalbc member profile posts on my other social networking accounts just like I can share my discussion comments. I know it was available last year. Is that possible now? Or will it return?
  16. Welp, you win... "I got tears" from "salad days of our youth" to the quoted. All beautifully expressed, @Cynique
  17. Ha! Well that's certainly an attention-grabber!
  18. I'm not speaking for the author - ( Aside: It seems as though folks drop stuff here and never return) just offering my observation to your remark @Troy Currently there is no difference between men and women because as the quote indicates "both men and women participate in the patriarchal system"... I believe some women are working to free themselves from the mindset and as the author suggest men too - but as I wrote in my blog the other day, women spend so much time loosening themselves from the shackles that its hard to do anything else. All this to say; yes, men need to have that conversation separately -
  19. 12-year-old Activist Lands Book Publishing Deal

    Marley-Dias-photo-credit-Andrea-Cipriani

    Marley Dias, Pictured

    Photo credit: Andrea Cipriani Mecchi

    Tired of the school's reading list filled with white boy and dog protagonist, Marley Dias kicked off her own hashtag #1000BlackGirlBooks, last January, which featured Black girls as stars of their stories.  She achieved her goal of collecting and donating books with black girls as the protagonist.   

    Today Scholastic announced Dias will pen her own story about social activism.

    “Marley is using her voice to advocate for social justice, a commitment reflected by her ambitious life goals: she dreams of becoming an editor of her very own magazine and plans to use media to spread positive messages and to perpetuate more socially conscious pop culture”

    Scholastic, Inc. reports the book will be released in the Spring of 2018 . 

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    Why White Folks Love Hidden Figures by BAR editor and columnist Dr. Marsha Adebayo

    “It’s a feel good movie that demonstrates that even during one of the vilest and most racist periods of American history white saviors rose to the occasion.”

     

    1. Troy

      Troy

      Ain't that truth ;)

  21. SoulJourn: "Celebrating Black Women Filmmakers"

    "On the occasion of the recent restoration and re-release of Julie Dash’s 1991 masterpiece Daughters of the Dust, BAMcinématek celebrates the black women directors who blazed the trail for that landmark film. The filmmakers represented in this series all worked far outside the mainstream, often with limited resources, overcoming a historically hostile system in order to tell their stories on screen. Taken together, their work represents a rich history of long-undervalued independent filmmaking.

    “One Way or Another” is co-programmed by BAMcinématek’s Nellie Killian and Michelle Materre; founder, host-producer, Creatively Speaking Film Series; Associate Professor of Media Studies and Film at The New School."

    Source: 'One Way or Another: Black Women's Cinema, 1970–1991'
    BAMcinématek
    February 3–23, 2017

  22. SoulJourn: "Not all Blacks in America were enslaved 

    but laws enacted against their freedom haven't changed since colonial times.

    Source:  The Black North: A Social Study by  William Edward Burghardt Du Bois  November 17, 1901

  23. SoulJourn: "Deciding to work where you're not welcomed"

    Marlyn Thomas English Instructor Alabama A&M University talks about the hypocrisy black female artists face when going against the grain of popular opinion.

     In the book, Hidden Figures by Margot Lee Shetterly

    "Black females working at West Computing in Hampton, Virginia worked on a government job that provided them neither the transportation or public area rights as white counterparts; however, they continued to work and eventually began to see where they could win battles one at a time."

    Many have stated the film “Hidden Figures” and the actions of those black women featured were inspiring.  However, when Chrissette Michelle decided to perform at Trump’s presidential inauguration, she faced black twitter backlash and was all but black-listed among “progressive” Blacks.

    So, what’s the difference?  Thomas states it goes back to the Madonna and Whore archetypes and the policing of black women’s movement must be checked and stopped.  Source: "The hypocritical attacks on black female artists that perform for Trump"

  24. Western mythology is influenced, if not, built on African teachings. What we call astrology was part of a star-worshipping curriculum which also included astronomy - maybe the western church separated them but the origins began in what is known today as Africa. I use the quote below because I'm unable to pull my research. The "star-worshipers" also studied or venerated the sun and moon and, roots of their practice dates back to well before 5000 B.C.E. Evidence for a level of sophistication and knowledge of astronomy has been found at several archaeological sites in Africa, including the complex at Nabta Playa in southern Egypt. The structure at Nabta is almost 7,000 years old, and is the oldest astronomical complex in the world. Other astronomical sites in Africa include: Namoratunga II, near Lake Turkana, in Kenya, which was in use around 300 B.C.E.; the Senegambian stone circles; and the Bouar megaliths in what is now the Central African Republic. Also psychology was originally the study of the soul, spirit (psyche) - while these words have latin and greek origins if we look further back there's a Canaanite origin... I apologize for not making my statement clearer - I didn't make the time to condense my explanation.
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