Biologically, a man can produce many kids within a year. However, a woman can only carry to full term ONCE wthin the same period of time.
Now, imagine a world where men were free to procreate without the burden of responsibility. Marriage became the solution. You break it, you buy it. 😁
The institution of marriage was created for the benefit of women and children especially when they could not take care of themselves.
Marriage has little or nothing to do with love as evidenced by the fact that in some cultures, it is arranged.
An Indian couple arranged to be married were asked about love. They burst out laughing and asked what that had to do wtih anything. Their belief is that over time, the couple will grow to love each other whatever that means.
As mentioned above, marriage is really a business arrangement used to maintain and pass along wealth and power.
Considering that we have neither wealth nor power under the system of white supremacy, black folks really don't have any business getting married. 😁
Seriously, marriage can be a great chess move when folks use it for purpose and not as a prison. 😎