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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD There's no benefit to shooting heroine regardless how high or good it makes a person feel. Lol....THOSE ARE the benefits! Sometimes the only thing a person wants IS to get high and feel good. They don't care about their health or future. Got them pill dudes here who work nice jobs & would rather play video games instead of chasing snatch box. That's because they've been so accustomed to it that they're better at using SOMEBODY ELSE'S "joy stick" to have fun than at using their own....lol.
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Mel Yep! It does. I've studied people long before I even knew I was studying folks. I realized I could hear them before they even knew they were telling me who they were. So I can say a few well-placed words, questions, or statements they probably never expected, and all of a sudden, the real person appears. I love those "there you are" moments. Looks like you've been in the wrong profession....lol. Instead of sitting at a desk with your hair bald up in a knot anchoring the news or pushing carts of cold beer and soda pop up and down those tight airplane aisles, you should have been a PIMP (or a Madam); because that's what pimps....successful ones...are able to do. I have an Uncle who was a pimp and he told me he had been able to do the same thing since a child. Not only was he able to read people's thoughts and read their auras and colors but like you said he learned how to find about a person's entire history just by asking them a few strategic questions. Psychology calls it deductive reasoning where learning one fact about a person will certainly reveal other facts about them just as surely as knowing one is an athlete will reveal to you that they don't smoke, watch what they eat, and exercise on a regular basis. But he was able to do it on a much higher and more sophisticated level. I've seen him in action. He used to be able to point to people and tell me what they were all about and what they were into and then I'd go up and ask them and he was ON THE MONEY. He could do this with White people as easily as he could with Black people. It's a skill and gift that some would argue that he used negatively to exploit people, but it's certainly a skill, talent, and gift. Once I was divorced, I realized I didn't need marriage to make my life complete. After learning the structure, I'm sure these Gen X men realize that marriage was not the goal, but rather a step toward understanding themselves. Most of us Gen X Black men realize that marriage...like most other institutions in this society....are just SCRIPTS written for a play or movie that we weren't intended to star in or be the main characters in anyway, so we chose not to follow them. The wedding ceremony itself...which has always been expensive and lavish...wasn't designed for poor or working class people. It was obviously designed for wealthy people and a way to merge the wealth of families and keep it in a tight circle. On top of that, marriage as it was structured in the West was designed for the man to work while the women stayed at home and kept the children and house. Today women have to work....which means they will inevitably meet OTHER MEN and most likely will either leave their husband for them or just stay and have sex with other men they've met at work on the down low. Most of us past a certain age have seen this and realize the sham of it and decided it's not worth it. That's what I learned and am remembering on my journey. I had to go all the way back to who I was before the world told me what I should value to understand my value in the world and what I value. Well, just don't go TOO far back...lol...you'll end up back in Brooklyn. Watching two rats fighting over a piece of Jamaican Jerked chicken. ProfD IMO, as a society, we need to do a better job of telling the truth about marriage. Marriage is a business arrangement, er, a contract between a man & woman to share their lives. 🤣 Exactly. But this must be CLEARLY understood by BOTH PARTIES upon entering the agreement. They can't be entering into a business contract assuming that it's all about LOVE and that they will remain faithful to eachother forever. As a man you MUST realize and even expect that if you can't take care of your family alone and your wife has to work....expect that she will meet other men and may even end up having sex with them! Prepare yourself for this FACT. Those poor and working class men who DON'T realize and accept this are the ones filling up the local headlines with so many murder-suicides.
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ProfD It's funny that you mentioned Chipotle, because I haven't been there for years but since I'm on vacation now I've been TEARING UP some Chipotle for the past few days...lol. I'm enjoying that spicy honey chicken they serve now...lol. I'm not sure what's happening with the vegetables but I know those kids back there fixing the order aren't practicing the most sanitary habits. I don't know how many times I've had to get at those skinny White girls with yoga pants on and phones jammed into the pubic hair, to NOT fix our food with the same gloves they just got through clearing all of the trash and smudge off the counter-top with!!!! DON'T DO THAT. Next thing they'll looking at me all juicy eyed and start getting apologetic. Sorry young lady..didn't mean to raise my voice at you but DON'T DO THAT.......lol. I'm not in Michigan right now but I guess whatever it is that has been going around has spread to different states. As you've suggested, this mess usually comes from these farm laborers shitting out in the fields and not properly washing their hands. This is yet another problem when you get too much mass migration and let so many illegal immigrant in here by the millions. But then again, the government may have released something also. Who knows? Do you know who I really blame for this? Black America. We've been here long enough that we should have our own doctors, hospitals and scientist on the case to INTERCEPT shit like this and prevent it from spreading or happening in the first place. We are supposed to be the moral guidance of this nation, so what happens is what WE allow to happen through out indifference.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD Drugs, alcohol & fast food benefit a lot people too. Doesn't mean it's good for them. If it BENEFITS them, it MUST be good for them on some level....by very definition. A man can be the boss at home but he's just an employee on his job. He doesn't have the same power in both situations. A man can be the CEO of a company, but doesn't have ANY power in the church he attends to and goes to the priest for guidance. Not having power in a given environment doesn't equate to being powerless. Either a person is POWERLESS or they're not. Amazing how people are willing to die for a flag but nothing else. Some people join the military...not for money or patriotism but simply to be able to KILL people. Even if they have to risk dying in the process....as long as they get to kill as many people as they can. Maybe so in the United States. Getting high & playing video games is not a luxury in most countries.😁 It's a luxury HERE TOO, unless you're living with somebody else who has to work and pay the bills...lol. Cheap azz noodles are popular like soccer throughout the world. That's because much of the world is poverty stricken and are more focused on getting ANYTHING they can to eat, even if it's not the best food for them. Those cheap ass Ramen noodles have almost no nutritional value and basically just fills you up so you're not hungry. People eat that shit and often develop IBS because it's so processed that it sits in the guts like a brick, for days.
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Man you killed it with that one. Who else would have thought of the Poker analogy and not letting others know what kind of cards you're carrying.....lol.
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Isn't It Funny...............
I think it's a maturity level also. We may have different opinions and come from different perspectives but I've noticed that we both bring less emotion and more logic to the conversation. Also, like you said we tend not to take things too personal. That's one of the things I've noticed lacking in many of the younger men today. They are too "catty". They act more like women. Probably because so many were raised without fathers. They take disagreement as personal insult and get emotional about it. Or if they do get insulted or fall out with one of their friends they stop speaking to them and they immediately become an "op". So many of my young (under 35) male family members have other men they no longer "fucks with" over petty shit that older men would have laughed about back in the day.
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I've learned that one of the better moves to make when first meeting others is to DOWN PLAY one's qualities. If people see you at what they believe to be your worst and still want to be with you, then you know the relationship can only get better as you reveal more of your true self.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD Religion is a legalized hustle that benefits a whole lot of people. Whether this is true or not, the fact that you acknowledge that it benefits a lot of people explains it's necessity. The point isn't whether or not our Black heroes were afraid to die, they took on the mission instead of choosing a safer & easier life. Correct. They understood and accepted a mission they believe was greater than their own personal comfort. I believe many if not most of them were Divinely ordained for their particular fate in this world. From Nat Turner to MLK. Their road was already chosen for them. There are degrees & conditions that can render someone powerless in a given situation. Powerless.....in a "given situation"? A millionaire, without any money to buy lemonade because he doesn't have his wallet on him while he's out jogging...lol. They should be complaining for a raise & paid holidays considering $23/hour is not a livable wage. Probably not in the DMV, but in Western Michigan it's a pretty decent wage for a single person or even a couple if both are working. Not the best, but not bad. It's really what they DO with their money. Still, it is a small number of people running the show relative to the population. That's your typical corporation or business anyway, lol. Nature designed for smart people to be in the minority. Of any group you're going to only have a minority in leadership. It's nature and makes sense because the body should be bigger than the brain operating it. Interestingly, the people getting killed have no say or control over when & how they die. Lol....if they did, they wouldn't go and you wouldn't have many people defending the nation. These world leaders can order other people to fight & die while they sit back & enjoy the riches & other finer things in life. Most of the soldiers in every human society are in their late teens and early 20s. If it were up to THEM...not only wouldn't the nation ever go to war but most of military life would consist of getting high, playing video games, and eating cheap ass noodles...lol. Old men for vision....young men for war.
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Isn't It Funny...............
Isn't it funny how I can disagree with ProfD over many subjects. Disagree with him for days or even weeks over MANY things.....yet it NEVER reaches to the point of name calling, threats, or insults? There are atleast 2 subjects that we have CONSTANTLY disagreed on lately and it hasn't come CLOSE to any type of challenge or confrontation. Yet there are some people I can't exchange 5 posts with before there's a confrontation....lol Every other post is a jab, or insult, and after a while we just IGNORE eachother....lol. I'm curious as to why this is? Maybe he feels I'm not worth fighting with or maybe there's just no hostile spirit between us. Sometimes I wonder is it me or am I intentionally avoiding confrontation with my brother because of his intellect and ability to articulate. However I don't think that's the reason because I honestly haven't had so much as a DESIRE to call him a name, insult him, or take a jab at him over something he said or some position he's taken, despite our many disagreements.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD There is no confusion on my part but maybe I'll take it into consideration for the people in the back of the room i.e. lurkers. Lol....appreciated. The same people create the conditions that make times hard for weaker people leading them to despair & sometimes self-destruction. The preacher who feeds them the "pie in the sky" didn't necessarily create the conditions, but they certainly exploit them and benefit from them. Right. But, if Dr. MLK Jr. & others like him were afraid to fail &/or die in pursuit of their mission, our condition might be a lot of different. Who said MLK wasn't afraid to die? I'm almost certain that he WAS afraid to die but just fought through that fear to accomplish his mission. Courage isn't the abscence of fear but powering through it. Using the money analogy, there are people who have houses, cars, clothes, shoes, etc., yet, they are broke. No cash in their pockets nor can they go to the ATM & pull out $500 on demand. They borrow money from others until pay day &/or rack up overdraft fees on the bank accounts which is the modern day equivalent of bouncing a check. My analogy still stands. They may have THINGS but still no money. Thus they are broke. Like a child living at home with their parents may have a room, drive a car (their parents'), eat well, and live well but are broke as a joke and have no actual money themselves. Same goes for power. One can have enough power to call shots around friends & family or tell coworkers what to do but they are powerless when it comes to other areas of their lives. It's all relative. You're QUALIFYING what you call "powerless". Powerlessness is rather absolute. Either a person is POWERLESS or they aren't. If they have power with or over ANYBODY, they aren't powerless. There's nothing wrong with dying especially if/when one hasn't accomplished anything other sucking oxygen & taking up space on the planet I think it depends on 2 things: 1. Whether or not the person is ready or WANTS to die. 2. The MANNER in which a person dies. Nobody wants a horrible gruesome death. That type of threat should be enough motivation for that younger person to either work for themselves &/or find a better job with paid holidays. Or stop complaining and grow up, lol. Especially if they're being paid $23 an hour for what they're doing. It doesn't take a whole lot of smarter people to dominate &/or control the masses. Dictators run countries with millions & billions of people living there. They're not smarter than everyone else in their countries. The people they have helping them, usually are. The President doesn't run the entire country by himself. He has an entire staff and cabinet to assist him. Sure. Military strategists come up with various scenarios for killing people. The end result is still the same...victory or defeat. Right now, nobody can really say the US has won the dust-up with Iran. That's because the U.S. isn't really trying their best. Kind of like Russia in Ukraine....their playing around and half-assing. They're more concerned with public sentiment and global image so they are careful not to go too hard. Violence is the last card played when more intelligent alternatives have not worked. That's usually the route more intelligent people make. Less intelligent people often go the violent route first.
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Mel Not an improvement in the way you think. Yes, your assessment is consistent with what I meant. There are a lot of women of color....not just Black but Brown and even Yellow who want their children to come out looking closer to White and less like them not just because they think Caucasians are more attractive....but because they feel being closer to White will make their lives easier. Mulatto offspring of White slave owners had it easier in the house than the Field Negroes. The Meztizo offspring of the Conquistadores had it easier than their Indigenous mothers Besides forced rape, women have a history of linking up with the male oppressor...not for her own sake but for the sake of her progeny. I remember when one daughter said her suitor was from Egypt. She was turned off when he jumped because her pit bull 😄 Ofcourse, Most Arabs and other Middle Easterners...like most Africans...don't have a love affair with dogs like they do in the West, lol. In the East, dogs are used to hunt and protect the house....they aren't kept as beloved pets INSIDE the house. We learned that shit from White folks because dogs were THEIR best friends, lol. Arabs and Africans.....because they tend to have more of their cultures intact...maintain their distance from dogs and keep them outside. You'll almost never see an Arab or African smooching and kissing dogs on the mouth like they do in the U.S. or Europe. As far the 1%, I can't say it was business transaction. Attraction probably came first. But from my experience it seems like white men are quick to marry - not necessarily quicker than Black men, but white men are going to step up anyway —because patriarchy. When it comes to marriage with Black men, it feels like they are signing up for partnership. And that takes a lot of contemplation on their part. I could be wrong, but at least that's how I felt when Black men talked to me about marriage. Honestly, there was a lot of I want to marry you but I need you to ...blah, blah because I'm not a traditional-type woman. Even my dad told my mom I was a handful lol. With white men it felt like they were supposed to do it and did, well at least they were quick to ask. ((Pioneer1 jumps up and down in excitement)) Oooh oooh....I got a GOOD video for you, I was just watching this morning! It's only a few minutes. When you have time check it out and tell me if it resonates with what you've experienced and observed.
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ProfD Nowadays, some folks are so busy in their lives that they don't have time to meet people in their daily routine. Well if they don't even have time to even MEET people, they have even LESS time to date and fuck....lol. Another thing is if a common friend thinks two people may be a match but won't meet each other under normal circumstances, that common person will set them up. Yes. That makes sense, and sometimes it works out......sometimes. Sometimes you try to hook two friends up and end up making 2 enemies because you insulted them. You hook ONE ugly person up with ANOTHER ugly person, and both of them get mad because you suggested that they were so ugly they deserved to be with somebody else who was ugly too...lol. Now they spend the rest of the month thinking to themselves...... "Now why would she think, that I'd want to date a woman who looked like THAT???? Unless she thought we were on the same level???" I'm an old skool caveman to the the point that I don't believe in dating apps or set-ups or anything else. I prefer to meet women out in the wild & let nature take its course. Not only is it more natural but more comfortable and fun that way, in my opinion. Finding a mate through a dating app and questionnaire is like seriously asking somebody on a date is it ok if you can kiss them and touch their genitals. Yes it's logical, but very unnatural and awkward. When it comes to meeting another person, not only do you see them but you have to SMELL them...their pheromones and the spiritual VIBES they give off. All of this plays a role in attraction. I've said for years and I'll still say, dating apps is for WHITE PEOPLE because many of their marriages and unions are SHAMS anyway. They force themselves to be together for reproductive reasons. Mel My first true love, my friend, my first born's father is 5' 6"... I'm 5'8" So there's that. Shit, who was he....Eazy E? I'm sure you weren't wearing the shoes you're wearing in this picture....lol. This makes a lot of sense, @Pioneer1 !!! All of those exclamation marks makes it seem as if you were surprised that it even came from me....lol. But there are certain types of men who marry up but they travel in a different circles. See: Alexis Ohainian married to Serena Williams estimated net worth 400M? Andrea Preti married to Venus Williams whose est net worth $65 M - $95 M? That wasn't love, those were business moves...lol. And as sad as it may seem....... Judging by how them and a lot of Black people see themselves, perhaps it may have been the sisters THEMSELVES who considered themselves the lucky ones who were "marrying up" because they were Black women who found themselves the object of the affection of White men. Especially if they have any offspring from those unions. They'll see that as some sort of "improvement" on their progeny. When rich people and celebrities marry eachother, you can't assume it's love. It's usually a business deal or their agents encouraging it for strategic reasons. TRUE love is two people working at Taco Bell fall inlove with eachother and run down to city hall and get married. Or some man working at Home Depot giving a homeless woman and her children a ride, they develop feelings for eachother...and after months of dating they get married and he accepts her children as his own. If two poor or working class people meet, marry, THEN become rich....that's one thing. But if people who are ALREADY rich and famous hook up, you have to suspect ulterior motives for the union.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD For whatever reason, you refuse to acknowledge that type a failure to use power makes one powerless. I do acknowledge it.....IF a person doesn't use it because they're lacking it. However if a person DOES have power....and doesn't use it, then they are NOT powerless. They are simply not using the power they possess. You can't call a millionaire "broke" simply because they aren't using their money properly or at all. Broke means you don't have ANY money.......not HAVING it in your possession, but simply not using it. Perhaps you should use a more accurate term to cut down on the confusion, lol. The reason Christians are taught that suicide is a sin is because their religious belief needs them to live a life of suffering. I'm not sure about that...lol. I think they're just trying to prevent people from killing themselves if times get too hard for them. People are placed in greater confinement for a reason. Some would argue that if they were more intelligent, they would not have ended up there in the 1st place. They may have been intelligent...but not intelligent ENOUGH to evade getting caught, lol. Or perhaps those who investigated and captured them were MORE intelligent. His intelligence & influence led to his assassination. Some would argue why did he even bother to fight for Black people. Yes, those who didn't know him or his Mission WOULD question why he even bothered to fight for Black people. Those who knew him, his Mission, and his love for Black people and desire to help us improve our condition would NOT question why he was willing to fight and die for our people. They clearly understood why. ...whether they agree with it or not. ...whether it makes sense or not. The reasons he did what he did were crystal clear. Again, one is powerless if they refuse to exercise it for whatever reason i.e. fear, ignorance, indifference, etc. Come on now Prof.....we're running into another "fundamental disagreement" or "counter point" again....lol. Claiming somebody is powerless simply because they aren't using their power is the same as claiming somebody is poor or broke just because they aren't using the money they clearly have. If they have it, they aren't broke. If a person has power...whether they use it or not...they aren't powerless. Hope does nothing. Hope gives a person or a people the reason to CONTINUE instead of giving up and possibly dying. If they keep going they may either get the solution or figure out the solution. If they give up hope they may either die or kill themselves before that solution comes. Failure means get better & try again. Or try something else...lol. Black folks cannot give up on dismantling & destroying the system of racism white supremacy. I agree. However we may have to consider SEVERAL different Alternatives instead of focusing on the 2 or 3 that have shown themselves not to be working. Again, having power & failing to use it especially to over oppression is being rendered powerless. Again....fundamental disagreement. Either a person HAS power in their possession or they don't. I'm never going to believe Black folks are so unintelligent that they cannot use their power to dismantle & destroy the system of racism white supremacy. That's ok...you don't have to, lol. Like one of my managers tells some of the newer younger employees who don't like or want to work holidays, "That's ok....you don't HAVE to work."......but by the way he says it, they know what he's implying, lol. There's a number of reasons & factors for the continued oppression of Black folks. A lack of intelligence is not even on the list. Way too many smart Black people on the planet to believe such a thing. .....but what if there are WAY MORE smarter White folks??? To dismantle & destroy the system of racism white supremacy takes more than intelligence. One has to be willing to take action which might result in violence. I agree. However still, intelligence is one of the major factors because it is involved in deciding HOW that violence is implemented and strategized to be most effective.
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Mel Lol....how are you going to sit up there and list ALL of them as "number 1" on the list????? There's really no ranking because my ideal man has all three. Even if you met all the men (friends, lovers, associates, acquaintance) that I had an opportunity to have in my life - you'd see the all share the same characteristics. While I'm sure Troy welcomes your participation, this list was actually crafted for men because we tend to look for different attributes in the opposite sex than women do. Some of what you value, we can take or leave Like height....lol. I don't care how short a woman is. I'd date a MIDGET if she was sexy...lol. And WOULDN'T be ashamed to walk around with her in public. I'd pick her up and carry her in one arm like a baby is she wanted me to. There was one man, a friend set me up with, and we went out on a date. See, I've learned that's a tell tale sign right THERE...the need to be "set up" for a date. Most people who are atleast moderately attractive don't need to be "set up" to meet other people. They naturally attract others either at work or while they're out and about in their daily life. Usually it's people who are generally not attractive enough to meet people in their day to day life....for whatever reason be it looks or personality....who need to be "set up" by a friend or turn to dating apps. Just like if a person is constantly in and out of jail......there's usually a reason for it. If a person has a hard time finding or attracting others, there's usually a reason. I have never or would ever entertain, date or even tease a broke man. See, that's one of the major differences between what most women are looking for and what most men are....lol. Most men could care less about the financial status of a woman. She could be too broke to pay ATTENTION let alone pay her bills...lol...doesn't matter as long as she was sexy, or pretty, or ultra-feminine. See all of those mail order brides from dirt poor countries that men are willing to spend millions of dollars to get? intelligence see this denontation it was what makes a man the entire package Yet another difference between most men and most women. Most men aren't looking for a super intelligent woman, just one who is intelligent enough to KNOW HOW TO ACT IN PUBLIC...lol. As long as she ain't acting a loud mouth ghetto fool when you take her out somewhere and doing things like.... -Getting into arguments with other women while standing in line. -Mean mugging and cussing out the waitress who has to serve us our food. -Threatening men with what I'M going to do to them when they look at her wrong or say something she doesn't like I don't care whether she can even read or write, as long as she has enough sense to carry herself in a mild, non-aggressive, feminine manner. attractiveness If he has the first two - he definitely has this one. I'm glad you said this because I initially was going to mention it to Troy. Attractiveness involves ALL of these attributes and how they relate to eachother synergistically to make a person desirable. I presumed when he wrote "attractiveness" he meant LOOKS, so I rolled with it. But I would have chosen another word to be more specific like "beauty" or "aesthetics" dealing with the physical outward appearance.
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Senator Lindsey Graham Passes Away @ 71
It could happen, but he would have to be a MASCULINE gay man....not an effeminate acting one.
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Sometimes AI lies to you. Or makes up facts.
ProfD There are many Black folks who are doing extremely well in that regard. Thankfully, they do not boast &/or broadcast it. Intelligent. So perhaps....maybe...it's not so much a matter of what White folks are "allowing" them to do as it is what they are actually CAPABLE of doing or INTELLIGENT enough to do themselves. Don't get me wrong..... Racism is real and White folks do gate-keep and allow certain things and prevent others, but perhaps Black success and failure isn't AS MUCH influenced by the Racists as we tend to think. Maybe our own intelligence and efforts are the largest contributors to our success or failures. There was a time when Black folks especially Black men had respect from & control over their sons, grandsons & nephews. Those n8gglets were not a threat to their own people. Generally speaking, this was the time we were in Africa...lol. Since we were brought HERE, Black men have had little actual control over their sons, grandsons, and nephews except for what they ALLOWED them to have out of respect. White men were the dominate male force that ALL of them respected and it was the fear of what White men would do to them is what made them act right. When Black people were given a little more control over their own communities after the 60s...you saw crime spike because we couldn't keep eachother in check like White men were doing. Most Black men didn't have the respect for eachother they had for White men. Truth be told, except for stray bullets hitting innocent victims, most Black violence is committed between the criminals themselves. True. And the second most violence committed in the Black community come from decent Black people having to use force and violence to defend themselves and loved ones from the thugs and criminals that White folks have ALLOWED...and in some cases SENT....to the 'hood to wreak havoc. Black folks should seriously consider getting themselves trained up in self-defense. I agree, but with certain qualifications. See.... You can't just arbitrarily teach ALL Black people self defensive techniques, because some of them no-good niggaz will turn around and use that same training to victimize other Black people. Nigga was a car jacker already. Now you wanna train him how to REALLY use a weapon to inflict the maximum amount of harm against his victims. Needs to be a screening process. ....and right there will be your first problem as to WHO get's screened, lol. Law enforcement was created to protect & serve white interests. Initially it was, but now they are charged with the duty of protecting ALL citizens...regardless of race or color. Doesn't matter what the "culture" of law enforcement is, OFFICIALLY they are authorized to protect all people and they need to be held to that. But, I'm certainly not absolving them from the job they signed up to do. I just don't believe Black folks should keep depending on white folks to save &/or protect them. Especially Black men. There is no excuse for it 1. There are plenty of Black people IN law enforcement. Especially in major cities. So it's no longer officially a "white" institution. 2. This is a modern somewhat civil society, not a "clanish" society like the Middle East or Somalia where families and tribes fight eachother and kill eachother for centuries on end. You don't even know WHO started the shit or who was at fault...lol. People kill eachother not out of justice, but simply because of who's family or tribe they come from. We need a GOVERNMENT to step in and solve major disputes instead of some half drunk nigga from the neighborhood with no teeth in his mouth staggering up and down the block calling himself "keeping the peace" and telling other folks what to do. ...while giving members of his own family a pass on everything. This society is too big for such out dated methods.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD The majority of Black people do not have a physical or mental disability preventing them from becoming stronger. They have to believe & exercise it. Similar to the energy they put into religion. Can't disagree with you there. Your takeaway is that I think Black people are powerless. Not true. This is because you've said (posted...lol) this belief on multiple occasions. My belief is that Black folks are not exercising the power they do have in order to dismantle & destroy the system of racism white supremacy. I believe Black people definitely have the POTENTIAL to challenge it and disable it, but to completely destroy it...remains to be seen. The craziest part is that Black folks have access to the system that they could destroy it from within like a trojan horse. Well first, in order to destroy something...intentionally that is...you have to WANT to destroy it. Many if not most Black people...especially Black immigrants...DO NOT want to destroy the system. They are flooding in here to be a PART of it because they feel it offers more benefits for them than the current systems they're living under. Those same Black people could take a bunch of pills & go to bed & never wake up again. No pain whatsoever. Instead, they are waiting on the sky fairy to call them home. Most Black Christians....and most religions in general...teach AGAINST suicide. Which is why I find it interesting that so many people in the Middle East have and are willing to strap shit to their bodies and blow themselves up for a particular cause that they think is "righteous". Middle-Easterners have been mostly been fighting among themselves for thousands of years. Westerners come from a history of people who have been conquering lands through violence i.e. war, murder, pillage, rape & torture over many centuries. The USA was not built like a sand castle. White folks came to the Americas & slaughtered the Natives & brought in chattel slavery to work the land & build the economy. Human slaves were treated worst than animals. Black people were not considered human. Conquering & building the USA did not start out as an endeavor of intelligence. The history of the USA is soaked in the blood of millions of non-white people through violence. What I'm reading from you is that BOTH groups...Middle-Easterners and Westerners...are very violent. But it seems to me that Westerners apply more INTELLIGENCE to their violence in the sense that they don't internalize that violence against eachother but turn it outwardly to others they intend to conquer and displace. The person is only as powerless as they believe it. One way to insure powerlessness is to not put forth an effort. Most people in prison are powerless to get out. Unless they come up with an INTELLIGENT way to get themselves out, they are stuck there for a given time. Power usually comes from INTELLIGENT APPLICATION....not necessarily just endless "trying". As I've mentioned before, Dr. Martin L. King Jr. could have easily lived a great life with his education, church, beautiful wife & family. He took up a cause & paid the ultimate price to move the needle for Black people & by extension, other minorities as well. Same goes for many other Black leaders. MLK had a doctorate degree. He was very INTELLIGENT....so his efforts weren't futile and they generated power and influence. A FOOL without his intellect wouldn't have had the power he had or accomplished what he did no matter how hard he tried. Black folks have power if they choose to exercise it. This goes against your past assertion that Black people are powerless. Fear is another reason that holds our people back. But where does that fear come from? It often comes from realizing how little power you DO have to overcome your adversaries or the adversities they bring. If our people were more successful, they'd be less fearful. That crutch of believing in a higher power is another thing that keeps Black people from exercising their power. No sir, I'm going to have to challenge you on that commonly held assumption. Wanna know the truth? The belief in a Higher Power gives Black people HOPE...much needed hope...to keep them from giving up. Some will say this belief and reliance on a Higher Power prevents them from taking the action necessary to overcome their enemies. But I say, many of our people have TRIED to overcome the Racists...and have failed. So they weren't scared or lazy or defeated in mind....they tried...and failed. So belief in Higher Power isn't the issue, it's not being smart enough to come up with a way to defeat the racists, that's the issue. One is powerless if/when they choose not to exercise it. Not necessarily because they don't have it. Not necessarily. A person can have power and choose not to use it. And a person can be genuinely powerless. ....either way, they aren't overcoming their adversaries; but we need to know how to separate the two conditions. If you believe a particular group DOES have power to overcome their enemies...when indeed they don't have the mental capacity to generate the power necessary to do so....you'll fail to address the root of the problem.
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Senator Lindsey Graham Passes Away @ 71
Yeah, and he didn't get elected either....lol. Married or not, most men aren't going to vote for an effeminate man to become president anyway. Scott's single ass didn't come close to being elected either. He learned his lesson and got married last year to try to tamp down the rumors and get himself ready for 2028.
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White Nationalists Converge on DC 4th of July
Although I don't quite understand (or maybe I do) WHY they would obey such an order, that seems to be a probability.
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Sometimes AI lies to you. Or makes up facts.
ProfD White folks have allowed Latinos & Asians to be a buffer group between Black folks & themselves. As a buffer group, white folks have allowed Latino & Asian folks to have their own communities. Well, you can't "allow" somebody to so something they aren't capable of doing. They CAN buy up property and operate businesses, so when White folks "allow" them to....it's a good investment. Historically speaking, they've "allowed" many of us to buy up property and open up businesses and still do....so how many are taking advantage of that opportunity? Black residents should be able to protect themselves from their own sons, grandsons & nephews There are 2 major issues with making it the responsibility of private citizens to protect themselves from criminals: 1. Most private citizens aren't TRAINED in self defense and how to protect themselves and others from thugs and criminals, which is why we have law enforcement agencies to begin with. You can't protect yourself as well as you THINK you can. It's THEIR duty to do so. That's what they're getting paid to do. 2. Most private citizens aren't AUTHORIZED to take the necessary...and sometimes lethal...force it takes to subdue or detain a criminal and bring them to justice. Again, that's what law enforcement are getting paid to do. If WE have to do their jobs for them, then they shouldn't get paid. Give me my tax money back....lol.
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White Nationalists Converge on DC 4th of July
There were plenty on those subway trains and buses they used to get there, though. Like I said earlier, D.C. is crawling with law enforcement from many different agencies.....yet in the various videos I've seen NOT ONE was seen anywhere near where those men were marching. I find that very strange. It's as if they all decided to take the day OFF, lol.
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Illegal To Wear Masks In D.C.
ProfD Thank you for the terms....lol.
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Psychology Of Young Black Gen X........
ProfD If one knows the reason(s) for why they are not exercising their power, they can correct it. Correct. However if a person doesn't have the CAPABILITY of knowing or understanding their own problems, there's a small chance they'll be able to correct it. No different from going to the gym & becoming stronger. Not a very good analogy. Your example of a person who goes to the gym and gets stronger operates on the premise that the person is healthy to begin with and thus exercise will make him stronger. If a person has a serious disability he may not even be able to GET to the gym, and even if he doesn't....exercise may not help. My point? There may be something fundamentally going on with some of our people that desparately trying to "show" them where they error over and over and over and over again would be a waste of time. Neely Fuller Jr. taught us that Black folks have zero bizness focusing on fun. Yes, but he didn't teach that Black folks were powerless....as is your position. Neely Fuller believed that Black people were in LESS OF A POWERFUL position than White folks, but weren't powerless; thus had enough power to improve their situation with in the system of Racism if they'd focus on that instead of always having "fun". YOUR position...if I may be so bold as to tell you, lol....is that Black people are powerless. Which means they pretty much can't do anything about their condition. So why waste energy trying to? Fact is most Black people are afraid to die. True. It's a natural instinct. However I don't think it's death itself that most Black people are afraid of so much as it's the MANNER that they die. A lot of older Black people are READY to die, if it means simply going to bed, clasping their hands together, and closing their eyes. Violence has led to more power than any other action in human history. Don't agree. I think INTELLIGENCE has led to more power than violence. Look at the West and look at the Middle East. The Middle East is FULL of violence with violent people and have been that way for centuries. The West is violent but far less violent than the Middle East, but more powerful and advanced. Why? I'd argue that our society is more intelligent. A person with that mentality has already been defeated. No. They haven't been defeated because there hasn't been any struggle. They simply didn't even bother trying. If a man on his way to the bar-b-que joint to get a slab of ribs is fat, sloppy, and ugly as hell.....he may see a beautiful woman walking down the street and desire her but he decides to ignore her and keep on to the rib joint. Smart move. Why even take the chance and risk probable rejection when you can save face AND enjoy your ribs at the same time? In a terminal condition, that person should do everything they could have ever wanted to do in life as long as it doesn't bring hurt, harm or danger to other people. However, Black people should not allow the system of racism white supremacy to render them powerless into perpetuity. If a person is indeed powerless, how can THEY prevent that from happening? A HIGHER POWER certainly can flip the script and put Black people in a position where they won't be rendered powerless...but if Black people themselves are powerless, what can they do? Instead, Black folks should treat racism white supremacy like a terminal condition & do everything possible to dismantle & destroy it. Again, if they are...as you say...powerless, what CAN they do to dismantle and destroy it? Nigga better go somewhere and sit down, eat a pizza, and watch TV....before they take THAT away from his ass.
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White Nationalists Converge on DC 4th of July
ProfD I'm definitely not advocating that people calm down &/or ignore a situation in which they feel intimidated or threatened. They should have called the police. I agree. But if the police weren't going to do anything anyway....why even bother? Like I said, learned helplessness. If they marched anywhere around me SOMEBODY would have ended up calling the police....lol...best believe that. With what I'd be holding....they'd march in a straight path UNTIL they go to my house or wherever I was standing....and then march around me like a traffic round-a-bout, lol. My point in this discussion is the police couldn't just arrest the white nationalists on general principle alone. They would have needed some type of meat on the bone. Especially under the system of racism white supremacy. Well, like I said in the other thread....no sense in going to circles over why they could or couldn't or would or wouldn't detain them. I bet if a bunch of BLACK MEN in masks confronted them or followed them around, the police would get involved.
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Senator Lindsey Graham Passes Away @ 71
ProfD There's a reason the called him Miss Graham. That dude was a throwback member of the alphabet soup community. Lol, I didn't know that was a name for him. Graham came from a time when those folks didn't pop out of the closet like a jack-in-the-box. True. Seem like that lisp would have raised suspicions though. I think Graham mentored Sen. Cory Booker & Sen. Tim Scott in that regard.🤣😎 He wasn't MUCH of a mentor because atleast Graham kept it somewhat "real" in the sense that he just stayed single and kept her personal life private. Booker and Scott apparently got tired of the rumors following them around like a fresh fart and they decided to get themselves some BEARDS...lol. They both did it right around the same time too, around 2025.....after being single for DECADES. Now Prof..... Don't be making no crazy ass jokes.....like.....they were both laying up in bed together one night and came up with the idea to get married to women so they could have a better shot at the Presidency. That wouldn't be right...lol. That would be out cold...lol