Pioneer1

Well we must first DEFINE what a Christian actually is. Clearly there are multiple ideas of who and what a "Christian" is...and what qualifies one to be called one. Some believe you must believe in Jesus and live a righteous live to be considered a Christian. Others believe that all you have to do is simply accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and you're automatically saved and a Christian no matter your lifestyle. Who decides?

Colorism is MUCH more prevalent in the Latino community than in the AfroAmerican community! It's to the point where you rarely see 2 Black Latinos together. Many Black and dark skinned Latinos have a Mulatto or White spouse and are producing children who look nothing like them. That's a clear sign of their own self hatred.

SpeakHerTruth That, and the fact that most Black men APPRECIATE the curvy body of a woman no matter what size it comes in. It should be noted that unlike most women.......most men don't have a "type". We find a variety of shapes and looks attractive. A female friend of mine who often goes with me to different events will comment from time to time about how she sees me looking a one woman who is fat and then staring at another who is skinny; then she'll ask me: "So what do you like, fat women or skinny women???? Make up your mind." She'll do the same thing with tall women and short women. I keep explaining to her that a man doesn't work on "one or the other" we often want ALL OF THEM, lol. But the unifying factor is PROPORTION.....not size. I've seen MIDGETS who are very attractive, as long as they are proportioned right...lol.

Lol....what's up with the female Haitian General with the big round butt? She must be giving the troops inspiration. Something more to fight for.....lol. If I had the enough money to do so, I'd gather up my own security and labor team and just GO down to Haiti to help build up parts of that nation. I'd carve out a "safe section" where we would be so progressive and beautiful.

The question is, do we really WANT "Black Unity". I've said over and over again that there are a LOT of Black people I have absolutely no desire to unite with. I'd like them as far away from me and my community as possible. And my rejection of them has little to do with religion, sexual preference, tribal affiliation, or some of the other petty things many Black people argue and fight with eachother over. My rejection of other Black people are over self destructive and strongly immoral activities like being a murder, a rapist, a child molester, a dope dealer, an informant to White racists, etc......characteristics that would destroy any community these people are found in. I do NOT with to unite with those people until or unless they REPENT and REFORM of their wickedness.

The System of Racism is indeed powerful. But it's not the RACISM that makes it powerful, but the amount of knowledge they have gained and utilized for practical purposes that makes it powerful. Go to some parts of the hood and you'll hear niggaz sitting around smoking weed and cussing about the White man all day long and how much of a devil he is and how he ain't shit. Some even throw Asians into the mix and call the "Bruce Lee muthafuckaz". Call Latinos some "taco eating muthafuckaz"......lol. Clearly racist, but they can't do shit about the people they're complaining about....because they have no power and little knowledge. Being weak doesn't let you off the hook from being racist any more than being broke and homeless means you're a "good person". It is what it is. White folks have what they have not JUST because they're racist.....although their racism drives them and it's a heavy motivational factor. They have what they have because they TOOK ACTION to seek the knowledge and build a world that benefits them. If they just stayed up in the caves hating on Black folks down in our civilizations.....they'd still be up there.....racist as hell and savage.

I'll spend time debating with Coggins or Nels or some Black Republican/Conservative. ...not TOO much time, lol...but some. But I wouldn't waste 3 posts on some racist White asshole who has nothing better to do than troll around trying to aggravate people for kicks. And I wouldn't even ban them. I just wouldn't respond unless they said something that begged for my attention. Like you said, it reminds me of some drunk White man staggering down the street and wander into a Black coffeeshop acting a fool and ends up having to be escorted out.

Back when I was religious, I used to look at events like this and it would make my heart tickle. Not because I enjoyed knowing people were getting killed, but because I thought the weather was finally bringing this world to an end. I thought FINALLY Jesus was coming back! Well, 40 years later....he's not back. After having many wars, many natural disasters, viruses and other plagues ravishing the planet.....MILLIONS have died....and he's not back. One of the best things we can do as humans.....and I think the United States "gets it"....is to build strong infrastructures and modes of transportation so that we can protect ourselves as best we can from natural disasters instead of calling them "Acts of God" which is almost blasphemous.

LOL....I knew you were joking. But what you said is usually the perception of most young men when it comes to older women. Many of them think ALL women over 40 are wrinkled up and dry, lol. I thought similarly until I finally had sex with a woman over 40 when I was 19 and realized it wasn't THAT big of a difference....lol. More so than the body, it's the mind....attitude....that I found more attractive than younger women.

Contrary to now popular opinion.....racism has little to nothing to do with power. You can be racist with absolutely NO POWER what so ever. Power is not a factor in whether or not something or someone is racist.

She's too lazy to get up and get the mail from her own MAIL BOX right on the porch from time to time, what makes you think she's going to handle her e-mail any better?

That's some nice funk right there! I clicked on it thinking it would be some 1970s "Rerun type music" that sounds stereotypical but bland. This brutha can get down pretty good though.

Chev Not now. And furthermore, my husband continually thwarts my efforts and sometimes I strongly believe he is being deliberate. Ofcourse. He wants to keep you to himself. He doesn't want you to turn into another Jennifer Hudson. Losing a lot of weight and next thing you know you're all over the place running around in bikinis kicking your legs and grinning. A lot of people change their personalities after losing a lot of weight. Lately, I have finally become 'in love' with water and but I still have a desire for the terrible soft drink. I drink a lot of water myself. I haven't had any pop (what we call "soda" or "soft drinks" in Michigan...lol) in years! I don't even have a taste for it. The older I get the less I care too much for sweet things like pop and candy. I drink a lot of coffee and don't put any sugar in it. frankster ....and don't leave out genetics. Your genes are a MAJOR factor that determines whether or not you'll be obese and how much fat or muscle you produce. Some people can eat whatever they want, as much as they want, and don't exercise a lick and stay skinny.

Why are yall wasting time going back and forth with these assholes? Do you REALLY think you're going to sway them or change their minds? And do you really want to? It's not like they're going to give us some money or donate to the site after being "reformed" of their racist beliefs...lol. I'd only argue with racists if I have something to gain from it, like winning over a neutral audience, or scoring points with a fine sista I'm trying to impress.....lol. Other than that.....fuck 'em.

ProfD An older woman's brain is fading and her box is more Arizona than Seattle. Both of her s8x organs are in distress. Lol... I think you're talking about and OLD woman....not necessarily an OLDER woman. There's a difference. An "old" woman's body has often deteriorated to the point that she no longer gets wet, can have orgasms, or even has a sex drive. But then you have "older" women, which is relative to the man's age. Usually atleast 10 years older in my opinon counts as an "older" woman. I'm kicking it with a woman who's 63 right now, and not only is her body just as fit and her skin just as smooth as most women in their 30s....she gets "almost" as wet (lol) and has orgasms. I've met several women in their 60s I can say the same thing about. Not every woman, obviously. Hell...some women have petered out (pun intended...lol) in their 30s and are in menopause. Every woman is different. Chev And, I get tired of hearing men 'talk' and then afterwards make excuses for underperforming. Girl stop playing!!!! You know them young dudes be in it for themselves!!!! Sheeeeeit..... I used to use my "back" as an excuse.....LOL. Now I can use my age.🤣 I'll look a woman straight in her eyes and say, 🤨"Well I'm not 19 anymore....what did you expect?????"

I agree, every child is different and what works with one child may not work with another. With boys, most boys....generally at some point they must be spanked or physically punished in some way to instill the proper respect for authority in them. Many Black boys will TEST you to see if you'll punish them or not and just to see how soft or weak you are. Not spanking or physically disciplining or atleast threatening to physically discipline them is FAILING the test....and they'll walk all over you and lose respect for you. If you notice, a lot of the children who DIDN'T get spanked by their parents often grew up some of the most spoiled, selfish, inconsiderate people who often KILLED their parents just to inherit their wealth. Meanwhile the children who grew up constantly getting their tail whooped (in love ofcourse) and disciplined by their parents often grow up LOVING their parents, defending them and their spankings, and will even tell you the spankings were the reason they grew up to be successful. The lesson to learn is, trying to be your child's "best friend" instead of being a good parent never works. It doesn't make them like you more, it actually makes them lose respect and reverence for you and they often grow up resenting you for not giving them the discipline they so needed in life.

I was told by some older men NOT to tell women my Zodiac Sign. They said it would just be an excuse some women would find not to date a man. I found there was a lot of truth in what they said. Some women will make entire life's decisions like who to accept a job from or who to marry or who to go into business women all depending on what sign the person is. What's their Sun Sign? What's their Rising Sign? While there is a lot of truth to REAL Astrology, the MAINSTREAM astrology that has been promoted to the public has been watered down and compromised to the point of being almost ineffective. For one thing, it's based on GREEK Astrology.....who stole it from the Egyptians and Babylonians and corrupted it. The Egyptians and Babylonians had more accurate Astrology where they could predict events more accurately and I believe many of the governments still use THAT Astrology instead of the watered-down versions they give to the public.

Yeah, I can dig that. The woman in the photo DOES have that "wide space between the eyes" Caribbean look. Especially with all of those yellow and green colors she's draped in.

I like older women but I'm not screwing a 76 year old woman (sorry to disappoint you Cynique....I know you had plans). No matter how attractive I found her, I'd be too worried about hurting her. Knocking one of her hips out of alignment or giving her a heart attack. As I got older I found out that some women are just FRAGILE. While some are strong and just as tough as men, most are not.....and many are as delicate as butterflies. You can't even play rough with them....lol. And they become even MORE delicate and fragile as they get older. Where as a smack across the rear end was considered cute when she was 30 and would only leave a red mark.....at 60 it may end up a bruise where she's unable to sit down for days and might even have to go to the hospital. You guys (women) are just delicate......most of you NEED men, lol.

My musical tastes have definitely changed over the years. I used to be a huge fan of Gangsta Rap. Now I rarely listen to it. I tend to listen to CLASSICAL MUSIC now. Bach is my favorite, then Beethoven and the others.

SpeakHerTruth You make a lot of excellent points as usual. It must be understood AND ACCEPTED by both men and women that generally speaking, we tend to think differently and look at sex differently. Men tend to look at sex from a recreational point of view, where as women tend to look at sex from more of a serious emotionally involved point of view. We tend to give our heart less to people we're having sex with than women do. When BOTH sexes grow up understanding and accepting this, they can relate to eachother better without trying to FORCE eachother's ideology and mentality on eachother. MansaMusa I like that name you chose! Hey man, I have a couple questions for you if you don't mind...... You sound like a young brutha to me. Likely a lot younger than myself being in my mid-50s. First of all, I'm not going to ask whether or not you were serious about "shooting your shot" at Speak because no matter what you say, joke or no joke...I know you would have snatched that catch up if she took the bate....lol. So my first question is, why are you trying to pull females online.....don't you come across enough women in the real world that you can shoot some game at and pull? Second....... For quite some time now I've been saying that there isn't truly a shortage of Black men.....but actually there is a shortage of Black WOMEN. Everywhere you go in this society whether it's at work, in school, in the mall, etc.....you have a bunch of Black men standing around with doo-rags on leaning against a wall or on a counter grinning. And it seems as every Black woman has 5 or 6 bruthas sweating her for this and that. Seems to me that's a short of Black women to go around for all of these thirsty bruthaz. Would you agree with me that actually there's a shortage of Black WOMEN instead of Black men?

Troy and SpeakHerTruth I agree they are both around the same size and for argument's sake......they may even have the same weight. But we're talking about PROPORTIONS.....this is largely what determines a man's affection. The first lady's fat is clearly distributed in the bests and mostly in the hips and must less in the belly area. She's gotta a LITTLE bit of a belly on her, but not like the one in the 2nd picture with rolls of fat hanging off of her.

Oh come on Chev, let's see some pictures and let US be the judge of whether or not you need to drop a few pounds. SpeakHerTruth Has the community collectively given up on tackling this issue? Some of those in the community never gave IN and dried to control their weight or help those around them. So they essentially have given up nothing. One of the main causes of obesity is simple, it's the TYPE of food that is being eaten. Mostly fast food, restaurant food because of all of the preservatives and other chemicals they pump in thoses foods. When I was kid, Black folks had a restaurant on every corner in Detroit. They also fixed their own food for the family. The state of Michigan attacked many of those businesses and shut them down for petty reasons. I tend to see it affect more black women than men, but both have struggles with it. That's probably because women are more concerned with and worried over their looks than men are. When I step back and look at it, I see just as many men who are obese as women.

Purple Mountain Comet??? Sounds like a Cosmic bag of Skittles being release on the planet....lol.

That article about Obama deserves it's own thread. That's insane.