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Woods is largely washed up, Eninem is white, Jordan is retired, Jay is still running around but rather than try to figure out what Del means lets just wait for him to elaborate. You know dude likes to speak in riddles

Pioneer I was was talking about virginity (before marriage) being prized by women as a desirable characteristic for themselves. I heard Emma Fraser say that in a YouTube video recently. I was not referring to a woman's very first time specifically, I was talking about a person's first time with anyone else. Of course a woman's very first time encounter will be the first time with that specific cat (or kitten). While I concede my statements may not have been precise enough to have been crystal clear, it is interesting to see what folks bring on their own, and how a question about super powers leads to one on fornication

My college group of friends were really open about their sex lives that's how I knew I was the last one in my group to have sex . And it still baffles that one of my friends came forward in 2015 to say Bill Cosby assaulted her... We really didn't keep secrets like that because sex wasn't taboo ...there was no "good/bad" girl blah blah - but I guess assault was the taboo topic - Also in my generation practically no one cared if their future husband or wife for that matter was going to be the first. Shoot, the best any of us could hope for is if we didn't have sex with each other's future husband/wife ... (Edit)

Del I am mistaken, Mel's response was similar. Very creative answer. I wouldn't have thought of it. Thank you. I wanted recognition for my genius....and now I've gotten it, lol.

LOL! I'm still trying to figure out how that happened too! #giggles ... and @Troy , I'd swear you were 125 years old, if I didn't know you... "Fornication/Deflowering"? You are cracking me up over here!

@Troy Actually, i can't speak to whether or not virginity was prized by black guys back in the 1950s. Maybe they wanted to marry virgins but the girls who were puttin out got the guys, who sometimes did marry them. I or any of my friends never wanted to marry a male virgin, the assumption being he wouldn't know what he was doing and we wanted someone who did know what they were doing. When i lived in a college dorm, a group of us black girls had a virgin club, where we would discuss what we knew or had heard about sex. i was totally miffed by the end of the year when it turned out that everyone but me had been lying about being a virgin. That's when i found out women aren't always truthful about their sex lives. I was the only one who wasn't in on the joke and they were just humoring little "small town girl me". I am reluctant to discuss my sex life but i will say that when my fiance found out i was a virgin, he slapped his forehead and "oooh,no"! i was too much of a free spirit to think i should go through life having been with just one man - and i didn't. i will further say that drinking alcohol emboldens you and increases the desire but it also dulls your nerve endings. There was one guy on my job who i really was attracted to because he just respired with sexuality and he was "fione" and smart to boot. He was working his way through college and before he left after being a co-worker for about 6 months, he told me that it he refrained from seducing me because he didn't think i could handle him. i just sighed and wished him well.

Haven't seen it yet, and I don't have a very strong desire TO see it. I don't have the type of respect and reverence for Tupac that most Black people seem to have for him. I think his entertainment career has caused far more harm than good for Black America. He's a major reason so many Black youth today: 1. Are getting so many tatoos. 2. Take pride in calling themselves "thugs" 3. Refer to other Black men as "bitch ass niggas" so much The image he pushed was very damaging. It REALLY confuses me when people call him a revolutionary and try to portray him as some sort of Black messiah. So what if his mother was a Black Panther who stood up for Black rights.....HE rapped about and glorified the killing of other Black men. As far as I'm concerned he was a charismatic and talented brother who MIS-used and wasted most of his talent and charm.

Oh my... Sorry to read that... LOL Excellent perspective, because sex is definitely a head game... I can say, I've never had sex with an ignorant man in my life... If you "stupid" that's a huge-a turn off for me. We can't even be friends let alone engage in sex. It's frustrating to have awful sex.. a huge let down... so wanting to punch someone in the face is for wasting my time...