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Reads like there is a culture of s8xual harassment in that workplace. The issues will not get resolved as long as the victims aren't willing to report it. I don't believe a 3rd party whistleblower will make a difference. Unhealthy workplace.

I've often wondered if the Williams sisters' daddy Richard told them not to deal with Black men. Serena Williams dated Common for a while. He doesn't stick around with any woman long enough to hear those wedding bells though. It says rich Black women have as many options as men. If/when they want children and marriage, that might make a difference.

Yessir. The beat is fire with that BB King sample in it.

Do you have the power or resources to command their attention? I understand your fixation. I don't know if you're in a position to satisfy it. You aren't seeing all of the moves every Black man makes. Again, you're projecting that which you'd like to see Black men doing publicly. If rich and wealthy Black men and any other for that matter can pull non-FBA women, the same applies to any woman to whom they're attracted. The only difference in the women you're referring to are race or ethnicity. Regardless, a woman's basic needs remain the same. Protection and security. Especially depending on cultural values. She can't afford the smoke that could come with stepping outside.

Sure. The Latinos haven't mastered the communication skills or cojones to deal with white folks directly. However, that won't stop them from trying to undermine a Black person. You're working overtime.

Solid Black folks have to be in a position to control the content being commercialized. Too many alphabet soup community, women and non-FBA folks are willing to push the BS narratives about Black men. Right. Think about everything he represented. Non-threatening, educated Black man. Those Black TV shows from the 1990s laid the ground work for a POTUS Obama. Otherwise, those TV shows were replaced with either criminalizing or pussifying Black men. By design, those 1990s Black TV shows ran concurrently with Gangsta Rap music. The devils work on their program non-stop and decades in advance. White supremacists are playing chess while Black folks are playing checkers or Go Fish.

Right. He might be holding an Ace of Spades. You don't know. An exercise in futility. They're never going to see racism white supremacy through your prism. I have similar conversations with the Africans in my family. They're educated (doctors) and still don't get it. Why? Because in their minds, life in America is 100 times better than their home countries. Again, non-FBA folks have already been indoctrinated into believing the white man's ice is colder. They probably consider you a troublemaker. Trust and believe...they're not going anywhere. In fact, those non-FBA folks might be trying to figure out how to get your Black azz fired so they can slide a friend or family member in your spot. Be careful. My brotha do not cut off your nose just to spite your face in putting on the cape for them.

Again. The question is why fixate and feel entitled to women who are in a country (environment) that Black men do not own or control. AfroAmericans have never been considered above 2nd and 3rd class citizens. It's on us to change it. We gotta build our own sh8t. Become more attractive. It's not enough for a Black man's only asset to be his d8ck and believe every group of women should jump on his love pole.

How do you propose to get those women to think or feel differently? We should use that motivation to build our own hotels. We should build our own grocery stores. We should build ourselves to become self-sufficient and independent. That would also make us more attractive and desirable to outsiders too. Humans always wanna get with a winning program. Look no further than successful places and people. Everybody flocks to it. Black men have to create it for themselves. Can't rely on Zaddy, er, white supremacists to fix the conditions and problems they created for us. I'm a huge football fan. Black players make up a majority of the National Football League (NFL) . They bring all of the flavor and excitement to the game. Yet, Black folks own less than 1% of the NFL. No real owners. A couple of GMs and head coaches. But, we complain about the NFL and NBA (National Basketball Association) too. Nothing is stopping us from leaving those plantations and starting our own leagues...except us. It's never been acceptable. The question remains when are we going to do something about it. Build our own sh8t. That question usually leads to resignation...slumping on the couch and eating food bought from Asians or alcohol or drugs, smoking stinky weed or having s8x, etc. The solution seems to non-productive behaviors when faced with the seemingly insurmountable task of doing something...action.

@Pioneer1, no problem, as I've mentioned, the dialog is cool. Especially if it is constructive and doesn't lead to an argument. Even better if we can take some type of understanding away from it. Black men do not have it easy to flex under the system of racism white supremacy. It takes some work and effort to overcome the hurdles and roadblocks. Not impossible though.

I've responsed to this whole post in the other thread. You're making assumptions based on your observations and perspective. You're entitled to your VGQ but, for several reasons, it is skewed. The dialog is cool but as we know, you're rigid in your opinions and beliefs. No changing it. We'll allow those doses to keep slapping you upside your head. Discrimination against AfroAmerican men has been ongoing since slavery supposedly ended. However, many AfroAmerican men have built themselves in such a way to overcome discrimination. Especially when it comes to women.

That's a projection bro. The variety and buffet of women is great. However, we don't have to be attracted to or eat the food just because it's there. You're interested in those types of women for whatever reason. You cannot apply or attribute your desires to every AfroAmerican man. Since you came against my perspective/reality, I will abstain from putting my portfolio on the table. I'll just type that I'm highly confident in my ability to pull any woman I find attractive. An environment we didn't create according to your other thread. False. You're looking at it from your observation and perspective. That's not every AfroAmerican man's reality. Again, that's patently false but you're entitled to your VGQ.

You know better just stubborn. Across the board, AfroAmericans are being replaced in the workforce by non-FBA folks. Same thing applies to voting. The white supremacists are trying to weaken the AfroAmerican block. Don't fall for the trick. She'll always side with her culture when the rubber meets the road. Facts. There's a cultural program at work. A code that's hard to break. An outside man has to well-built.

I've never been interested in pulling them because I don't see the attraction. I'll keep this dialog in mind if I run across an Eritrean/Ethiopian/Somali, Arab, East Indian or Asian woman worth pulling into my camp.

Cool. We can agree to disagree even if it's fundamentally. The law. Medical malpractice can be costly. Just realized I double posted. Deleted duplicate.

Being DC for life, AfroAmerican sistas have been great to me. Our sistas are built differently too. So, I've never really been interested in foreign women because they're not physically built like AfroAmerican women. However, because of the way I'm built and swag, a few foreign joints have fallen into my lap.

@Pioneer1, it reads like you got slapped in the face with a strong lesson in why AfroAmericans should not be putting on the cape for non-FBA folks. Non-FBA folks do not see racism white supremacy in the same way that we do. Non-FBA folks were indoctrinated to white supremacy differently in their home countries. It's been passed down through their culture. AfroAmericans paved a way for non-FBA folks to immigrate to the US. But, we have nothing to offer them in terms of opportunities. H8ll, the AfroAmerican infrastructure is not even under construction. Still got work to do amongst ourselves. In addition to culture, therein lies another reason that non-FBA women do not appear to be easily accessible to AfroAmerican men. Beyond any physical attraction, it comes back around to what can AfroAmerican men do for non-FBA women or any woman to insure their protection and security. It's interesting that you received that dose of reality in light of the dialog we've been having around here.

The disconnect here is that you're looking at treatment from a physical perspective literally. In no way did I suggest allowing a woman to perform a prostate exam during a romp. Most women wouldn't treat a man to a prostate massage unless she was highly experienced s8xually. Otherwise, "Do unto others as you would would have them do unto you" is a metaphor for how humans should treat each other. Every doctor who takes the oath is bound to it. Medications are prescribed to treat disease or sickness. The side effects are revealed in accordance with the oath. Patients have every right to refuse to take any medication prescribed. That includes medical procedures too. Plenty folks decide against disease treatments, surgeries and exams. We're not obligated to see doctors. Men are notorious for making doctor visits a low or no priority. Those types of people are perfectly fine with some combination of holistic approaches and letting nature take its course. That mentality may not save a life but it does save some time and money.

When a woman finds a man attractive, he can say anything to her. Having a sense of humor goes a long way too. The woman I approach would know what it means to cut a rug. She'd probably smile or laugh or both. If that woman is feeling me, she'll get her azz up and move something. Still grinning and smiling. If she's not motivated by attraction or humor, a C-note will make her feel like Jodeci and "Get On Up". If she doesn't take the bait, one of the Lonely Hearts she's sitting with will either encourage her to cut a rug or volunteer to take her place. C.R.E.A.M. If time ever permits, I'll roll up to Michigan and show you how I roll my program. For a number of reasons, I've never had a problem when it comes to pulling women.

Good luck with that only because part of what he teaches is that it's all about the code and not about him. He's just the messenger. Nation of Islam founder Wallace Fard Muhammad is believed to be a white man of Arabian or Pakistani descent. Similarly, W.F. Muhammad disappeared after he dropped Islamic knowledge on the honorable Elijah Muhammad. Some figures don't want us to know much about them so there's no confusion in the message.

You're treating each other when it comes to the mattress mambo. The question remains would you want the same treatment. Clearly, they weren't bound to the hippocratic oath. Hitler wasn't a doctor either.

No different from dreams and what we once called make believe. The adult version of it could land someone in a psychiatric hospital. That's a gotd8mn fool running around hoping the white coats don't catch him.

Figure of speech bro. I see my sense of humor doesn't work too good around here.

Roasting each other is something humans do. It's a form of entertainment. Obviously, it's not always funny especially if/when you're on the wrong side of the jokes. Young people are brutal with it until they *grow* up and learn when to roast and how far to go with it. Comedians routinely give hecklers the business. It becomes a part of the show.

They're among the silent folks who were at those parties. They were at the Diddy parties too. Not gonna air the laundry though. Other groups of people are fully aware of it. As I've mentioned, we are considered forbidden fruit. Still, that's around not stopping other groups of people from getting at Black men all over the planet. Ask any black man who's served in the military or played pro sports or entertainment industry. Kanye West pseudo-crazy azz seems to only attract a string of non-FBA women.