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Neither one is a stereotype but PROVEN FACTS. The first one has been scientifically proven over and over again for decades THROUGH measurement but has been well known for centuries if not longer. The second one is a fact not only provable but EASILY OBSERVABLE....lol. * Does someone have to actually present a scientific report to you to prove that on average Black women tend to have bigger and rounder butts than White women? *The first also would be easily observable if humans were walking around naked...lol.

There's no reason not to do it on Saturday, Sunday, or ANY day you all have an opportunity to....IF you have friends and family to enjoy these things with. Why do you need somebody to TELL YOU when to do this? Peer pressure is a mutha...... ProfD Things are sometimes worse WHEN you get together with your "family" and "friends"....lol. I'm not sure if it was Neely Fuller Jr. or somebody else who said during the holidays there was MORE FIGHTING AND KILLING among family members than any other time of the year. This myth that most Americans are sitting around in warm sweaters sharing love and laughter with their families is one of the greatest lies ever sold. Most American families are either dysfunctional or non-existent.

More specifically, so that others could get the TIME OFF. We don't know what they were actually doing during that time off. Maybe in 1825 or even 1925 Thanks Giving was a time most Americans spent with their families. But in 2025 most Americans spend the holidays getting drunk and high....lol. Most American families are either broken or non-existent.

No I'd gently "tap" it so as not to cause unnecessary trauma....lol. When it comes to sex with women of ANY age, there are considerations. With a 24 year old, you have to consider unwanted pregnancy. With an 84 year old, you have to consider who's going to pay if she ends up needing a hip replacement.

Not sure if they still do, but when I visited Chicago and happened to take the bus years ago the bus drivers used to ride around in bullet proof CAGES....lol. They spoke to the passengers through microphones. I remember a cousin of mine taking me on the bus from his house to some place and I remember seeing police officers get on the bus.....ride a little bit...then get off....then some more would get on...then get off. I'm not sure if they were transit police or regular city police. But when we went through what looked to me gang territory...you didn't see any more cops getting on or off. What you'd see is young dudes STEP ON TO the bus....look down the aisles as if they're looking for somebody....then turn right around and get off the bus....lol. They would happen frequently. The bus drivers looked like they were just going to mind their own business if something went down....lol. Nobody, including the media or police officials in their press conferences, or the street ministry spokesmen, ever talks about gangs in Chicago. The black ones seem pretty fragmented. Old leaders are either dead, imprisoned, or neutralized and no young brothas seem to be stepping up to replace them. Many of them have went to other cities. I used to live in Minneapolis and remember extensively hearing every other night on the news about how "Chicago gang members" did this or did that in Minneapolis or St.Paul. Both the Disciples and Lords were strongly established there as far back as the 90s. I remember going to the malls and seeing kids set tripping and this was back in the late 90s.

ProfD It won't take much to justify them sending more troops. The troop deployment on targets Black cities. I don't live in a city he has actually deployed troops in so I can only go by what Black people online and the handful that I know in real life are saying who have witnessed them. So far, most of the feedback of his actions from Black folks are GOOD. Not that these troops are DIRECTLY preventing crime and arresting people; but the IMAGE or BELIEF that they're going to be rolling around in tanks taking out gangsters and kicking in doors and snatching up the dope pushers -is keeping a lot of the criminals in our community in line and making them lay low. Again, they are putting THEMSELVES in check based on the rhetoric coming from Trump. That...in my opinion....is a good thing. Not ideal. But it's better than him NOT doing it and there being business as usual in the 'hood.

What DOES set Chicago (and especially Los Angeles) apart from most other cities is that much of the violence is GANG RELATED. In a way, that makes it a little easier to "control" the crime and violence. When you know a neighborhood is controlled or patrolled by a particular set/clique you can control the crime and violence by controlling the leaders of that set/clique! When I say "control" I'm not necessarily talking about threats of arresting them or incarceration but also with benefits and incentives to handle their "soldiers". Back in the 60s the government used to give MONEY and FUNDING to some street gangs for youth programs and other community programs! When I was a kid Detroit used to be more gang infested than it is today. Just like the Crack Era seemed to make the Bloods and Crips stronger in Los Angeles....when Crack came to Detroit it seems to have the opposite effect. It broke up the old neighborhood street gang because people didn't have to snatch purses or break in homes or cars to make money. Selling rocks was easier. Integration also broke up many of the gangs because Black folks started leaving crowded ghettoes and projects and moving to other part of the city. However before then, gangs were huge. If there was anything good that came from gangs running your neighborhood it was that if your mother's purse was snatched or your house was broken into...all you had to do was go to one of the leaders (sometimes at school) and they'd find out who did it and you could "negotiate" your goods back. This was back in the 70s and early 80s when there was still some sense of community left. I don't think it's that way in either L.A. or Chicago today.

ProfD White people are not jealous or insecure of Black folks for any reason. They have been conditioned to believe they are superior to us hence white supremacy. They believe they are INTELLECTUALLY superior to others. *And if we compare them AS A GROUP with us as a group....I'm not going to fight them tooth and nail over that belief UNTIL we as a people start proving otherwise. However they KNOW that we are superior in many other ways, including sexually superior and genetically superior. The easiest way to for white folks to trick Black folks is with s8x and money. Don't forget religion. That doesn't work as easily as it used to though. It is petty for a man to gatekeeper ovens he cannot afford to maintain himself. I think on a smaller more individual scale, the average man CAN maintain his woman or atleast keep her satisfied....if he so wishes to. Much of it is pride and ego. Whether you can maintain her or not...that's YOUR woman as far as her being linked to you sexually. You don't want other men feeling that they can freely run up and snatch that coochie anytime they feel like. That's like violating you personally. Now you'll be labeled as....what they'd call in South Central L.A....a "mark". "Oooooh....he one of them MARK ASS niggaz" Even in other cultures, the strongest men can have several women. I'm not talking about by FORCE. Like a bunch of Arabs riding around Sudan on the back of trucks with AK's going from village to village raping women. I'm talking about healthy social interaction that ATTRACTS women and keeps them in their social role naturally. That's not very easy to come by outside of the West. A man with less currency (money, power, respect, etc.) has fewer choices. That could lead to jealousy, insecurity and gatekeeping the one bird he can catch and/or was provided to him. You're right. But that doesn't dismiss or challenges my point...it pretty much EXPLAINS it.

Well happy Birth Date my brutha! How old are you now, 25....30? It should come as no surprise that I don't celebrate Thanks Giving. Because of my strong influence, nobody in my household does either. I don't force them to or not to....but I guess I have that type of influence over people...lol. On top of that, as I've gotten older a lot of the matriarchs who did most of the cooking during these holidays have passed on and most of the younger women DON'T KNOW how to cook. I grew up eating DRESSING....and they're talking about making some STUFFING...lol. WTF??? * Talk about men being jealous in another thread. Sometimes I DO get jealous of these African and immigrant Latino men who come from a culture where cooking is still highly prized among their women. The women are expected to cook, not just for the children but for the men....and this is indisputable among them! Even the younger ones just ACCEPT this and smile as they start rattling the dishes and warming up the water. Now THAT is enough to get a brutha jealous and wonder why do THEY deserve that type of royal treatment....lol. Anyway...... I DO enjoy the time off I get though and I use it to relax and get other things done. As far as using it as a time to spend with family and friends.....you should be doing that ANY day of the week you have an opportunity. I don't need a White man to tell me WHEN to do it. I say the same things about Mother's Day. I don't let anybody "shame" me into celebrating Mother's Day, because EVERY DAY should be Mother's Day when your mother is still alive to celebrate her.

richardmurray not based on your own definitions but if another doesn't share your definitions then yes. Well, based on YOUR definitions...was I wrong? I have never said or felt i have all the answers, if i did why communicate in this very forum. To share them and pontificate...lol. But, based on how black people like me and others define things, black people like you or profd are wrong in this case. I await YOUR definitions or atleast an explanation based on them...as to exactly HOW are we wrong. I have publicly admitted you or profd have spoken truth or generated erudition before. You've also stated plain and flat out falsehoods and attributed them to me as well. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? I didn't refer to mamdani. I confused you and I apologize. when I spoke of group action I wasn't speaking in reference to him and I am not a mamdani supporter. I was simply using him as a hypothetical example since you know how I feel about him. Everybody does and say things for a reason. Whether it makes sense to us or not....there's a reason behind their speech and actions. If Black people are being called to group action and not participating, there are REASONS for it. Some of those reasons may be good, some not so good. It's wise for the caller to find out those reasons and how to rectify them instead of blanketly labeling everybody who doesn't heed their call to action as being indifferent, self-hating, not wanting to help, or not being a team player

ProfD Right. Jealousy and insecurity are not actions. May be motivation. Still, one has to be equipped to do something in order to obtain or acquire. I've said this constantly. Which is one of the reasons....I believe...we were given the emotions OF jealousy/envy to begin with. An example of jealousy/envy being motivators is the relatively recent bodily transformation of SOME White people. When I was a kid Black people were known to have the best bodies on the planets. Not only were we generally stronger and healthier, Black women were known to have the biggest and nicest butts and Black men were known to have the biggest dicks. This was indisputable and accepted across the board. Some Black men....unwisely....were making songs and BRAGGING about how nice the Black woman's body was and how nice and big her butt was and deriding White women for being flat behind. Niggas on the radio and on television making songs about it and making fun of White women...lol. But something changed in the late 90s! You started seeing more and more White girls walking around with round stuck out butts. First here...then there...then Jennifer Lopez...then Britany Spears. More and more you started seeing it until now in 2025, in the United States you see just as many White women walking around with big nice butts as Black women! White folks didn't say much about it in public, but clearly many of them were insecure about their bodies and did SOMETHING to produce more shapely women. In the absence of procreation, is a jealous or insecure man protecting or guarding a woman's womb or merely keeping other men away from her? Either one is beneficial. Even if she's barren, you don't want other men running up in it. Even if the oven is out of order, you don't want others using it....lol. "Man....who been up in here?" They may seem to be flattered by it but the emotions of Jealousy and insecurity are really a turnoff to most women You'd be surprised. It depends on the culture. I'm not sure about being insecure, but some women actually do find jealous men attractive. Some African and Latina women....if you don't act jealous for them and be atleast a bit possessive when other men are around....they'll feel you don't value them. Again, rather than be emotional, a man is better off letting that woman go especially if she sends choosing signals to other men. This is a pretty "American" thing to do. We can afford to just walk away and find another one because there are so many women to CHOOSE from here in America. However this is NOT the case through out most of the world, because the cultures don't allow for free sex and hooking up with different women on the regular. Because of that, men generally HAVE TO be more possessive of the woman they have because of they lose THAT one there is no telling how long it will be before another one is ARRANGED for him....if ever at all. frankster He is Defending her Honor...often for her to speak to a stranger with out a male family member present or approval can be construed as as a Violation of her Honor.. Such a violation can lead to her demise. True. And this concept was relatively new to us in the United States back in the 70s and early 80s. I used to hear older Black folks say, "Man them A-rabs....don't fuck with them A-rab women....their husband will cut their head off for talking to you." It was a JOKE among us, before we realized how real it was. Often these women are not allow to go of the house without a male family member accompanying them....such actions again can be construed as a Violation of the Honor Code I can actually take you back to the beginning where this whole "honor killing" thing started. It is their culture....in order to keep their women chaste. ....that, and keeping them away for Black men.

Perhaps he was looking for a justification already to bring more troops to the city. On the other hand, if....as I suspect....this whole "bring in the troops" talk was just a trick-and-pony show designed to satisfy racists around the country and LOOK tough on crime, then this incident FORCED his hand and called his bluff. I have mixed feelings about this. While I don't like how this is leading to a "police state" or atleast laying a precedent to justify one, IF...and that's a big if....the presents or threat of troops actually IS reducing the violence in some of our communities whether it's D.C., Memphis, Chicago, or elsewhere...perhaps it's a good thing. Or atleast better than nothing. A heavy-handed reponse after the fact and with immediate threat neutralized doesn't make sense. It makes sense if this was a knee-jerk reaction and he ordered those troops to the city before learning about the suspect. Let me explain....... When Trump first heard the news, what flashed through HIS mind....like a lot of people....was those troops were probably popped by some random young Black dude on the streets who they were probably trying to arrest or were hassling OR by some Latino dude they were trying to hassle over immigration status. They didn't initially believe they were actually targeted; just casualties of a "war" on the streets. Since those were the communities being targeted, it would make sense to send 500 more as a show of force to help protect the IMAGE of being tough on crime/immigration. Now that they've learned that the suspect was an Afghan who targeted them, expect for those orders to be rescinded.

I don't hassle it...I HUSTLE it.....lol. And the money's good! For most men, a big butt is a big butt whether it's been around 24 years or 84 years. Besides a little cellulite, the only difference is the smell....lol. One smells like Axe and baby powder, the other smells like cocobutter and Noxzema....lol.

And I STILL don't think she got the respect she deserves with an 84 year old "cake" like that....lol. That cake is so big, look like she just got through shoplifting at Footlocker and hiding 2 duffle bags full up under that gown....lol.

-Yikes gurl. Movin' that thang like that!!!!

A lost airplane found in the snow featuring Richard Roundtree ???? Sounds like SHAFT IN ALASKA....lol. I'm not a fan of Angela Lansbury but Richard Roundtree is my man! I might have to go dig up THAT particular episode, hook my computer up to the big screen in the living room, and kick back on the sofa tonight...lol.

Chev Perhaps..... But based on the "softness" of his voice and some of the images I saw on his youtube channel...... I wonder what kind of "point" is he on...lol. Any man who holds his hand over his mouth in joy or excitement is a little "suspect" in my opinion, lol.

Seems to me you have a LOT to say (type) except when it comes to answering DIRECT questions. All of a sudden your responses get short, sweet, and in many cases are non-existent.....lol. 1. Was I wrong? 2. How does that statement translate to "not wanting to help Black people", which you accused me of???? Were you paying attention to them when they were talking? They may have infact been CORRECT in their assessment of the Black people they were talking about, regardless as to how YOU feel about it. When it came to people who were constantly spoken poorly of and had bad and notorious reputations, my aunt used to say "everybody can't be telling the same lie"....lol. If as a kid you grew up hearing some Black people criticizing the behavior of other Black folks, you should humble yourself enough to realize that the people doing the talking may have KNOWN the people they were talking about better than YOU knew them, and perhaps were right in their assessmentt. .....instead of getting emotional and upset because you felt they were unjustly bad-mouthing other Black folks. Sometimes you have to put facts over feelings, homie. It's not a matter of viewing someone "less than" you as much as it's a matter or recognizing problems in our community and recognizing WHO is causing these problems so they can be corrected. If a person abuses children and smokes crack....they are in error. They HAVE a problem and ARE a problem. This needs to be pointed out and condemned. ....not overlooked in the name of "being nice" or not wanting to "talk down" on other Blacks. Again, facts OVER feelings if you want to improve the community. Again, maybe people like us HAVE A POINT that you should pay attention to instead of thinking YOU have all the answers. Well..... Who's calling these "group actions"? Because that may be another issue. Perhaps people are LEGITIMATELY questioning the effectiveness of some of these "group actions" along with the CREDIBILITY of those who call them. You know how I feel about Mamdani. So now if somebody goes around the neighborhood demanding that all of the Black people take "group action" to run out and vote for him, I'm going to have an issue with this because I don't feel this will properly or effectively help our community.

Troy I'm still getting over the shock of being straight up LIED on. ProfD You actually took time to address that? As I told Troy, I'm still trying to get over a blatantly false accusation that came out of nowhere. I haven't followed the conversation between you two very closely, but I said nothing REMOTELY CLOSE to what he just accused us of. Don't want to help other Black people???? WTF???? richardmurray Are you prone to hallucination or delusion? Serious question. Has anyone ever accused you or seeing or hearing things that others don't see or hear? Or making up scenarios and events that didn't actually happen?

Not sure what to say........................

Obviously you love it, because it seems to be an object of your affection and attention. However to be precise..... It wasn't the statement itself that was incomplete, I just didn't quote it in it's entirety. I quoted the part I wanted to comment on....not being able to figure out HOW to break free from the oppressor. The second part of her statement....needing or wanting help to get us out of our oppression....most of us acknowledge and accept. Most of our people would GLADLY welcome somebody else to come in and do for them what we SHOULD be doing for ourselves, which is one of the reasons why so many call on Jesus. However the FIRST part.....not being able to figure out HOW to overpower your oppressor and break free from them.....is one very few of our people would ever admit to and have a very hard time accepting.

Simple yet logical and powerful statement that took me years to learn and then many more years to accept. I didn't want to accept it, but I HAD to.

A federal judge on Monday dismissed the criminal indictments against former FBI Director James Comey and New York Attorney General Letitia James after finding the prosecutor who brought the cases, former Trump attorney Lindsey Halligan, was not lawfully appointed. Judge dismisses cases against James Comey and Letitia James after finding prosecutor was unlawfully appointed It's about TIME these federal judges start pulling strings in favor of our people!

Well shit..... Let's take a look at the Winner and the 2nd and 3rd runners up so WE can judge whether or not our sista was cheated out of that crown! She IS pretty. Made like a White girl dipped in fudge IMO.....lol.....but still pretty though. Chev, we really didn't need that last video of that zesty nigga blowing fake kisses at a woman he probably secretly desires to COMPETE with for male attention....lol.

richardmurray I don't mind at all, I grew up in a house of positive multilog. Really??? I didn't know they HAD houses in Harlem....lol. I know they had *APARMENTS they called "walk-ups" and "brownstones", but not actually houses 😝 I am older than the sunrise In other words....you're AGELESS. Because the sun doesn't rise...lol. are you a negatively biased toward the verbose? No, I'm impressed. So do you actually write down what you're going to post on THIS site before posting it? *Before anybody tries to check me or talk shit, my idea of a house is a DETACHED dwelling. If the dwelling you live in is attached to another one you can call it a "row house" or a "town house" or even a "out house" or "crack house" if you want to...but it's not a REAL house. It's an APART-MENT because it's just A PART of the entire building.