Pioneer1

Lol....Is this thread about Tituba and the Salem witch trials, or about Black girls with ADHD???? I read a book a long time ago about a Black maid named Tituba who was working for a family in New England and used some sort of Hoodoo involving dog pee to put a spell on the family she worked for.

-Well....uhh....urrh....see...what had HAPPENED was...well...see what I MEANT to say was......LOL. No, I didn't lie.....I just wasn't very accurate on my weight through out my years. I was being too general in both statements. I've been slim for the MOST part, but there were a couple times where I gained a significant amount of weight for my frame. The word "fat" was more of an exaggeration, but I was briefly overweight. From the time I was a toddler to about 7 I was overweight. And from around 29 to 33 I was overweight because of a job situation I had. But even when I was "overweight" or "fat", it was mostly in the belly and not the chest and limbs so I still had that slim look....lol.

Troy, haven't you heard the old saying "nice guys finish last"? Most women are attracted to MEN....those who exhibit the male characteristics: Bravery, Boldness, Assertiveness, They call it "thuggishness" but it's not really that because thugs are just violent criminals and many times bravery isn't even part of their make-up. Is a hooker a slut? Not in my opinon. A hooker is just a slang term for a PROSTITUTE; and prostitutes are just women or men out to make money by performing sexual acts. A slut is a derogatory name for someone who is promiscuous.....not necessarily getting paid for it.

Well asking Putin and Russia to interfere with the election and give him some dirt on Hilary Clinton IS a crime, and yet they haven't prosecuted him for that. Even though he did in on live televison. He's also incited violence at his rallies by pointing out people and telling those in the crowd to beat them up.

Because of their larger numbers and submissive/imitative mentality when it comes to Western culture, the Chinese are being groomed to be the honorary racists and take the reigns when the White population becomes too small to effectively govern the rest of the world. They are being groomed to be the "buffers" between the White elites and the rest of humanity so that Whites can rule through them. What most Whites don't realize is, just like they are grafted and THEIR time is limited....the Chinese are grafted and their time is limited also. Chinese only have a couple more thousand years on this planet than Whites.

Yeaaah, I KNOW that Rihanna look.....lol. Beautiful young lady. I don't care too much for her singing, but still........

Health and medical definitions are often very complex. Like Neely Fuller Jr. , there ARE definitions.....but we can't always trust THOSE definitions of things because they didn't come from us. So until we establish our own, there will probably be a lot of disagreements and arguing over what is what....lol.

Growing up in Detroit I remember the tail end of the 70s, and the 80s where a lot of Black people with barely a highschool education (and many didn't even have that) who were able to buy houses, buy a new car every 3 years, took care of their families, and even save up enough money to buy their own businesses from the money they were making working at these different car factories. They didn't need a college degree. Strong unions and plenty of jobs. Contrast that with the 90s where a lot of their children went off to college, got useless degrees, and came back home and couldn't find jobs in their professions and ended up selling dope, losing their parent's homes, and going to prison or ending up homeless. This isn't 100% of the cases obviously, a lot of Black children who went to college ended up living successful lives.....but most didn't. Just racked up a lot of student loan debt. Going to college and getting a lot of education is great if you're going to be a doctor or scientist or engineer, other than that....business ownership, skilled trades, and manual labor that pays decently should be a goal for most.

Considered by who? A medical professional? A medical professional who is an expert on AfroAmerican physiology? Or simply a lay person who is considering her obese based on simple observation and comparison to other women we in the media? Obesity is a medical term. Saying someone is considered obese is like being considered diabetic.....you have to have a clear criteria after a number of tests are done to make that determination.

You're right. White sugar and white flour is the same as White people, a poisonous extraction from the original. Just like white sugar is a poisonous graft from the original brown molasses Just like white flour is a poisonous graft from the original brown wheat germ White people are a poisonous graft from the original Brown people.

Who men SAY they want and like and who they end up actually SLEEPING WITH are often as different as day and night. Back when we were in our late teens and early 20s, I know a lot of dudes who used to laugh when I said I liked older women. They'd clown and say "You like saggy titties with dried up powdered milk in them, huh nigga!!!" But the weird thing is if they see me kicking it with an older co-worker in her 60s or 70s then all of a sudden they'd get jealous and wonder why she's talking to me so much and not them. Then a few weeks later they're all up in her face talking about she doesn't look her age and acting surprised that she's a grandma. Next thing you know they're telling me, "Mayne..some of these older women got BODIES on them....na'mean?????" "Yeah, but you weren't talking like that 3 weeks ago......" Nigga fulla shit..... You can't always go by what people SAY, you have to watch their BEHAVIOR to determine what's really on their minds.

Well on the flip side of that, must because someone is skinny doesn't mean they are healthy either. They say being obese puts you at risk for being diabetic and having high blood pressure, but I know quite a few skinny people who are both diabetic AND have high blood pressure. This is why I said we as AfroAmericans need to take charge of our own medicines and build our own hospitals and clinics so that we can take charge of our own health instead of relying on White science and doctors to help us. What's good for them isn't necessarily good for us. For decades White folks were pushing that Mediterranean diet bullshit where you eat a lot of bread and grains and pastas. We know a diet like that will put a lot of people at risk for diabetes because it's too rich in carbohydrates. We can't go by what THEY way....their way is often the way of death.

A preference is not a type. They are two different words. A type is someone you ONLY want. A preference is someone you would RATHER have but it doesn't exclude others.

Sheeeyit, I thought you KNEW that already.....lol

SpeakHerTruth I'm gonna lace you up on some game youngin'.......LOL. Most men don't consider a woman a slut simply because she sleeps around. It's her BEHAVIOR OUTSIDE that gets her called a ho or slut. She can have sex with SEVERAL different men, but as long as she acts like a high-class lady and dresses appropriately with respectable mannerism....the most she'll be called is a GOLD DIGGER. But hell, she could be a damn VIRGIN....but if she's walking around with booty shorts on, breasts hanging out, cussing, being loud, hoping in an out of every dudes car willing to give her a ride, don't know how to dress.....especially for her body type.....she's gonna be called a ho by a lot of men. They're going to ASSUME she sucks a lot of D's and keeps her legs open, even if she doesn't....simply because of her low class and vulgar behavior. Now I just put you up on some game.....and GAVE yo ass a golden nugget. You can either pick it up....or kick it to the side....your choice....LOL "Awwww....I don't believe that shit".

Troy Actually, most people I know have body types and weights that are pretty set. Most women I know who were petite when they were young are now petite in middle age, maybe a LITTLE bit more fat on them but still the same body type for the most part. Men I know who were fat when they were young were fat when they got older. I'm slim now in my 50s.....and I was slim when I was a teenager and in my 20s and 30s. I know a FEW people who's body types changed, but not many.

SpeakHerTruth Yes men rule society, WHITE MEN. White men make most of the laws and set most of the rules. Other groups, Black women, Asian men, Black men, White women, etc....have various bits and degrees of authority and power allowed or delegated to them but most of the power in this society is still held by White men and THEY primarily are the ones who make the decisions on what is allowed. Again, an individual Black man can TAKE charge of his women and children and community if he wants....but he must be prepared for the consequences if that woman decides to call the police on him for doing so.

Neely Fuller Jr. says that no one is truly "educated" until they have gotten everything they want and need in life. Until then, they are merely EDUCATING themselves. We must also differentiate true EDUCATION from merely academic INDOCTRINATION. : A lot of times when you go to these public Universities, they don't actually educate you and teach you what you need to know to be successful in life. They merely INDOCTRINATE you with a bunch of lies, false history, and propaganda and if you can remember it and repeat it back to them then you graduate. But you don't gain REAL KNOWLEDGE that can actually help you or your community. You often have to learn that on your own by doing your own research or experimentation.

I don't associate a light high pitched or "girly" voice with talking like a White girl. I know a lot of well educated Black women who have proper English and I don't consider them talking White. A lot of it is the inflection and dialect that gives a woman a "white girl" sound. Another thing is AfroAmerican women tend to have deeper voices that a lot of women from other ethnic groups. I know a lot of African women who's pitch is just as high or higher than White women's and if you hear them talking, it sounds like birds chirping....lol. It just shows that we as a people need to get out and explore the world more. Everybody doesn't act or sound like us.

Just like a lot of light skinned AfroAmericans are arrogant and think they are prettier and better; a lot of dark skinned AfroAmericans are angry because of low self esteem and how they are treated in this society. When I'm out in public and I see a VERY dark skinned woman with her dark skinned baby smiling, playing with her baby, showing a lot of love and affection towards that child...I almost KNOW they are from Africa. Why? Because if they grew up in the United States that dark, there esteem would be so ruined from how they were treated in school by other children and by society that they would probably be on the streets and many are locked up in jail. Africans have a higher esteem because they grew up dark skinned in a society where everyone around them who are succesful looks like them. In the U.S. it's often the opposite. Growing up being called ugly, stupid, monkey, etc....help to ruin the esteem of a lot of people and often gives them a bad attitude.

SpeakHerTruth Men have PREFERENCES.....not TYPES. What's the difference? If I have three women in front of me, I may prefer one over the other two....but I'll still sleep with the other two. I don't find them a turn off and find them attractive, just not AS attractive as the one....thus I PREFER the first over the other two. Where as with a TYPE..... Woman already has in mind she wants "this kind" of man, whether it's a tall man, big man, rich man, Black man, Chinese man, etc.....that's her TYPE of man. So if 3 men are infront of her and only one happens to be her type...she ONLY wants that one man. She doesn't just prefer him, she ONLY wants him and usually won't even think about sleeping with the others unless they do something spectacular to grab her attention. This is not every man or woman obviously, but those two differences apply to 90%. of both men and women. Men typically have preferences while women typically have types.

Chev I see you were up late at night typing a whole lot more NONSENSE. You should have been in the bed sleep, and instead you're going in circles again. Well guess what? I'm not going in circles with you! If you don't get it....you simply don't get it. You'll be on your own on the late night creep. SpeakHerTruth Yes, LET him be the man. Because in THIS society you have laws, rules, and regulations that prevent men from just BEING the men they want to be and doing what they want. We need permission for some things. You want to know where a lot of these "real men" who don't ask for permission and just DO what the hell they want to do, are? In prison, or dead. Go to your typical prison and you'll find a lot of "real men" laying on a damn bunk staring at the ceiling wondering was expressing that manhood really worth the time they're doing. No. The women must step back and allow men to be men. It's called COOPERATION and it makes for a more healthy and harmonious society; as opposed to a barbaric one like they have in some parts of the Middle East.

....OK.....keep telling yourself that.

I agree that women can't afford to look at sex recreationally like men; not just because they'll be called sluts......usually be OTHER WOMEN more so than men....but because they also run the risk of getting pregnant from sexual activity and have to bear the responsibility of taking care of any children resulting from their flings. But men don't mind trying to coerce a woman into sex because they find her attractive instead of just walking away. This is because many if not most men look at sex not only as fun and recreation but as a "challenge". They look at having sex with a woman who was originally hard to get as "conquering" her or breaking down her wall of defense.....which is a rewarding feeling. It may sound cruel on it's face, but if a man is weak and wimpy when it comes to women and sex.....he'll often be weak and wimpy when it comes to the other challenges of life, and a lot of women instinctively know this. Which is why they would rather take an arrogant and persistent asshole of a man over one who is more respectful of her wishes but easily gives up on pursuing her.

Sounds like Chinese food to me.....lol