@ProfD, I'm old enough to recall the days when men were men and women were women, so to speak. The gender roles were well-defined.
However, things have changed. I think the benefits offered to nonbinary people have been good for those people. And the complete liberation of women is obviously a great benefit to women. However, these changes have created confusion about what it means to be a man in contemporary America.
I think the changes have been even harder for cis-gendered, heterosexual Black boys. These young men, especially those under 30, aren't performing as well as the girls in school and ultimately in the job market.
It has always been hard for us. In my day, growing up in an all-Black and Puerto Rican neighborhood, all of my primary school teachers were Jewish women (two were Jewish men, one of whom was ultimately convicted of pedophilia). In all of my school years, I never had a Black male heterosexual teacher -- that includes 8 years of college! I don't think this is a good thing, on a variety of levels.
Again, because of the nature of the media anyone inclined to point out this problem is marginalized and ignored.
Sidebar: I heard Umar Johnson has secured a building for his school 😉