Missing you!

[Mel Hopkins]

Hi AALBC fam! I was watching this video on YouTube, Comedian Shuler King and Pharaoh Head Part 2. And while I was listening to him drop knowledge, I thought about how much I missed this forum. It is funny how you can go through life and acquire a bunch of skills, knowledge, and still not know how to use them until you add LOVE. I feel like that sometimes, like I ask What's the point?   Then, I remembered whenever I lost my balance, my family would fill me up with love, give me that pick-me-up, and I would get energized. But it hit me, there was still something missing. It was the part I felt while listening to Shuler. I remembered when I'd come right back here, get into some battle of wits, and then I'd remember who I am completely.

AALBC forum is like drinking from the chaotic and primordial waters of NUN. I'd come here to fight with @Pioneer1 - every time I do, I learn so much about myself, thank you! or see my whimsical self in my twin, @Del @Delanoadmire the wit of @Cynique @aka Contrarian,and I get energized to know how strong and brilliant women can be! I recently wondered if I'd recognize @ProfD if I heard him whispering in a library or lecturing in front of a class. You are such a mystery that I feel like I know you.  Just this morning, I sent energy to, @Chevdove so she will finish her book. She is the one who needs to tell the story of African Adam!. I am proud of my alumni @Troy. Dude, you are an inspiration to me! I'm enjoying watching you beat your dreams into submission. @richardmurray you make me crazy with your projects, but please know I enjoy your enthusiasm! @frankster we haven't engaged in debate, but I'm glad you're here. You echo many of my beliefs and remind me to uncover their origins. @harry brown 's commentary through prose and poetry is a great wake-up call... I could probably go on and name many more if I searched through my memory, but  I'm about to go skipping back into the world again. Thank you, thank you, each and every one of you, even the ones I missed and didn't list, thank you for sharing your Love! 
 

[ProfD]

Sista @Mel Hopkins, it's always great whenever you decide to plop into your chair in the proverbial coffeehouse that is AALBC.  Always appreciate your contribution to the discussion.

 

I don't work in academia or the ministry but if/whenever you run across a 6 foot, well dressed, nice watch wearing, bald-headed Black man pontificating about anything in a lecture hall or pulpit or playing the piano, that could be your brotha from another mutha.

[richardmurray]

@Mel Hopkins  thank you 

I am glad you are well and happy and I hope you have more love in your near or far future than you dream

[Delano]

These are trying times Twin. Reaching deeply into the Magic Bag
@Mel Hopkins

[Chevdove]

@Mel Hopkins You are so beautiful inside and out!

You bring so much positive energy to this community and to the world!

 

[Pioneer1]

Mel

Now here I was thinking this thread was dedicated to me personally, only to open it up and see a whole pack of OTHER names tagged in the OP...lol.

Always a pleasure when you drop by and kick it with the fam, young lady.

 

 

I'd come here to fight with @Pioneer1 - every time I do, I learn so much about myself,

Maybe you learn more about yourself, but clearly you aren't learning much about ME or you wouldn't waste so much time arguing with me...lol.

But hey.....lol....whatever it takes to get your attention.

[frankster]

love is all I bring cause that is all I have.....love

 

[Delano]

 

 

On 8/17/2025 at 7:35 AM, Pioneer1 said:

Maybe you learn more about yourself, but clearly you aren't learning much about ME or you wouldn't waste so much time arguing with me...lol.

This is why comprehension is so important. Mel is learning more about herself talking to (notice I didn't say with), hence it isn't a waste of her time.

[Troy]

You are a very kind and sweet person @Mel Hopkins with the ability to find the beauty in everyone. Thank YOU!

[aka Contrarian]

On 8/21/2025 at 4:35 AM, Troy said:

You are a very kind and sweet person @Mel Hopkins with the ability to find the beauty in everyone. Thank YOU!

That's so true. She always manages to  portray me so much nicer than I am . 

[Delano]

Different facets for different faces