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Cynique because they are seeing how he gets away with thumbing his nose at convention and protocol, something they admire especially those among them who are used to to engaging in deceptive underhanded tactics. His shameless public persona has seduced and influenced them into emulating him. I actually agree with this. I do believe they admire his shameless style, but that's not what you said earlier.

I like and respect the idea of Kwanzaa but I don't like how it was sold as an "alternative" to Christmas. Karenga should have given it it's own special time separate from the Christmas season. Maybe in February during Black history month....or better yet in a warmer season like in the Spring or Summer. But to your point Harry about Kwanzaa not being celebrated much in the United States....... I was actually thinking about that during the Christmas season. I was looking at so many Whites and Asians going around shopping, wearing goofy looking Christmas sweaters, at many of the families in my neighbohood inviting family members over. I thought to myself........ It's funny how Black people will invent something and practice it for a few years and then forget about it. But White people are STILL practicing and honoring many of the traditions and holidays that their ancestors laid down CENTURIES ago. Even White people who claim to be anti-religious and atheist, you'll catch them walking around in Christmas sweaters, flying across the country to visit family, taking time off work, and having big celebrations just like the bible thumping White Christian. Perhaps Black people should have forced congress to make Kwanzaa an officially government set of holidays like Passover. But I'm not sure if even that would help. I think a lot of Black people have just "given up" on trying to have anything of their own and have just regulated themselves to trying to "be apart" of and "fit in" with more established White traditions.

Meanwhile, Republican leaders are falling under the sway of Trump. They aren't "falling under the sway" of Trump. Do you believe seasoned Republican politicians are stupid enough to let someone like Trump trick them or shmooze and sweet talk them into doing something they didn't want to do? It's a game. All of the Republicans are working together with the same goals in mind, despite what they may say or do in public. The newly-elected senator from Alabama now speaks in conciliatory tones, hoping Democrats and Republicans can compromise for the "good of the country". Look at this..... Black folks go out of their way to put this clown in office sending a clear message that they don't want racists or sexists pedophiles in power.....and what does Doug Jones do? The same thing MOST White Democrats do, cave in and start talking about compromising with Republicans and begging them to work together. This is why I'm neither Republican nor Democrat. But I have more respect for the Republicans because atleast they tend to be more honest than White Democrats. I don't think Doug Jones will be any better for Black people than Moore.....I really don't.

　 A situation I ran into the other day in Pennsylvania made me think about this video and others like it that are a little extreme but I do think it gets into the head of how a lot of sisters actually view Black men and "our" approach to women. I stopped into this place to get some coffee and there was a young Black girl at the counter I'd judge to be about 22 or 23. She smiled and asked me my order and I said a large coffee. She asked did I want any cream or sugar in it and I said, "No. I like my coffee like I like my women....straight and Black." A line I've used thousands of times.... A line that has actually gotten me a few dates.... A line that had women smiling over 80% of the time..... But this time, this young girl stared at me for a COUPLE OF MINUTES with a blank look on her face. Now I didn't say a few SECONDS.....I said MINUTES. A minute is a long time for someone to stand there staring at you. A number of thoughts was going through my head about what was in hers.....lol. After staring, she rolled her eyes and sighed while shaking her head, went and got my coffee (I had to watch her after that....lol) came back and gave it too me without giving me any eye contact. As I was leaving I heard her go to her co-workers (white girls) and say, "Giiiiirl, you would not believe.....was he serious." Now this isn't the first time I've seen something like this. For the past 10 years or so it seems that a lot of young Black women, especially those who have been raised around a lot of White people, don't seem to understand flirting or "slack talk" that a lot of Black men do. It seems that many of them are being TAUGHT....not coming to the conclusion on their own but TAUGHT....that the way Black men talk to them is rude, inappropriate, and disrespectful.....especially compared to the rather bland way White men conduct themselves around women which is being held as the ideal. Now I know a lot of Black men ARE rude and disrespectful with women as well as with eachother, but it seems like with this new "#metoo" movement and "street harassment" movement......the very culture of Black masculinity seems to be scrutitinized. Does anyone understand what I'm saying? In other words....... Black men have THEIR way of communicating with women. White men have THEIR way of communicating with women. But the way Black men do it is slowly being framed and labled as "wrong" or "inappropriate".

She basically spends basically an hour berating Black men for using ALL forms of communication in displaying their attraction towards Black women. I mean just about everything. As far as this woman is concerned, even calling a woman "beautiful" or asking her where she goes to church is an insult....lol.

It has occured to me that well over half the products found in most of these beauty supply stores focus around exploiting Black self-hatred. Their biggest selling points are convincing Black people that these products will make them "less Black" or "less African". Everything from the wigs, hair relaxer, hair bleach, skin bleaching cream, blue and green contacts, pink and red lip stick, blue eye shadow, wave pomades, doo-rags, hair texturizer kits, ect...... If Black people would just develop a solid wholesome love for themselves and how they looked, the Koreans would go out of business in Harlem and other Black communities all over America in less than a month.

If you look at what's going in in Africa you'll see 2 major problems: 1. When Black African nations "officially" freed themselves from the reins of European colonialism, instead of re-instituting their former political and social institutions from pre-colonialism.....or developing NEW political and social institutions....most of them decided to KEEP the same political and social structures than the Europeans forced on them. This is leading to many of their problems. European morals and social habits (like monogamy and the nuclear family) aren't necessarily good for African people. 2. Atleast under colonialism (as under slavery) Africans were FORCED to work. They were FORCED to produce food and other products and weren't allowed to be idle or lazy. Since the end of "official colonialism" many (certainly not all) Africans have become too lazy and disorganized among themselves to produce mass cash crops and foods to sustain themselves. Many would rather wait on foreign assistance from America or European nations and divide them among themselves or LEAVE Africa and travel to Europe as immigrants. Even if you look here in America, it seems like a lot of Black people work their hardest only when White folks FORCE them to work. Again, I'm in no way saying this is the case with all or even most Africans....but it is the case with far too many. Slavery and colonialism has taught too many of our people to be afraid of and shun work and this has to be corrected.

HB I Am Sure Cynique ,Troy And Pioneer Are All Good ,Cooks If I were you I wouldn't put any money on that my brother....lol. I can scramble up a few dishes to impress those who are easily impressed, but for the most part I leave the REAL cooking up to the experts. Troy That's a fine looking dish. But it doesn't look like that gumbo I'm used to. I see what looks to be a little crab meat up in there but..... Where's the "scrimps"??? Where's the "Ok-ray"????? If you're folks are from the south and REALLY wanna do it up....they'll be making some "HOPPIN' JOHN" for New Years...lol.

Yes they're absolutely are reasons black folks don't corner the market on black hair care products I didn't say there was no reason we didn't corner the market. I said there is no reason for people who just came to this nation 40 years ago and could barely speak English should be AHEAD of us in an industry that focuses on our own hair. Black folks have been messing around with our hair and making up concoctions and potions since before slavery ended. Racism is real....but Koreans aren't White either so if racism was the reason that prevented Black people from success in the hair care market, why didn't it prevent Koreans? Because I don't believe racism is the main problem in this instance. I believe since the 60s, too many Black people have been tricked....fooled....into thinking "success" means imitating White people or following them around in their economic endeavors instead of focusing on OUR OWN economic endeavors. Too many of our people have been fooled into believing that what works for White people....will work for us also. But few things could be further from the truth. Which leads me to my next point................... The real question is, what are we prepared to do about it? You may think this is an insane statement but...... I suggest a good 25% of the Black people in universities right now should DROP OUT and focus on taking over the Black beauty supply industry. Forget about cell phone technology, forget about trying to work for Amazon, forget about artificial intelligence and trying to "stay up" on the latest technology. Just take what little money and knowledge they already have so far and just focus on building factories to manufacture the supplies, distribution centers, and building stores in the ghetto. I guarantee you that if just 25% of Black youth who are WASTING THEIR TIME (that's correct I said wasting their time) in school right now would take that approach..............in 10 years we as a community would be far wealthier collectively than we are right now. Troy, I'm sure you're an excellent instructor and this isn't a slap at most of the instructors in our universities. But my belief is most of our people don't "fit in" with the colleges and universities of Western society. Especially our young men. And even if they make it through college if they have to work in a corporate world such as this...the road gets even rougher for them. Look at so many Black men in the corporate world and media now being accused of sexual harassment and misconduct! So why waste time trying to "fit in" to an industry that wasn't designed by or for you anyway? Hell, the entire purpose for GOING to these universities is to get a degree so that you can work for these various industries and make a decent living for yourself and your family....but if it's not working....why waste your time? Cut out the middle man and got DIRECTLY towards building an industry of your own. Design your OWN industry where YOU make the decisions and control the market.

Kenneth Brother you must have went to college......lol. -White folks invented, own, and control the television stations. -White folks invented and control the televisions. -White folks invented and control the most of the news papers. And you don't like the fact that they use these mediums to promote themselves and their causes while ignoring yours? They didn't invent them to help you or do justice by you. They invented them to EMPOWER THEMSELVES. You said that someone needs to "speak out" for Black people? Speak out to WHO?? Who is it that you want to pay attention to Black people and our issues? I hope it ain't White people you'd like attention from. White people already KNOW the problems the Black community faces. Infact, many of them know the problems better than YOU do because many if not most of the help create those problems. Brother the solution is OWNERSHIP. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad said: "DO FOR SELF OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES" Stop expecting White people to feel sorry for you or give you justice. They weren't made to help you or give you justice in their schools, on their jobs, or in their media. Start seeking to HELP YOURSELF. Seek to unite with your own people. There are Black people on this site like Troy and Mel who have experience in the media. Unite with them to build a powerful independent Black media where we can reach more of our own people and let White people do with THEIR media what they wish. When Black people start owning large segments of the media in America from newspapers to television stations both on cable and on broadcast television where we can start communicating with EACHOTHER....then you will see a major change.

I'd like to know where are the nationwide Black barbershop chains. We have Boricks and Fantastic Sam's.....where is Pookie's Fantastic Fades???? Black people have been in America long enough to have several beauty supply chains as well as several manufacturing plants where we make the chemicals that we use in our hair. Last week this sister had me drive her to 7 different beauty supply stores looking for a particular moisterizer for her hair. She got into an argument with the Asian owners at all 7....including the last one where she actually found what she was looking for but didn't like the price...lol. There is no reason people who just came to this nation less than 40 years ago should be ahead of us in the hair care game.....especially when it's OUR hair.

Troy I knew colorism could be bad in the Black community, but I thought that died out long ago. Colorism is alive and well in the Black community. Colorism is the main reason so many Black people are eager to call White and almost White people "Black". This mentality made it easy for Rachel Dolezal to frizzle her hair up, come in and fool a bunch of silly Negroes who were so happy that a "light skinned sister" wanted to hang out with them that they didn't bother to even investigate the woman's background...lol. White people have strict rules for themselves and have high standard for who is classified as White. Even White JEWS....many of whom have blonde and red hair and blue eyes....are still not considered White or "pure" in many White circles. Hitler killed millions of other White Europeans because in his opinion they weren't "White enough". Why? Because most White people tend to put a value in "Whiteness". And like anything of value...you usually try to protect it and preserve it.

Cynique Lol...... Oh woooowww! I'm sorry for not giving you credit for being the first person on the planet to acknowledge the difference between awareness and understanding! I mean....lol....if YOU hadn't posted that comment first....I don't know WHAT type of thoughts I would have had on the subject because I was totally clueless as to the actual meaning of "understanding" until YOU came along and made a statement about it. Funny thing is...... I'm not in a habit of reading everyone's comments on this site so I don't remember reading your statement to Del. But wait.....I MUST HAVE! I mean...lol....how else would I have been able to UNDERSTAND what "understanding" was and the difference between it and merely receiving information UNLESS I had read it from YOU first ???? I also want to thank you for teaching me how to tie a tie. Oh no...no, no, no....I wanna give credit to where credit is due! I thought I taught myself how to tie a neck tie but after serious consideration and self reflection based on your words above.....I do believe that it was YOU who actually showed me how.....but I just forgot.

You know...... I really believe that one of the major reasons so many Black women voted for Obama wasn't simply because he was AfroAmerican, Democrat, or even his overall policies.....but also because of how he looked. I've heard more than a couple women talk about how "fine" he was....purple lips and all, lol. I wouldn't be suprised if some study comes to the conclusion that female voters choose male candidates based on their looks even more than MALE voters with women.

Delano Troy and Pioneer if that turns you on, then congrats . Seeing men with smaller ones than mine turns ME on....lol. Cynique .....here we go. ((shakes head)) If I handed you a newspaper printed in Chinese (assuming you don't know Chinese), you would be AWARE of the words, you would PERCEIVE the words....but you still wouldn't KNOW what the information being handed to you meant because you don't undertand the language. So although you were given information and you received it, you still didn't KNOW it. Now if THAT illustration doesn't make things a clearer for you....then.......

Troy my sister, Danzy is Black, whether you like it or not How would you feel if all of the "Black women" on television, in magazines, and in movies looked like Danzy? Would you have any issues with this? Cynique Pioneer and i will never come to any agreement on any issue because the gist of the subjects gets lost in the process of rationales rather than refutations. I don't think we have ever changed each other's opinions about anything. Our brains are wired differently. This whole opinionated discussion has become muddled with so many contradictions and inconsistencies that it's a waste of time to pursue it further. If that's your way of admitting you can't follow the logic and are now forced to bow out of the conversation.....lol....I understand.

Much of the major media is praising Black women of Alabama for being the ones who got Doug Jones elected. They say over 98% of Black women voted for Jones. Something tells me that their vote was more of a REJECTION of Moore than an EMBRACE of Jones. I love my sisters down in Alabama, but I'm a little curious of what the White people who run much of the media is up to by focusing so much on the role of Black women when Black men voted for Jones at 95%. Perhaps Del would know better, but I thought 98% and 95% would be considered "statistically" the same numbers. Why couldn't they have just said that the Black community saved Jones, why focus on Black women in specific?

Troy Lol..... I actually thought Tavis might have been gay too, which is why I said what I said and put a "lol" at the end of it.....LOL. They still haven't said WHO made the allegations, so I'm hoping it ain't no DUDES making the claims. I don't know if you remember but years ago the conservative talk show host GLEN BECK got sued by a bunch of men for sexually harassing them...lol. When it comes to working for private institutions, there is no real "due process"....despite what the company policies may claim. If you aren't in some sort of union....you aren't really protected. On a related note......... I make it clear to the women I work around and have worked around that I FLIRT. I flirt BIG TIME. I tell the women in advanced so that those who don't welcome my flirting can let me know clearly and plainly and I leave THEM alone.

Cynique mentioned the dictionary as one of her top 10 books. I actually considered listing it, but declined because I honestly haven't sat down and read an entire dictionary from cover to cover. I've gotten started numerous times....lol....but haven't completed it yet. Del What was Life after Life ? Sorry, I didn't see your question earlier...... Life After Life was a ground breaking book by Dr Raymond Moody about people who have actually died and their soul/spirit traveled to the "otherside" and came back to tell about it. It's one of the books that helped me to make the transition from traditional religion to a more pure Theism. It also strengthened my belief in the afterlife....or more properly the "afterdeath". Speaking of Charlie Brown...... Wasn't Peppermint Patty the first lesbian cartoon on television.....lol. She looked just like Charlie Brown but with hair, had a masculine voice, and had that little girl following her around calling her "sir".

Troy If this were a woman with dark brown skin, or a the same complexion with a chubby nose and lips....then MAYBE I would consider that she could have permed her hair to get it that straight. Atleast those other features would hint at her having some Black ancestry. But GENERALLY SPEAKING......... When you see a woman with skin that light. With eyes that green/hazel. With a nose that thin. With lips that thin. With hair that long and stringing from the roots to the very ends. ......are you SERIOUSLY going to entertain the idea that she might be perming her hair to help pass even more?????? She looks like the average garden variety White girls. To consider her Black is a monumental reach.....lol. If a woman who looks like this is considered Black........ Then what's to stop a bunch of White people with dark hair or dark eyes from taking over televisions shows, businesses, and executive positions and declaring that THEY now represent a "Black presence" in those positions? Cynique How does classification behave? Classification IS a behavior. It's a thought process of how to group people. And how can you use unnatural terms to classify natural behavior? Because ALL words are "unnatural". They are made up by human beings as part of a language system. You also seem to be equating "behavior" with "culture". No, but behavior is PART of culture. Nobody is "obviously" Caucasian to me because i have reached the point where when asked to identify the "race" of a person, i am comfortable with saying "i don't know". That's because you're probably applying the traditional American understanding of "race"....which is generally flawed and incorporates the erroneous "one drop" theory. I used to apply the same definition until I recognized how flawed it was. My definition of race doesn't follow one's genetic lines. It goes by PHENOTYPE......or simply the way one looks. In other words....... I could care less what your ancestral background is or even what color your parents are. If you LOOK Caucasian to me....you ARE Caucasian. If you LOOK East Asian....you ARE East Asian. And if you LOOK mixed-race.....as far as I'm concerned you ARE mixed raced. Which means a Black man and White woman can have children and if one child comes out looking White and the other one comes out looking like the father. Despite them being siblings of the same parents I would consider them of separate races. This may seem overly simplistic.....but it cuts down on confusion. The question of race will never be resolved on this board. The different views here are too entrenched. Did you really EXPECT for major problems centuries old to be solved on a message board....lol. This is a place to exchange ideas which I believe will go a long way TOWARDS eventually solving these problems.

Del and Troy When I was younger I used to glance around to compare myself.....lol. Infact I thought I was the only one who did that UNTIL I was in my 20s and heard a few old men joking about it and found out it was quite normal. I don't have an opportunity to be around other naked men much now a days and I don't rememer when I last went to a gym....lol. After a few "sessions" I used to also ask women how I compared with the other men they'd been with. I think most men are just competitive by nature. Troy Yes @Pioneer1 Google is the moral police, if you are part of their ad network. But unlike the police who will bring you in front of a judge (usually) for due process, Google are judge, jury, and executioner. In this particular case, I did not mean for you to change your post. I was just making light of the situation, and thumbing my nose at Google by using the word myself. Which is dangerous because Google could easily put me out of business in a heartbeat (for real). That's the new game now.... Punishment by omission. They get you "hooked" on something whether it's a cell phone, faster internet service, free advertising, or some other type of service.....and if you don't bow to their will then they punish you by threatening to or actually taking it away. I've heard older people say that convincing so many Black people to move to urban areas was actually part of the same goal. Up until about 70 years ago, MOST Black people lived in rural areas and were self sufficient. Once so many of our people moved into the cities and had to rely on someone else to provide them with electricity, gas, water, ect......they were more easily controlled. Cynique But you can give an illiterate person information and facts by simply telling it to them. Not being able to read doesn't render a person deaf and mute. This true.....but it's not the point. 　 Once you tell them something, their innate intelligence will determine whether they will subsequently comprehend what they have been told. So now you're ADDING to the mix....lol. You aren't relying on just TELLING them for them to know it, you're expecting "innate intelligence" to help them along. Which means they still need a mechanism to help them to process the information you gave them before they KNOW it. Slaves couldn't read or write but that didn't interfere with them comprehending things. True, literacy has little to do with intelligence.....but that's not the point. Griots are prime examples of oral communication. They were fonts of information who verbalized the history of their people. This is true....but again it's not the point. They didn't just parrot the information with no understanding, they KNEW the information they repeated. Awareness and knowledge are the same thing I'm sorrry....but no they aren't, lol. They are two different words with two different meanings. You are confusing knowledge with wisdom. No I'm not. YOU...on the other hand....are confusing merely receiving information from actually knowing it. Wisdom has to do with whether you wisely apply what you have comprehended in the course of living your life. True....but again this is not the point. Information, knowledge, and wisdom are 3 different words with 3 different meanings.

The REAL shocker is PBS firing Tavis Smiley ! I don't picture Tavis groping or coming on strong to women.....lol. I think the right wing racists in this nation feel the heat from so many of their leaders getting caught up in sexual misconduct and have decided that if THEY have to go down.....they're going to take as many liberals and others down with them. So they dig up dirt on Franken and force him to resign. They're also using this as an opportunity to remove as many Black voices from the media as they can. That would explain the removal of Congressman Conyers, Roland, and now Tavis.

Damn, is Google the new "moral police" on the internet now....lol. Alright bro, the problem has been resolved.

Lots of posts in different directions......lol. Let me say 2 things: 1. I USED TO believe the knowledge was just information and facts. But found out that unless that information and facts comes with a proper understanding then it's still not knowing. I'll use another example..... If you go to someone who is can see, but is illiterate and hand them a book. That's GIVING them information. But they still don't KNOW what they're seeing because they can't read and don't UNDERSTAND what they're seeing and receiving. When someone just gets information or data....it's called AWARENESS. They PERCEIVE information with their senses. But in order to KNOW what they perceive they have to PROCESS that information and make sense of it. 2. Troy and Mel were talking about people being born with atalent. If we were to take our focus off the divine or spiritual aspect of talents and gifts and focus strictly on the humanistic perspective.............. I believe that certain people are born with certain genetic traits that are abnormally developed. Meaning they are better at a particular function than most others. Stronger vocal cords, bigger muscles, bigger dang-a-lang, better memory, better imagination, ect...... But depending on their ENVIRONMENT and what has been DISCOVERED....those traits may or may not be considered a gift or talent. For example, a person may be born with strong vocal cords that they have excellent control over. In America they would be considered having a talent to SING. But if they were born in some culture where singing isn't allowed or isn't a big deal, then they wouldn't be considered talented....they would just be somebody with strong vocal cords. The same person born with strong muscles and muscular control in America may be said to have a TALENT for basketball or football. But if they were born 2000 years ago in Rome they would be considered a talented GLADIATOR. And if they were born in some remote place where physical skills aren't important...they wouldn't be considered to have any talent at all. Look at RAPPERS like Jay Z and Ice Cube. They are considered very talented and have gotten rich in THIS society. Because rap first had to be invented and marketed. But if they were born in Iran 100 years ago would they have become rich or have been considered talented? So from a strictly humanistic point of view perhaps much of what we consider talent is better than normal physical or mental traits that need the proper environment in which to express themselves before being recognized as gifts.

Well I don't like how he set up Dr Umar Johnson on one of the recent shows he did and tried to clown on the brother. Maybe he can go back to CNN and get his old job as a commentator back.