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Not my speciality.

OK what event would signal his time is getting short?

There is enough Black on Black grime to render any panacea ineffective. Black on black self loathing and hatred of their collective blackness. Wealth didn't prevent the massacre of Black Wall Street it probably exacerbated the underlying envy. The flip side of domination is insecurity.

Free Willly

Cynique I agree with everthing except the last line. Proactive awareness would be the opposite of a defense mechanism. This is the psychological definition Defense mechanisms are psychological strategies that are unconsciously used to protect a person from anxiety arising from unacceptable thoughts or feelings.

Emoluments, Daniels, Campaign Finance, Mueller, possible fraud, misappropriation of charitable donations, coercion, possible tax evasion, sexual assault and possibly treason. Sure you could be right none of this won't stick. So do you think July was a uneventful month for Trump, Trump said whatever I do as president is legal. Manafort and Cohen have trials.

People can grow from abuse and heal themselves. However I don't see abuse as a positive thing for either the abused or the abuser.

I think the word breeding shows the brutality. People were treated like animals. Both men and women were raped. I only found out recently male slaves were analy raped publicly.

Have a read through the latest NEWS. Do you remember what happened to the other Teflon Don..?

@Troy @Pioneer1 @Cynique July is shaping up nicely.

Nawesome don't pay em let it all hang out .

Troy are you saying Blacks weren't bred in slavery? @Troy

it can be used to rationalise abuse. Like the following : . If it wasn't for slavery Black music wouldn't be so soulful. Nor would they be some dominant in sports if they had more economic activity and weren't bred for work. That wasn't my point however Blacks were bred in Slavery.

People can heal and grow from abuse. And become stronger or whole. Unless you fell that growth wouldn't happen without abuse. However I am not prepared to take that position. Since it can be used to rationalise abuse. If it wasn't for slavery Black music wouldn't be so soulful. Nor would they be some dominant in sports if they had more economic activity and weren't bred for work.

Nancy Cunard was one of the wealthiest women in the world and she was giving it away like it was dollar day. Most people that I have met that are into Non vanilla sex either think more or have more money than the average person. Key parties and wife swapping was a thoroughly middle class suburban phenomenon. I once met a salesmen o a cross country who said he was in a small town and they were into wife swapping

@Chevdove I would say this applies to everyone. There are various instances of people snapping like Michael Douglas in Falling Down. Who is shooting up the school. @Chevdove the truth is often offensive . I don't think being a victim is a strength either. I think of strength as a positive attribute. So I don't think abusers abused victims and bullies having traits aren't aspirational for me. Can you tell me or describe an abuse that you personally feel would be beneficial for you to undergo. I think all relationships are a negotiation. Which can be done either consciously unconsciously or not. In one of my first jobs out of University I told my boss that I was going to sign a report. I said I'll do the work but I won't sign it. She said fine. I told coworkers that story for years. A few said they didn't know they could say no. Our social system is sociopathic it is built on agression domination and theft. There are women that feel pressure to give a guy some of her takes her out for dinner. Then other women will go to dinner with a man they don't like for a free meal. There are women that will split the bill. And some that will pay either because they invited you or that's their thing. I used to hang out in New York night life. And I saw a few kept men and women both straight and homosexual. It appeared that the younger person was generally better looking more fit. That's a projection because it could be the younger person could have the money. I felt as though . you both got what the wanted or needed. I believe most decisions are subconscious or emotional. How many times has a friend told you their reasons and you think, naw that doesn't add up.

People are invisible yet always accessible.

Isreal is kicking Africans out so K2 may have more pressing problems. Not a game I am interested in playing. For a number of reasons.

@Pioneer1Cynique has answered your questions from her perspective. It is problematic to say what she means, when she had said what she meant. Yeah I have said this it cuts down the games. Honesty diffuses the Game. Although there have been times I wanted to lie. If you lie your are taking someone's ability to choose by deciding what is best for both of you. Or perhaps neither of you cared enough to ask.

Stop runnin from massa.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiDti_Xnnmo

The question what do you want is a good game ender. For both sides.

I prefer riddling to jesting.

If members searchive the term and then go to your site would your rankings go up. Based on a results I would say Google has an algorithm to reward high traffic sites more than the term being searched. Which is why I don't generally use Wikipedia as a source. Just trying to think of was members can boost your ranking.

Firstly I would say it is a complicated issue. That has such a large emotional component that may prevent a rational discussion. The trix comment is not related to your statement. A post has to be somewhere and I have no control over where it goes. One of the things I do when thinking about a topic issue or a problem is reverse the statement or answer. So do you think being abused is a strength? Does the abused feel strong and confident when getting abused? Does being abused improve the quality of a person's life? I would say not in the short-term. However I look forward to seeing your reply. I don't think Cynique is a biznitch, I think she's a part time crank. Can you tell me what I said that you see as me psychoanalysing Cynique. I prefer to ask than assume people's reason or rational. I don't care why she did it either beyond the discussion. Whether she is propping up Black Men or busting their balls I wouldn't know. Those are statements she made about herself. O dont feel yhat Cynique is busting Black Balls or propping up Black Ball owners,that hasn't been my experience because that is not part of our discourse ,discussion or communication . @Chevdove Maybe ask a sex worker? Or just have a chat with one.