Pioneer1

Well she answered them, and had a nice little laugh at the questions! So stop trippin'.....lol. ...sitting up here acting like he's YOUR man or something...lol. Getting all defensive and hostile. Like I'm talking about somebody YOU love.

ProfD The reality is that Black folks are not in a position to take wealth by force. We don't need to take it by force, all we need to do is use the resources already at our disposal to GENERATE all of the wealth that we need. Who's stopping us from establishing more restaurants, grocery stores, gas stations, factory plants, and even engaging in major civil engineering projects? This is our country. Whether we believe it or "act" like it or not, it is ours. Who is literally "stopping" us, besides....us? Although Black folks do kill others, it's not with the same mentality that white folks are willing to kill anything and everything in their path. I think it's more on a petty and smaller scale and less skillful. Take drugs, alcohol, and robbery out of the equation.....lol....which is 75% of the reason Black folks kill....Black folks often kill out of emotional rage or some sort of personal insult. White folks CALCULATE their murders and many even use drugs, poisons, and other long term methods that are more effective and concealed. They often kill for money, wealth, status, racial hatred, or some strange psychological issue driving them. I don't believe Black people have the same willingness to go to war and kill others for their freedom or power and wealth. They would to get freedom from another Black person...lol. As far as killing and going to war for more power and wealth...... Many of our people are happy and content as long as White folks are "providing" a sustenance for them. Many can't don't desire more power and really don't desire more wealth than they can have fun with and many can't even CONCEIVE of having more power and wealth than White folks.

The laziest people in the world can be enticed to work with the proper motivation and incentive. I don't know how many times I've seen lazy young men who were too lazy to even pick up their feet and walk....they just shuffled around....all of a sudden straighten up and show ambition and diligence when an attractive woman asks them for something, lol. He was motivated because he had an incentive.

ProfD No different from Hollywood making movies that are filled with violence, drugs, s8x, demons, etc. I know. Many of them are tapped into the Spiritual Realm where they come back with all kinds of ideas and creativity for their productions. The very NAME "holly wood" denotes magic because the magic wands ancient European practitioners used to use were made out of wood from the Holly tree. Some entertainers act weird but we have no way of knowing whether ot not they're possessed They don't call it "Holly Weird" for nothing...lol.

Listen, why don't you shut the lid on that....garbage can of yours. I wasn't insulting that man. I simply asked what was his ethnicity. He just doesn't look like the typical every day plaid shirt wearing White man. ....need to MYOB

ProfD As men get older, we choose women for different reasons other than physical needs. Is it that men choose women for different reasons OTHER THAN physical needs, or is it that physical needs actually CHANGE? As you said, a lot of men look for women because they don't want to grow old alone. I generally prefer women over 40. However if I hit 80 or 90 and still got some money in my pocket...... Don't put it past me to fly in 4 or 5 tenderonies from Rwanda or Mozambique to give me baths, fix me food, and keep me warm in bed....lol. "At Your Service Big Daddy!" As Black men, we can pinpoint when, where, how and why the problems started. To date, we have not been able to solve them. Question: At what point does the excuse go from being a problem without a solution....to a solution that simply isn't being implemented.

Actually, when you abuse drugs like a lot of these entertainers do....you open yourself up to spiritual manipulation and even possession in some cases.

ProfD I don't disagree with what you said, but for the sake of discussion let me throw this at you....... Hard work will only get you so far. Genetics also plays a huge role in success. I don't care how hard a mentally retarded person works, their financial and social success will be limited because of their limited ability to think. Some people are athletically gifted with strong muscles, coordination, and nerve impulses...genetics. Practice at sports isn't "hard work" to them but fun because their efforts come with ease. Others will be obese all of their lives regardless of their diet....because of genetics. Their athletic abilities are limited and too much "hard work" will actually injure them causing more harm than good. Infact, if you don't have the right genes....you won't have the ENERGY to put in the work to begin with. Nor will you have the drive or ambition. You can go to Honduras or Cambodia and see people working hard as hell from sun up to sun down, but are still in poverty. So their hard work is of naught. Mel I share this sentiment, but could you please define 'delusional' and 'success'? Ok, but I'd rather give you MY definitions of these terms rather than Websters' or Oxfords'...lol. Delusional: Believing in a scenario (past, present, or future) not shared by others Success: Accomplishment of goals Notice I didn't mention money or relationships in the definition of success; because success tends to be personal, and not everyone sees those things as necessary for THEIR success. As far as I'm concerned ANY goal you set and end up meeting is a "success" because it's what you wanted and you achieved it. Even if it's going to the grocery store, coming back home, laying on the couch, and smoking weed the rest of the day. If THAT'S what you woke up intending to accomplish today....and did it...you were successful, lol. I'm currently reading Don Quixote - and dude was financially successful, but it was not enough for him. See, that's why I defined success the way I did. For a lot of people...money is NOT success. It comes to them so easy it's not even satisfying for them, they want more. They want a challenge to overcome. Maybe the accumulation of lots of money is a TEMPORARY success for some but after this is achieved, they want more. But for others....money is the ULTIMATE success for them. Especially if they grew up not having any. Like Jay-Z said: If you grew up with holes in your zapatos you'd celebrate every minute that you had some dough

That was beautiful and very professionally done. Looked like something out of Hollywood. Looks like something out of a Tyler Perry movie WITHOUT the alphabet agenda stirred into it...lol. Mel Are you sure that was a "white man" you got with? But for real though..... His skin is White but I was looking at his nose and lips. Is he Jewish or Italian???? He ain't no WASP

ProfD Don't give them any attention. Treat them like a tax write-off. You can't do that when the chorus is growing and getting louder and louder. Men aren't built to "ignore" criticism from the women in their community...unless they're gay or asexual. We are biologically programed to tune in to what they're thinking about us so that we can adjust our behavior for more sexual attention which leads to reproduction. It is a form of social conditioning. Hard to know whether they were raised that way or picked it up over time Both What I've noticed is since the 90s 3 things have been promoted towards our community: 1. Promoting the thug and criminal lifestyle as attractive. 2. Promoting White men as a viable alternative for Black women (and pointing to those same thug/criminal Black men as the reason why) 3. Promoting LGBTQIA lifestyle in our community. All three of these....when taken to their conclusion...leads to the destruction of a community. And this is exactly what has been promoted since the 90s. On one end self destructive behavior is being promoted as "ideal" and on the other end that same self destructive behavior is pointed at as the reason why our community is in crisis. These problems are orchestrated.

Don't be so sure about that. When you listen to some of his music, the lyrics.....it makes you wonder. A lot of these entertainer promote violence, drug abuse, and all around anti-social behavior. They PROMOTE it. Many of them also dabble in the spiritual realm to get their "creativity". Who knows what kind of evil entities may be influencing THEM so that they can influence others.

You have to be delusional TO A CERTAIN DEGREE in order to really achieve Success in this world. You can't be too stuck in the current "here and now" or focus only on what you THINK is likely or probable. You have to be a dreamer and dream big and actually believe those dreams can and will be accomplished. This is important for intelligent and righteous Black people to understand and accept.

Something wicked is going on. So many people now a days are coming out of prison with those tattoos and shit all over their face with stars, crosses, and other symbols. They all have meanings to them. Some of those symbols are surely evil and demonic and probably encourages them to commit demonic acts.

I was always told that wisdom comes with age. I was always told that as I got older, I would become wiser. This is so true........ Just like I no longer advocate for blanket "Black Unity"; I no longer advocate for all Black people to own their own "businesses" or even stop working for White folks. It's about degrees and levels. It is IDEAL for a Black person to have their own successful business, but if they can't run a successful business then it's best for them to work for another Black person who IS running one. And if they can't find a successful Black business to work for and the bills need to be paid, it's best to go ahead and work for White folks if they're paying you right. It's better than being homeless or doing something demeaning for survival.

ProfD Right. She's entitled her VGQ...whatever the reason(s) for choices . She's entitled to it, but I'm also entitled to CRITIQUE it. If her way of dealing with racism is to marry a White man OR not deal with it at all, that's her right. I wouldn't take that away from her. Infact, I'd LIKE to know which women prefer White men over me so I know who I should help and who I shouldn't. I love, protect, and help the women who have MY back. No hate involved. Straight up business. That's been hapoening for 100s of years now. Even within our own race. Burnt chocolate n8gglets chasing high yellow women to have better looking children It's a sickness that needs to be "conditioned" out of our people with a program of self esteem and self respect. Women don't make deals with men to whom they're attracted. Lol....I hear (read) you. Actually, it depends on HOW attracted they are to the man. A lot of women will find a man attractive and all she want from him is just his attention and love. But her friends and family will DEMAND that she get more out of him and that's where the "dealing" often takes place. This is especially true with a lot of women from non-Western cultures where the men are expected to offer a certain amount of provision in exchange for a woman's "love". Most women would prefer to have a relationship of some kind rather than be alone. Facts. I would say this is the case with human beings in general both female AND male. Even if the relationship is strictly platonic or intimate but non-sexual. We crave that human interaction. We know how the laws would be written in Pioneer1-Land Come on man, I've made it clear on a number of occasions that although I DO NOT like White men having sexual contact and loving on White men, I wouldn't prevent it. If I were king and had total authority...I wouldn't make laws against it, lol. Why? Because again, I want to KNOW which women are down for me and other Black men and which ones are not. I also like the challenge of CHANGING Black women (especially African women) who were infatuated with White men TO falling in love with Black men by showing them a better side of us that what they've been conditioned to believe in the media. I personally don't believe Black men are trying hard enough to overcome the propaganda being formulated against us by their racists. Especially with regards to foreign women. Many bruthaz think it's cool to "not care" what other people think about them, not knowing the damage that is being done while they are indifferent to it. We NEED women. Not just physically but psychologically....to motivate us to be better. How motivating is it to hear women of YOUR group calling other races of men "cute", getting on the internet proclaiming how happy they are to be with them, and even encouraging OTHER women to do the same? What kind of self-hating madness is that?

Why would White folks want a race war when they're already on top and ruling? That's like Trump calling for a RE-election....lol. Chev I just don't want to believe that humans can be that insanely evil to do this. One of the biggest miscalculations people often make is measuring humanity by THEIR own conscience. Because THEY wouldn't and couldn't ruthlessly torture somebody and chop them up and but them in a suitcase, eat a big meal afterwards, and sleep comfortably that same night with the body balled up next to them in bed...they can't believe ANYBODY could actually do this. Although I haven't seen anything that gruesome, I've been around enough people to know that some human beings are capable of almost anything so I don't put anything past them. Especially when they're under the influence of substances that open up their minds to spiritual manipulation.

Cynique Why bother sending messages to Cynique? Because aka Contrarian...her alter ego....responds to them. richardmurray More black people own business in the usa today than ever before , holistically. But, too many black businesses fail in the usa as well, you have to think more on the financial reality of the industry you are in. It can't be village save me. But what are the NATURE of these so-called "Black businesses" that exist today? 100 years ago a Black business usually consisted of a 4 walled shop where an actual product or service was offered. Like a grocery store, barber shop, sign making company, tailor shop, etc.... A lot of the so-called businesses today are online and rarely involve manufacturing physical products. Basically shuffling money around and participating in financial and credit based schemes like bitcoin and the like. No actual "civilization building" skills like carpentry, engineering, agriculture, and the like are being passed along from one generation to the next like they were during Reconstruction. When I look at some of these old pictures I remember that old Pete Rock & CL Smooth line: "I stive to be live cuz I got no choice And run my own business like my Aunt Joyce"

I IMMEDIATELY recognized that by the sheer wit of some of the observations....lol. But I'm going to be real with yall. That "CON-gress being the antithesis of PRO-gress"............... Genius I'm going to be using that one quite a bit...lol.

ProfD If she wants a ring and Black men don't come through with it...she will be happy with the man who does. Maybe it's not the RING that she actually wants. Maybe it's a White man. Maybe it's mixed children. I said MAYBE.....because I don't know for sure one way or the other. Women don't have to marry them though. There must be something ielse in it for them. Thus my thread about "mejorando la raza" and the desire to leave one's own race or ethnicity for one PERCEIVED to be better. I'm not saying this is the case with Serena. However we've all known Black people who vocally express their fondness for light skinned babies with curly or wavy hair or what they call "pretty" babies. And I've known some...male and female...who purposefully and shamelessly decided to mate with White and non-Black people TO produce those type of offspring. Fuck tangibles. That alone.....being "closer" to Whiteness....is what they really value more than wealth! Tired of giving up the snatch box for fun without a commitment. Some women DON'T get tired of it though, lol. There are many here in the United States, but in Canada and Europe there a LOT of women past 40 who have never been married and have no desire to. They just want to date and remain single OR alone. As you rightly pointed out, they don't need a man to be happy. A lot of women are about that life and not about "making deals" with the coochie...lol. That's a mentality that comes from being brought up to believe you SHOULD get married or make a man "work" for sexual access to your body. In some countries, that mentality isn't as prevalent. Over time, for any number of reasons, it takes more than s8x to sustain a long-term relationship Facts. However, as we discussed before....many women AREN'T looking for a long term relationship. Some men believe it is their right to have s8x with a woman of any group. I believe in America it IS a man's right. Not his right to FORCE himself on any woman, but his right to BE with any unmarried woman who desires to be with him. And the same for the women. That doesn't mean I have to LIKE it though, lol. Grown azz women are not being tricked or manipulated into having s8x with men. I consider brainwashing and other tactics that White racists use in the media and in society in general to condition the minds of so many women to "love" them and see them as ideal and superior to other men....a form of manipulation. The very image of a White Jesus as a "savior" is part of that manipulation. When you grow up seeing THIS image on your wall and being told how wonderful and great this man is and how he saves you from all of your problems, your subconscious automatically attributes these characteristics to every man who LOOK like him. You grow up with an automatic love for and faith in White men and don't even know where it comes from. Chev I know. But I didn't.....now leave ME alone.......😜

Over the years I've become very careful advocating for "Black Unity". Because there are some Black people I have absolutely NO intention or desire to unite with. If experience tells us we can't get along with every member of our own families, what makes us think we can get along with every member of our race?

ProfD We don't see white women criticizing white men in public. They do it to a certain extent but they don't specifically call out "White men". They criticize "men" in general and it's almost a given in their community that they're talking about White men because they simply aren't focused on other races of men. I was watching a show with Indian women criticizing Indian men and they called them out by race. Same with Ethiopians, Koreans, and other non-White groups. These women were asking what's wrong with "---- men" and why are "---- men" so oppressive or sexually uptight or aggressive? These other groups compare their men to White men, as if he's the standard to measure men by. There's more constructive avenues for dealing with emotional issues. Bashing Black men won't solve anything in her life oele society at large. I guess she's just blowing off steam....lol.

aka Contradiction Take it from a 92 year old whose been around the corner a coupla of times No thanks, I won't "take it" because I don't want it...lol. Age aside... I'm sure ANY woman who's been on the corner and around the block a few times has "something" to give a man...lol. Probably something he doesn't want and may need a prescription to get rid of...lol. Keep it. Mel How beautiful that would have been! I guess you don't know how I long for a big family! 🫣....yeah, but not with the ADAMS FAMILY. ((snap snap)) do you know we had actual wedding crashers at the celebration? Gurl, SHUT THE F....front door!!!! Say what??? Tell us all about the throw down over in Chi-town...lol.

Cynique Yep, there you are with your long black tail, I'm kinda on the light side, so my "tail" is more of a deep brown than black. But some ladies like the contrast....lol. Go crawl back in your hole and lick your wounds while I eat your false scenario for lunch. "long tail" "hole" "lick" Man..... You got all types of Freudian slips slipping out your mouth today....lol. Did one of your children slip some GINSENG in your tea this morning or something???? "Oh me....Oh my...." ProfD White supremacists loved the Nation of Islam because that was fewer black men they had to worry about. Some have made that argument. That the Nation of Islam took many of the most militant "down to ride" Black men and made them less violent and Revolutionary and focused them on religion. It may be true in a few cases, but in vast majority of cases where violent and angry men entered the Nation of Islam...that violence and anger was aimed at OTHER Black men, not the racists. The curse is that Black folks haven't codified and commodified their natural gifts and talents and greatness. Is that a "curse" or a character flaw? To this day, Black folks are still selling themselves short when it comes to wealth building. For the sake of argument..... Consider the possibility that in the majority of these cases....those who actually CAN....DO.

Such language. Do your grandchildren know you use that kind of language?